Marriage & Divorce - 1 September 2006

My husband is so in the dumps. He just lost his job and our marriage is being restored after infedility (his, not mine). I want to give him a special birthday but we are struggling financially....and due to the recent infedelity, sexually too. Any ideas to let him know I love and appreciate him without spending too much money or jumping in the sak.

2006-09-01 08:58:48 · 14 answers · asked by mauihillside 3

I'm just curious,that's all! :P

2006-09-01 08:53:32 · 34 answers · asked by dinca eliza 1

2006-09-01 08:52:37 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

..truly loved you. And loved your children. And took care of all of the bills. And helped your family out whenever they needed him. But he had outside affairs from time to time.

Would it be worth staying with him? Before you say an automatic YES or NO..give it some thought.

2006-09-01 08:48:45 · 23 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5

This guy asks the most outrageous questions, but more and more women seem to jump in and answer. Just out of curiosity, do you women find this kind of guy (a) attractive (b) a challenge (c) any other answer.

2006-09-01 08:40:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have moved out with two teenaged boys. The biggest reason is that I found a brown envelope loaded with notes about me. Everytime I would piss him off he would write it down, date it and file it away in a locked toolbox. He would call me names in these notes such as I have no logic or common sense, stupid *****, can't manage the fridge so how would she manage the visa card. Not responsible enough to have a visa card ( I am 36 yrs old and been with him for 22 yrs, 12 yrs married on Sunday). So I have said that I want to go to counscelling and he is all for it and willing to pay for his and mine. Which is hard to believe since he is such a tight *** with $. What I want to know is how to tell him that I want to work this out but I can't ever go back to that life again. The Trust issue is gone for me. He verbally, emotionally and mentally abused me for years and then stopped that and began writing all of it down.
The teen sons don't want to go back and live as a family either.

2006-09-01 08:31:36 · 21 answers · asked by teulonbranchlibrary 3

2006-09-01 08:30:58 · 44 answers · asked by lizdouglas_liz 2

I am getting married to a woman in India; since the India is a cultural country, I would like to know whether the Indian Women usualy take contraceptive for the first night or not?

2006-09-01 08:29:39 · 16 answers · asked by shameeksurfs 1

The father and son live in California, the mother lives in Virginia. When the son goes to visit the mother for visitations, who has to pay for his airline tickets?

2006-09-01 08:28:44 · 13 answers · asked by Dasiavuu 2

2006-09-01 08:28:28 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-01 08:25:59 · 19 answers · asked by Amber F 1

I've been with my husband for over four years. We've been married for almost one year. When we first met, I was very overweight. A year ago, I lost 126 pounds and look completely different. I do have to say that I look fantastic now! My problem is that I get hit on constantly. And no, I'm not trying to be conceited! I'm not used to all this attention. I get hit on by strangers, the men that I work with, the customers. I just don't know what to do or how to react because I've never had this before. I'm used to being "that invisible fat girl". I love my husband with all of my heart and soul. How do I fend off these men? They don't even care that I have a wedding ring on! I'm really getting aggravated.

2006-09-01 08:24:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-01 08:24:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-01 08:22:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What is the one thing that you do with you husdand/boyfriend that just drives him wild in bed. I am looking to make our love life sizzel again! Any suggestions?

2006-09-01 08:14:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lets say you are in your late 20's almost 30...Your about to marry a woman & found out that she can not have children. Would that hinder your descion to marry her? Even if you want children one day?
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Im afraid no man will ever love me enuf to marry me, b/c I can not have babies :(

2006-09-01 08:14:18 · 25 answers · asked by not-really-me V 1

I am doing a project for my professional development class, about which is chosen more common law marriage or legal marriage and why. So I would like know what do you think about this subject and which you think is chosen more in the US or your views on common law marriage. Thanks in advance for the all the people who answer I really appreciate your feedback being that this is a very debated subject.

2006-09-01 08:14:12 · 16 answers · asked by PurpleMoon031 2

I know I am, how about you?

2006-09-01 08:06:55 · 33 answers · asked by Andy S 3

Until 48 years of age I had a perfect erection. I feel shy before my wife. Diabetic is controlled for the last 15 years by pills -dianil, metformin and ramipril.

2006-09-01 07:59:51 · 28 answers · asked by gunetilake 2

if you husband or wife worked away from the house for two weeks at a time and what would you let them do when they got home

2006-09-01 07:57:57 · 15 answers · asked by sweet al 2

I have be married for 10 years. My husband treated me like trash, calling me stupid, a bad mother, lazy, fat, oh and the best one... he said I was too fat to have sex with - I was 7 months pregnant when he said this. He knows everything better, he's an alcoholic, he is gross perveted and he left me for his 18 year old cousin, he is 37. I don't love him any more. I am in a relationship with a man who loves me for me and doesn't call me names or hurt my feelings. Why can't I get over this separation/divorce thing? Why do I hate him for dating his cousin? Yes, it's sick but why should I care? Why do I fight with him in my head all the time? He is still trying to treat me like crap but I am stronger now and I talk back and defend myself. How do I get him to understand that he asked for the divorce so he needs to treat me with respect because I'm not his "property" anymore? Help me clear my mind.

2006-09-01 07:55:37 · 15 answers · asked by calichick 1

I would like you to think about this,,,,,,,,,

Marriages should be simular to a 3 year car lease. After the 3 years are up, you have an option to renew your vows or go your seperate ways. This will happen every three years.

Any way we can work on this idea?

Male, Married 8 years... (for you ladies, don't bother responding if all your gonna say is "I feel sorry for your poor wife!" boring!!!)

2006-09-01 07:46:30 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive come around to the idea of my wife not loving me anymore but im not goin to just go out and find someone straight away cos i think it doesnt have much of a meaning if i did that to the marriage we once had so ive asked if she would like to stay friends as shes in the house we own and to make love still without the meaning of love being involved,is it wrong or right

2006-09-01 07:40:57 · 38 answers · asked by GEOFF R 1

he's looking at porn and/or talking to other women in chat? even if he says he loves you everyday?

2006-09-01 07:38:06 · 33 answers · asked by rnash0305 2

2006-09-01 07:34:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has had three affairs. Her latest one was with a guy she met while away at her home town. She is 40 and he was 29. She met him at a bar and I assume things clicked and well, who knows what really happened. She says nothing happend but I've read her emails from this guy and they are all sexual in content.
This would be the third time I've caught her cheating. I cant take it anymore and want to kick her out. We have two boys, 14 and 16. Can I leagaly pack her bags and change the locks?

2006-09-01 07:32:20 · 44 answers · asked by Pilot 202 1

I hate when I interrupt someone, it's so rude.

2006-09-01 07:28:06 · 52 answers · asked by Lothario 1

She has had nothing to do with this spouse for over a year do to the fact that he is a dead beat father who doesn't pay child support and was abusive in the relationship. I really like this woman, but don't know if we should get invovled this fast or if I should hold back and wait for things to be finalized? But then again I don't need a piece of paper telling me its over. Just curious what you guyz think?

2006-09-01 07:22:00 · 26 answers · asked by Celticgreen 2

2006-09-01 07:09:11 · 16 answers · asked by cd_ladnam 1

My husband and I have been married for 16 years and just recently I found out that he was meeting girls at the mall or stores and getting there phone numbers and calling them.. He ended up taking one out to lunch --well he took her out to lunch about 4 or 5 times. Then he met another one and took her out to lunch too.
He tells me that all he did was take them to lunch-no physical contact. I was very hurt by this- Our marriage has not been perfect but I did'nt think he would do this. He feels really bad to where he seems to have some kind of depression. We have talked and even cried about all of this. We have two beautiful children that we love very much.


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2006-09-01 07:05:38 · 49 answers · asked by high energy 1