Marriage & Divorce - 17 August 2006

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2006-08-17 06:07:56 · 7 answers · asked by Nick 1

I have a question I would like for a male who's experienced an affair to answer. I have been married for quite some time and recently had an affair. I did not go out on purpose to have this affair. I felt terrible and ashamed for having the affair as I still loved my husband. Some people find this hard to believe, but until you experience the lonliness in a marriage you won't know. I have voiced my concerns about us growing apart and how important is to spend time with our kids to my husband for many, many years only to have it basically ignored. The affair was over months ago and we have been to counseling and everything is going well now. We have established better communication and love for each other. Throughout this ordeal, he has remained extremely calm. My question is do you think he has has affair, which is why he remains so calm? He denies ever having an affair, but I'm perplexed at his emotional calm. I just want a man's perspective on my husband's state of mind.

2006-08-17 06:07:28 · 13 answers · asked by Grits 1

2006-08-17 05:58:47 · 28 answers · asked by Britney 2

2006-08-17 05:58:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

A girl and I from work had an affiar. We were both married, however during our time we both got divorced. Well, I should say we're separated. Our relationship wasn't supposed to be anything emotional, but we ended up falling in love with each other. I ended up getting burned really bad. We talked about everything including children. I've never wanted kids before this girl. She told me that no man has ever treated her so nicely and cared for her so much and that if we are together, she only wishes that I never change. How can she go from being in love with me to not wanting it anymore? And how do I finally put the relationship to rest even though I don't want to give up?

2006-08-17 05:58:04 · 10 answers · asked by woodersondylan 2

2006-08-17 05:56:18 · 3 answers · asked by dimpcy 1

my wife (or chubby, as i call her) has gained a few pounds in the last 8 months, its turning me off. i'm going to divorce her if she doesnt fix it really soon.

she needs to start taking care of herself, its disgusting. i dont want our baby born to a stupid mother who is fat and has such low self esteem.

2006-08-17 05:50:03 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-17 05:43:18 · 12 answers · asked by IKNOWNO 1

to Sturgis before, but a big fly smacked me square in the mouth on the ride. I nearly killed us from the swerve, scared my wife to death. Has anyone been in a near death with your significant other? Was it a life changing moment for you?

2006-08-17 05:30:02 · 16 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

Leaving my wife this week.......letting her have the house since we have a child, it really sucks.......Cant buy a new house for about a month b/c of paperwork...Anybody need a professional athletic white male/28 roomate for awhile?...................... I have a good job and will pay rent within 60 miles of St. Louis......Its just too uncomfortable around the house to stay there......

2006-08-17 05:28:39 · 18 answers · asked by Linuxiac 1

2006-08-17 05:24:57 · 38 answers · asked by manoj p 2

Hi I have been married to my husband for a little over a year now. We have been together 3 years. I have a son from a past relationship and he has 2 kids from his ex wife. Now my husband and I have a baby on the way. In a few days now! All of a sudden his 8 year old daughter does not want to come over anymore and his 13 year old son never comes over except when we are going on vacation or holidays. (pretty much when money is involved) My husband is getting really depressed about his kids not coming. i dont know how to help him. I think the ex wife is telling the kids he will not love them anymore after our daughter is born! The ex always calls about discpline problems at her house with the kids. ( I never say anything) She always wants him to do things she can do herself. I am worried that she is telling them stuff and he will get so depressed over the kids he will leave me? I tell him she is trying to break us. And he thiks so as well. I just dont know what to do or how to support him

2006-08-17 05:22:20 · 21 answers · asked by Firefly 1

wife won't change her attitude or old ways and I'm tired and frustrated.

2006-08-17 05:20:33 · 11 answers · asked by malenymph69 1

She is a cheater. I forgave her and tried to make the changes she said she needed . I now see she has been cheating with a few guys for years and 1 of them is quite emotional. I tried, I forgave and now I see what a lying whore she really is. We have 2 children in school. I want a divorce and want to stay in the house being that she is the 1 who is so unhappy here, and I want my kids to stay in there schools. Does the victim of a cheating wife have a chance during divorce hearing to get her to move out. She obviously has enough boyfriends to go to, I have no place to go.

2006-08-17 05:17:29 · 17 answers · asked by paulsexpress 2

2006-08-17 05:14:56 · 4 answers · asked by a j 2

2006-08-17 05:08:31 · 14 answers · asked by Liz K 1

MARRIED THEN DIVORCED AND MARRIED AGAIN

2006-08-17 05:07:10 · 10 answers · asked by sweetpeachyp 2

its been going on for a year now and she wont agree to anything, im paying for a kid that isnt mine, one of them supposly is, so she is fighting for me to keep paying on the one that isnt,she says i adopted her by signing birth cert., i was in prison when she was born, got out when she was1 1/2 yrs.old, but we were still married when she was born,got dna proved she wasnt mine, but they are inspecting birth cert., we have ahouse with both our names on it but she left a year ago- she hated the house-now wants half of what its worth,but its a land contract, both name on car, want my name off since she has it, she ran up thousands in medical,i cant afford this how can i hurry it along without being left with nothing?? help legal answers!!!

2006-08-17 05:03:19 · 4 answers · asked by sexy momma 1

Are men usually married by the time they hit their early 30s? Say about 30, 31, 32 or 33 years old?

2006-08-17 05:02:15 · 11 answers · asked by Charlotte 1

my husband used to be a drug attic. i trusted him last night to take a couple of pills that would make him high. and when he woke up this morning he was definately acting not like himself in a really bad way. he has 2 of the pills left and i told him to get rid of them. he wouldnt so i told him that it is the pills or me. he knows i wont leave him so i told him that i will not talk to him or go around him untill he disposes of the pills. he still hasnt. what action should i take (besides leaving him, he is a wonderful husband and father)

2006-08-17 05:00:53 · 31 answers · asked by im so yummy 1

my husband and i use to get on great but i have found out things about him the past few months that i dont like. he never told his parents that he married me and that we ahd a son,the only reason they found out was because i got hold of their address and wrote to them they have just been down to visit and they are lovely this is the first time i have met them even tho weve been married for nearly 2 years, my husband use to say that he had told them but they were close enough not to contact each other all the time,also he is constantly drinking and gets violent when he is hungover having hit both me and our son. he has joined internet dating agencies,told me that he had a daughter with his ex girlfriend this turned out to be lie and is selfish when it comes to money leaving me with very little and has also said his mates will always come first before myself and our son. im wanting to leave him but he loves our son very much and vice versa what should i do

2006-08-17 04:58:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am wanting to go to a strip club.sudden urge. does anyone know of a good one in northwest indiana?

2006-08-17 04:56:51 · 9 answers · asked by desayunogratis 3

2006-08-17 04:54:45 · 4 answers · asked by C H 2

a girl who is having physical relationship with his boy friend is going to marry another man.she was enjoying the sex with her boy friend almost weekly once for 2 years.she is not bothering her vergin layer(hymen) since she is in sports.in any other way her husbend can findout her previos sex experiense? if so what she should do to avoid?pl. give practical solution.

2006-08-17 04:47:29 · 16 answers · asked by lux k 1

it do last a life time the bad memories that what this man lefted within me and my daughter and now all I can dois leave it in god hands let him handle it he remarried hope that third wife dont have to go through the abuse like us first two did his money means nothing he rubbed it in my face how he had sex with my daughter the police did him nothing and why dont he go tell the police what he did he wont because he is and COWARD his day will come he will get this all back done unto him he will suffer what he soweth he will reap now I can move back home and stay away from this low life of an navy veteran coward man yet he the one lied to marry me if he would have told me the truth before the marriage between us never would have taken place

2006-08-17 04:47:13 · 2 answers · asked by fresh start 1

As horrible as the title makes it, I don't need anyone telling me what a piece of s*** I am for this. We work together, he is 27, married, no kids, he works ALOT. He is head chef at the restaurant. He works from 12pm-2am on weekends 10am-12pm weekdays. His wife works mornings, and they only have one day off together. So they don't get to see each other alot at all. We were hanging out on a Friday night after the retaurant had closed (with other people), but they left leaving just him and I. I went to leave and he just grabbed me and hugged me. He then kissed me. I did push him back and say "you're married" I told him "I do want you, have an interest in you, but you are married." I know him and his wife are not happy, and he told me he is not happy, but secure. We ended up having sex and he said I could have him as long as I wanted. Every week or so we hang out and this happens. II don't know if he has feelings for me, but I know I love him. I just don't know how he feels, any advice?

2006-08-17 04:46:51 · 59 answers · asked by CJSmartz 1

for a girl's promise land?

2006-08-17 04:46:28 · 7 answers · asked by ~~ziggy~~ 2

I Clean, grocery shop and take care of our son. Ok I hate cooking, but I do cook. He's so picky on what to eat. He works during the day and sometimes does side work in evenings and weekends. He makes decend money, more then I ever could. Which leads me to the problem I have with him saying why can't I fined a job that would make more then $9 or $10 an hour. See I would have to be able to afford to pay daycare and if I am I would only be pulling in a small bit. He said that's better then nothing. He said if I get a job he will help out around the house. I tried this before and I ended up so worn out from taking care of my son, cooking, cleaning and everything else.

2006-08-17 04:46:15 · 18 answers · asked by ? 6

2006-08-17 04:43:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

been married 33 yrs and recently found out she has had at least 4 affairs in the last 10 yrs or so. we are trying to work thru it thou. in public or at dances she is good as gold, hugging and kissing me but when we at home in other rooms she is same way but when we get to the bedroom she is like a cold fish. i v investigated found out things are true and even talked to guys she has been with and found out things from her she has done with them but i cant even get her to have sex except when she wants to do herself. ive been told by several of thing it included oral which i cant even get her to do to me in 33 yrs of marriage. what can i do.

2006-08-17 04:30:08 · 16 answers · asked by l m larry moore 1