It's pretty clear that if you give it away before marriage, not many men are going to marry you. They'll just keep playing you until you are used up. Even if you are engaged, they'll keep postponing the "big day." Then they'll throw you aside along with your bastard children. Then what are you going to do, except cry about the dirtbag? Wise up!
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2006-09-02 20:11:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree 100%!!Finally a man with some smarts on here!!BUt your wasting your time dude most of these women dont listen thats why they are always in here crying over some looser!Its mostly women with no self-esteem,if only they would get a back bone to them then maybe they would listen!But great advice caouldnt said it no better myself just hopefully one women will take it and do something with what you have said!
2006-09-02 20:25:25 · answer #1 · answered by blondie 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't entirely agree with that - yet there is "some" element to that as well. I think it mostly depends upon the individuals involved. If a woman wants to marry and seems like the guy is not the marrying kind, she is already wasting her time on him. I think you will see fewer marriages bc women are already having careers and supporting themselves. They can always have a child with or without a man, or even adopt. I know a single woman that did adopt.
No reason for a woman to put up with s h i t these days. Men be informed!
2006-09-02 20:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's true about a lot of guys, but their are some out there that aren't like that. I'm with a guy and we have a son and another one on the way and we are engaged. The only reason we haven't gotten married yet is because of money.
2006-09-02 20:22:38 · answer #3 · answered by BabyBoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not true at all, plenty of couples that are in love have sex before marriage and continue while married! Try reversing that question...why should a woman marry a man if he is going to give sex? Gender discrimination!
2006-09-02 20:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by hazeleyedbambi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, a man wants to marry me because he has realised that we have a unique joy when we are together which completes us and makes life a marvel every day. And we have had sex before marriage. I am sorry that you live in such a cruel, bitter personal universe. Your problem, not ours.
2006-09-02 20:22:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing is stud-that sex is just a lustful act that any women can perform on herself and feel just as well. But love and making love with a commitment is something of a jewel that obviously you have no idea about.
2006-09-02 20:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by earthmothermoon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of reasons why people don't marry. And a lot of reasons why people do marry. It's hard for me to believe that sex is going to "use you up". I've heard people say that you wouldn't buy a pair of shoes without trying them on first, would you?
2006-09-02 20:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by charlies mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who is getting played? Maybe we are just using you gigolos for sex.
Maybe we need to have sex with you to be sure we are not getting ripped off and ending up with Mr.Teeny-weeny
Maybe while you are paying for dinner to have sex, we are saving all our money in a big fat account.
Besides, we can always "pretend" we are practically virgins if we do meet someone we really want.
2006-09-02 20:24:01 · answer #8 · answered by busybody12 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is about spending the rest of you life with the one you love, not about getting sex whenever you want it.
If your only goal in a marriage is so you can have sex, then you shouldn't get married.
2006-09-03 04:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by Jason 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why would a woman marry you if you sure as hell have no respect for women? Men are easy anyways. and there are like so many of them out there. Those who play and are disrespectful to women, wont have a good end.
2006-09-02 20:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by Niki 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋