2006-09-01 09:45:51 · 30 answers · asked by Patsfan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
At least he is taking care of himself and not letting someone else..
2006-09-01 09:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by momof3isme 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
It's funny, I just recently had this "what does it all mean" conversation with my girlfriend from my senior year in high school. It took me a very (VERY) long time to get her to have sex with me, and even then, she acted like it was some kind of imposition, and yet at the time, I just took it, because I didn't know any better. So when we has this conversation, I asked her about it, and she treated it like it was no big deal, because she was seeing it only from her context. So I explained it from an alternate point-of-view.
(Keep in mind that she's now 31 and I'm 34.) I asked to imagine that, now that her body has entered its sexual prime, that she was dating someone new, that was willing to "fool around" with her, but resisted all attempts to have sex with her. She admitted that would be extremely frustrating, but she said that it wasn't the same thing, because she's an adult now.
But, to a teenage boy, that doesn't matter. Teenage boys are EXTREMELY HORNY ALL THE TIME. It will be at least ten years (or more) before you'll have any kind of concept of this. He masturbates because his body demands it of him. If this is such a problem to you now, stop dating. Any other teenage boys you date will be doing the exact same thing. Or else they'll be have sex with other girls too. Just let it be.
2006-09-01 17:00:46 · answer #2 · answered by yossarius 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you not satisfying him enough to stop his masturbation ? It is normal for men to masturbate even when he has a partner. But if excessive doing it to himself, then something must be wrong with your relationship with him. Openly discuss with him about this. You don't need to use belt -- he is not an animal.
2006-09-01 17:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by dolphin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that if it's something you both agree is a problem and would like to address...it's a great idea...check out...http://www.angelfire.com/id2/Hawaii/MaleCh.html...for some straight forward advice on why to try male chastity and what YOU can expect tp get out of it.
2006-09-01 17:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by Rainy Day 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no
sensible
he could end up with a bad case of self-love and "it" may refuse 2 play the game 4 u!
2006-09-01 16:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you try to do that, he'll be gone in a second. and, all the time is more than once a day, so just get off his *** and let him on yours. Thats probably why he masturbates. cause u wont give him any.
2006-09-01 16:50:36 · answer #6 · answered by Modest Moose 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Sweetie, I wish someone would have told me the truth about men 25 yrs ago, so hopfully I can help you now. PLEASE...don't take his masturbation as a personal assult against yourself......that's not why he does it!!! Below are some websites than can explain it better than I could. Even the guys that SWEAR they don't do....REALLY DO!!!! They can't help it, the same way they can't help but breath,...it's just natural.GOOD LUCK!!!
http://www.askmen.com/love/love_tip/37_love_tip.html
http://www.ex-designz.net/articleread.asp?aid=998
http://www.wayneandtamara.com/topicmaster.htm
2006-09-01 16:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by LuvyDuvy 2 · 0⤊ 4⤋
He is not hurting anyone leave him alone. I might if he doesn't want this belt he wont wear it and why should he? Would you rather he go out and have sex with other women? If it bothers you that much leave him!
2006-09-01 16:49:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
You can ask him:why you do it,man, you have me,what's up to you,what is going on in your mind?He has addiction and having you is really bad.Good luck.
2006-09-01 16:50:13 · answer #9 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he has a lot of time on his hands, (and a little more of something else on his hands as well.) perhaps you should help him find a hobby.
2006-09-01 16:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by jan_23_15 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋