Marriage & Divorce - 17 August 2006

What I mean to say is, would God approve of prenups?

2006-08-17 17:16:18 · 7 answers · asked by gwibsy 1

i am married and me and my husband have been fighting , he is always mad and he shows alot of anger around our 4 kids he gos to the store for a drink or something and don't come back for like 4 hours he is gone all the time all hours of the night, he says he stays gone because i ask him if on his day off he would help me clean, so any way i thought we needed some time apart and i went to my moms for awhile and now he don't want me back he don't want nothing to do with me or his kids , i told him his kids need a father in there life and he said well go find them one. should i do anything i can to get him back or should i say to hell with him? please help me

2006-08-17 17:16:12 · 24 answers · asked by mother of 4 1

I have so many friends whom are married and they have been telling abt their husband who cheats on them. Why is it forgivable for men to cheat and not women? Why must is it the men are teh ones who makes or break the marrige? Why is it all about the men??

2006-08-17 17:10:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I posted about my husband being so sharp by just telling me that he has nothing to say about what I found out. I felt really suicidal 2 months ago when he betrayed me. He has since try to be nice and give me no reason to doubt him but when I discovered more stuff from the past I am really angry and feel so betrayed. I have no one in USA to talk to and that i am in now ay want to discuss him with my family cos I left my family to be with him..........I am so afraid what I may do to myself....Help

2006-08-17 17:07:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-17 17:02:55 · 47 answers · asked by ladyluck 2

I married a girl in temple simply applying Sindoor,and tying mangalsutra around her neck.No saat phere is taken before fire,is it a legitimate marriage as per Hindu law,what is the legality of it,now we are living separately,what is the best way,should I go for Divorce/separation.
what if she neither agree to divorce nor to live together.
plz. advice

2006-08-17 17:00:03 · 1 answers · asked by yours h 1

I am home for the summer and I just got back from my boyfriend's house. He said I could stay over whenever I wanted, but I know my parents wouldn't approve, but whenever I come home they are arguing anyways. How can I let them know that I don't feel welcome into their home when whenever I come home they are always fighting? I have tried to tell them before, but they say that their fighting isn't that bad or that they don't fight that much. It makes me want to run right back in the direction I came from, to my boyfriend. It really stresses me out and bother me when they are fighting, what can I say or do to let my parents know that this is really affecting me?

2006-08-17 16:59:01 · 47 answers · asked by cutie pie 5

do you all truely get over your ex? does your ex get jealous now that you found someone you care about? do you feel sorry for your ex? do you feel for Her? do you not like your present love to say anything negative about your ex why? Do your ex do stupid things to make you mad for no reason? Does your ex want you back because you have someone? Do you all talk about your past? Do you feel that your partner now who has no kids or ex' suppose to believe and understand? Do you ever think about wanting them back? Is the conversations only truely about the kids?

2006-08-17 16:58:35 · 8 answers · asked by Smile 2

I have asked three questions about my husbands friend who was his ex girlfriend 8 years back, and I just want to ask you guys do i need to worry about a girl who HAS a man and who is excited about mabye getting engaged, calling my husband and wanting to hang out with his family again and his sister? And when she calls he doesn't mention to me that he talked with her......the whole thing confuses me when she has her own man. ( they only broke up because of distance 8 years ago.)

2006-08-17 16:57:56 · 17 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

I used to live in Puerto Rico for 27 years. I got married when I was 25 and separated 1yr. 1/2 later. We never filed for a divorce because I moved to Louisiana. I have been living here for one year. We have been separated for 2 years. Now, how do I file for a divorce in Puerto Rico? We do not have any together (house, car, bills) nothing!

2006-08-17 16:53:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

He owes 17,000$ in child support and 5200$ in interest. Has never had a steady relationship with them. They are two beautiful little girls, 9 and 8. I need to learn to forgive, But I really just want him to suffer for 5 or 6 years.

2006-08-17 16:49:13 · 15 answers · asked by Sabrina the Adult Witch 1

I discovered from my husband's computer that he has been emailing a woman from a printing company using his office email address and that he suggested lunch or something on his off day. I never knew him to spend time for me and take off work to do something or do anything for me. Although this email was 2 years ago, he has proven to be a cheater when he betrayed me and befriended single women on match.com. We have since try to work out this marriage. When I confronted him just now he told me that everthing with his work email is all work related and that he has nothing more to add. What is really worrying me is that he said that I might as well go "home" to my country by myself and he will be happy to send me to the airport. He purchased for us 2 tickets and we had plan a holiday in the Far East. Can someone let me know why he reacted the way he did. I am so deeply hurt and depress and I dont know what to do. I love him so dearly.

2006-08-17 16:44:57 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband hits me and is aggresive when he gets mad. today my puppy pooped and started to eat some of it when he told me that I was a stupid idiot for not watching him. I told him to leave the house because I had enough and we got into it. he then went and shook my puppy's kennel with him in it and started agrresively swating and triing to hit the kennel, that is when I told him he better leave the house he said no that i should leave and we started yelling at eachother. When he could not take it anymore he threw a plastic container that hit my arm and welted and bruised it, he then started looking for other things to throw at me I could not try to stop him. I went into the bathroom and he went outside to smoke, I locked him out of the house and called his mom, she says that he is wrong and that we should get therapy... but Ive had enough. I do not have the power to get up and leave since we have everything together; we are buying my dads house, he wants me to go instead of him. help

2006-08-17 16:40:35 · 48 answers · asked by Naomi M 1

Would you think the other party welcomed such moves? Do you think it is wise to reestablish contact?

2006-08-17 16:37:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

has this happen to you you realized what you had once or do you know anybody that truly regrets losing there spouse they treated badly &never appreciated.

2006-08-17 16:37:32 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in a relationship with a man who has an ex wife n a son in the Phillipine, I'm not pinoy so I can't understand their conversation or text. When they talk I don't like 2B in the same room it hurts me coz he would ask me 2B silent. He don't want her to no about us b/c he claim she can take her son n hide or run. I understand how much his son means 2 him considering we are gonna have 1 ourself. But now that their annulment is final he claim that a group that's against annulment in the Phillipine is filing some kind of petition against his annulment so is not really final. I don't no. He had told me that his relationship with this women was over b4 I even came in2 the picture so I don't really feel bad but sometime when I see what she text him or once when I sat there n listen to how he talk 2 her it doesn't seem over. Like there is still something there I mean I understand if there is b/c she's his baby mother. He tell me I'm the one he want 2 b w/ wat should I believe my gut or him?

2006-08-17 16:35:43 · 6 answers · asked by Sexy C 1

in a marriage with the same man for the second time trying to make it work just not cutting it i try and he says he is happy i can not stand him i need out and he holds on stonger but it turns into more controlling and no space at all i have not done anything wrong just hates everyone i talk to even my mom. i want out but don't know how to say it

2006-08-17 16:34:31 · 15 answers · asked by angie s 1

Does anyone know why a man would talk about everything else that went on during the day BUT the fact that his exgirfriend/friend (from 8 years back) called and they had about a 10 min conversation? And if a man says simply "It was not a big deal" what is he really saying?

2006-08-17 16:31:53 · 35 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

It doesn't matter how much money he's got, or how big his anatomy is, if the magic ain't there it won't make you happy. Am I wrong?
It takes 2 to keep the passion alive.

2006-08-17 16:28:09 · 8 answers · asked by Helzabet 6

2006-08-17 16:28:03 · 10 answers · asked by Michael G 1

2006-08-17 16:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by tracey.xoxo 1

2006-08-17 16:17:49 · 25 answers · asked by ariesmegs 2

I have a strained rel with my wife for a long time(yrs). Only recently I met this other woman. I am in another country and away from family/ "duty of a husband" for almot 1.5 yr. We communicate with phone only (same country/same city). But I feel pangs to her and to myself(guilt for my marriage/family). I some time want to get away from ALL these and be myself again (unhappy but no guilt). But now I like her a lot but don't want to hurt her. I also lied to her about marriage - I want/wanted to break someday somehow . That is another pangs. Now I don't know how and when (or at all). Should have been straight in the first day itself. But I thought she won't be serious. But now she is serious and likes me etc. She calls me everyday. She is also the type that I love.I don't see any opportunity to go back to my country/city soon(for the purpose of job). She is also from another country ( not my country and also country of our residence) . She is unmarried and away from her family.

2006-08-17 16:16:34 · 7 answers · asked by "I" 1

My husband's exgirlfriend/now friend back from high school 8 years ago wants to have conversation with me.....i personally don't feel good about him talking with her because they only broke up because of distance. Is it a good or bad idea to become freinds with the exgirlfriend and let her close to me? I'm 30 she is 23.

2006-08-17 16:13:46 · 28 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

I been with a grl for 6 years. She claims that I know exactly what's in her mind, rather know her better then she knows herslf. Even then she lies to me all the time? Why grls lie?People Tell me! Please...

2006-08-17 16:10:14 · 9 answers · asked by VJ 1

My husband and his exgirlfriend are still friends they dated in high school which was about 8 years back. They still talk and she calls him once in awhile and talks with his family..., she tells me she is just his friend and wantsto be mine, but the only reason they broke up is because he went to boot camp. She is with a guy now, but can two people be over each other when the only reason they broke up is because of distance? Or do you think they still have feelings there? I think they do.....my husband doesn't tell me even when he talks with her.

2006-08-17 16:09:59 · 19 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

My wife tore of her Mangalsutra and insulted me at my inlaws place and told me goodbuy, because i spoke to my mother on the phone. Now she is saying sorry and wants to join me back what should i do ? I had been to my inlaws place to attend a marriage party.

2006-08-17 16:07:22 · 21 answers · asked by coolguy2695 2

I was married to a Chinese girl and we just got divorced. My brother-in-law is the sponsor so I dont want her to come here incase she incures any bills. I called the immigration department but they said I cant cancel it. Is that true? She said she doesnt want to come to the US but I would sleep better if I knew there was something I could do. Any feedback is appreciated.

Thanks Rob

2006-08-17 16:04:35 · 2 answers · asked by Robert A 1

never been married but will be soon was with prev partner 25yrs do you think am mad ,plus i love my future wife to bits and aint getting any younger and am happy?

2006-08-17 16:03:37 · 15 answers · asked by bikerdude 2

2006-08-17 16:02:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous