Marriage & Divorce - 1 September 2006

My wife and I have been separated for over a year, but have been seeing each other during this time. Last Sunday we planned on meeting and sitting down to talk about where we are going with this, so I went over to her place around noon, and 5 minutes later she pulls up with some other dude still in nightclub clothes from the night before (obviously spent the night with him). Yet she calls me 2 days before that crying that she wants to get together. Now that I caught her, she has changed her cell number, and I feel like I want revenge. Am I wrong?

2006-09-01 11:08:53 · 40 answers · asked by johnlawdog232003 2

this is such a disgustingly true cliche!

2006-09-01 10:56:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was deployed to Iraq for 7 months. This was my 4th deployment over there since 9/11.

Since I have been back my wife won't have sex with me. Not even on the first night back. So now i am going on 8 months with no nookie.

What is going on and what should I do?

2006-09-01 10:55:50 · 18 answers · asked by deitz742004 1

I was just wondering if there were any women out there that have husbands that DONT look at porn? I was just wondering if I even had a chance at all to find someone who doesn't like it. LoL

2006-09-01 10:45:44 · 33 answers · asked by lilredthetease 2

I met this guy and we are chatting all the time. He is so nice and we are just friends. I just did not let anyone know. Is it wrong to keep secrets, or is this okay, being in the middle of a separation.

2006-09-01 10:42:43 · 29 answers · asked by jpet 2

2006-09-01 10:41:18 · 18 answers · asked by the_wire_monkey 2

I don't want to divorce, & I don't want to hurt anyone. When people feel like this do they just stay together for the heck of it and do their own thing or what?

2006-09-01 10:40:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

But can't get over it when their husband does it?

2006-09-01 10:27:30 · 19 answers · asked by Married Male 2

I have been married for 10 years. I had kids and lost all the weight. I'm 38. I think I look okay but my husband doesn't have much interest in me. He's always too busy or too tired to have sex. I admit that I don't often make the first move, mostly because I wish he would do that. I feel so undesirable. I flirt with him and walk around in my underwear (or in the nude) but it doesn't really affect him. I know he is faithful to me and has never cheated on me (he is too busy with work, anyways). I'm fairly conservative in the bedroom and am not into toys or games but would like to make love weekly if not more. I want to feel desired and loved! I want him to feel good, too, but I don't want to do anything weird (he has told me that he's not into experimental stuff, either). I do offer to give him oral sex, too, and he usually takes me up on that.

2006-09-01 10:25:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for 14 years, and it didn't bother me at the beginning (the first few years) but I see how proud some men are to wear their wedding ring and it makes me sad about my situation :(

2006-09-01 10:21:31 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just wanted to know all of your opinions on the other women.... affairs this subject in general.. im leaving this vague...

2006-09-01 10:21:17 · 21 answers · asked by lady 2

2006-09-01 10:20:39 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

We've been seperated for 11months and both seeing new people. But on my birthday he bought me a dozen red roses! Is that the sign of a man whose over his woman? So what are the signs? Please give me some real answers...

2006-09-01 10:20:14 · 7 answers · asked by nashiranickel 3

Men are such chauvinists. Sure of themselves neanderthals. Come on fells learn to multi task and deal wiv pain!!!

2006-09-01 10:17:13 · 17 answers · asked by tad 1

2006-09-01 10:12:43 · 31 answers · asked by tad 1

I am 25 and I just had my first baby with my husband. We have been married for 3 years and have been togeather for 8. We never had problems before and now he is saying he is not happy he works all the time and then tells me things like he doesnt know if he loves me but then when I think things just cant get any worse he does stuff like he wants to spend time with me and cuddle i dont know what is going on we where so happy before

2006-09-01 10:08:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-01 10:06:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband got us tickets for a 4 day trip everything included. He took off without me. He didn't want me to go with him. Should I pack up my stuff including all the furniture and abandon him?
Is taking our furniture against the law?

2006-09-01 10:06:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Especially hate ones, called love songs.

2006-09-01 09:57:55 · 13 answers · asked by Chris cc 1

Okay this is the situation I have been married for over 16years I take care of my mother-in-law while my husband has his affairs with other women now I have taken care of his mom and dealt with this for the past 16years he is abusive verbably and mentaly and at times physically and his 84 year old mom knows this .
Now I have filed for divorce but not served him because I want to move out first I know if I serve him while I am at home he will come after me . He does come and go from the house because his mom still gives him permission to come in . Now the reason I am concerned is because she suffers heart problems and he is her only son there is no one else to take care of her.

2006-09-01 09:56:02 · 7 answers · asked by flipper 1

or asked to come get him to spend time or even asked about him period...since a few weeks after he was born???...have not heard from him... but he lives less than a mile a way... should i call and ask if he wants to visit his son or if he wants me to bring him over so he can see him... or should i not have to offer that??? my friend said i shouldnt have to ask him 2 spend time wit his son????? true??? the last time we spoke i told him i would never turn him away if he wanted to see his son?? but what do u think?? it feels like to me it would be forceing him to see him if i called to ask????? sorry if this is hard to understand??

2006-09-01 09:52:41 · 26 answers · asked by ♫♪♥PUSSaY FART♫♪♥ 3

2006-09-01 09:45:51 · 30 answers · asked by Patsfan 1

I mean really……. What HUMAN can really do that??!

2006-09-01 09:43:59 · 28 answers · asked by Engage Me 4

Ok we got divorced in 2004 he has a new girlfriend who has 6 kids 2 are bilogical his. Well I have 2 kids by the same guy and he doesnt take care of them. No holidays birthdays nothing. He comes around whenever it fits him. Then I have to drop everything to fit him. i just cant understand why he wont help me but hes willing to give this girl and all her kids everything.

2006-09-01 09:32:55 · 16 answers · asked by Stacy O 1

Do you consider having female friends having an affair if your married.If your having phone conversations with the female that you wouldn't say in front of your spouse.

2006-09-01 09:32:01 · 32 answers · asked by BB 2

My boyfriend has 5 kids from a previous marriage. I'm glad he loves his kids, but he always has "other obligations" that he feels he must do. Whenever we plan something together, he has to back out. He coaches football and baseball. His two oldest girls are now in high school. I never seem important enough. We never get any time alone. I go the extra mile for him, but he doesn't go the extra mile for me. He can never fulfil his promises to me. Am I wrong to be upset with him when his kids keep us apart?

2006-09-01 09:26:29 · 7 answers · asked by pfwqjkhk 2

i have the best husband in the whole world cuz we met when i was pregnant with my ex baby and weve been married for four years. he works two jobs just so i can have the better things in life and he never complains:) tell me, why your hubby or bf the best in your eyes?

2006-09-01 09:20:25 · 9 answers · asked by notyochic 6

My husband would like to have a threesome, fmf, and I am curious. How would we go about getting another girl? What kind of repruccusions would there be if any? Have any married couples done this? Did you like it?

2006-09-01 09:16:30 · 15 answers · asked by Becky 3

2006-09-01 09:07:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my verbally abusive husband for 8 years. We love eachother but he has a very verbally abusive mouth & temper. I have been going to counseling but he doesn't think he needs it. He doesn't hit me but he says very mean things about me when he's mad. We have 2 children together and he'll do this even in front of them. He's a great guy otherwise. I just wish tat he could change. We were seperated for 2 months and decided to give it another try. He's been back for 2 weeks and has not slept in the bed with me, he's on the couch. Also, his clothes are still in his truck. He's not being mean, just distant. Also, he stayed over his parents house during this and they hate me and feed him a bunch of garbage that I think has him confused. He needs to put us first but I think their opinions matter to him also. Mind you we are in our early 30's. I'm just wondering why he came back if he's going to be so distant. Did I make the right choice? What can I do to make things right?

2006-09-01 09:01:16 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous