I am Christian and I feel very bad when I have to masturbate. My wife has emotional issues and the only way she fills free about sex is when she masturbate. She told me several times that she wants to have sex and I am always ready for that but I also suffer from erectil disorder. I know that I can take medication and when I do so, my problem is gone. What should I do? Masturbate just like her? Wait more than I already did?
2006-09-02 04:38:41 · 20 answers · asked by bme24_7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have read a great number of questions relating to sexually dysfunctional Christian couples. I have come to the conclusion that Christian churches should provide a full time sex therapist for their congregations.With as frequently as the issues arise for Christian couples it seems some preventative measure would be appropriate.
2006-09-02 09:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Here is a suggestions, why don't you aid your wife in her masturbation by giving her a helping hand. Once you get her a helping hand that should break the ice to lead to other things. Make sure you have taken your medication, so you can be ready.
2006-09-02 04:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went with the aid of and am going for the period of the identical form of ingredient different than i'm the spouse in this occasion. I used to continuously ask my husband if we could have intercourse or make the strikes and get close down lots of the time. I hate being rejected so after a even as i ended soliciting for it lots and could watch for him to make the 1st pass. i ought to confess that now he's often needing it and now he's the only getting close down. the clarification I refuse is via issues that he has performed or hadn't performed (relatives popular jobs). that truly turns me off;somebody who's irresponsible. in particular circumstances while he's placing out to get stressful for soliciting for it each and every of the time, I even have reported "honey you will probable get greater in case you may provide up bugging me lots approximately it, i will permit you be responsive to while i'm interior the temper." Then when I get interior the temper I make the 1st pass. try doing issues around the domicile to your spouse, the feared dishes or vaccuming etc. and provide her a %. on the cheek and say there you pass honey, I did it to make you chuffed. ( you ought to indicate it however) Then save on with your day. She'lI watch you walk away and think of awww he's so candy. it may not artwork the 1st time yet for me this is a super activate while a guy cleans or perhaps chefs 'for me' and if i'm not unsuitable i think of this is going for lots of females . quickly you would be interior the mattress room and she or he'll be throughout you. provide it somewhat bit time however, at last it is going to artwork! till you already do each and every of the domicile stuff then this would not observe. good good fortune on gettin some.
2016-12-14 16:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation is nothing to be ashamed of, however, it should not take the place of a normal healthy sexual relationship. Please see a doctor and get treated for your ED. Maybe then your wife will not feel like masturbation is her only option.
2006-09-02 04:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by worldwise1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bible doesn't say masterbation is wrong, only some old kooks with the Catholic Church came up with that one. To covet means to want something you can't have - your wife is your wife and that's different.
V-I-A-G-R-A and mutual whack-a-mole sessions should cure your problem. Take twice daily and DON'T call me in the morning.
2006-09-02 05:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some time, when she is ready she will let you know. i'm guess with whatever is going on with her life right now the only thing that is good for her is to masturbate.
2006-09-02 04:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by LilahFairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe a good marriage counselor or sex therapist would be a way to go for you. Sex is very important in a marriage.
2006-09-02 04:42:04 · answer #7 · answered by peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad if she masturbates at least shes not looking some where else.
2006-09-02 04:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by tushpush1966 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sharing the experience with her. Use your imagination, be creative, and don't worry so much about doing the "Christian" thing. You're in bed with your wife, not in church with your fellow parishioners.
2006-09-02 04:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by My Evil Twin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to find a way to plz her and yet she has to find a way to plz you
what goes on in your bedroom is between you and your wife and what ever it takes to make you or her happy god wont punish you because that is what you guys are there for each other
2006-09-02 05:13:05 · answer #10 · answered by randy g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋