Marriage & Divorce - 17 August 2006

I ran across the blog belonging to the "slave" of my ex-husband. I know that this blog belongs to her because she posted her picture along side it. She goes into great detail about their BDSM lifestyle. I find this Master/slave lifestyle disturbing, especially when I think about my 2 teenaged daughters spending time around this couple. Is this type of lifestyle a valid reason to request modification in visitation?

2006-08-17 15:59:55 · 12 answers · asked by Thoroughly Disgusted 1

would you go behind your husbands or boyfriends back, or would you tell him, or would you pass it up, or would you ask permission first

2006-08-17 15:53:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-17 15:46:55 · 22 answers · asked by tisha 2

wondering what it would be like to be with someone else just to see how it feels

2006-08-17 15:45:46 · 11 answers · asked by lishlama_76 2

seperated spouse dating my childrens teacher, private school

2006-08-17 15:45:38 · 2 answers · asked by tracey.xoxo 1

2006-08-17 15:41:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I was argue since last week. He's in USA and I'm in Asia. He never call me since then. I sent him text message but he never replied. Should I keep calling and say sorry all the time?

2006-08-17 15:38:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going to be the mother of a humpy soon. Please advise.

2006-08-17 15:33:18 · 7 answers · asked by sargenus 2

What is the very first thing a couple should do after they get married?

This is after "you may kiss the bride", wedding reception and honeymoon.

2006-08-17 15:21:17 · 19 answers · asked by devotionalservice 4

women in relationships?
do you ever fantasize about other men when you are having sex with your husband or when you masturbate?

2006-08-17 15:13:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was watching The Tyra Banks Show (i know..i was bored!). Anyways, this old sex expert woman said that when you have a G-spot orgasm a lot of fluid comes out..like you peed. Has anyone every experienced this?

2006-08-17 15:11:35 · 17 answers · asked by Smiles 4

My boyfriend was raised Baptist and still believes but isn't a die hard like his mother is, who is the main problem right now. I am Wiccan and understand that he doesn't want a Wiccan ceremony. We both agreed to have a justice of the peace preform the ceremony until his mom became hissy. She is insisting that we have a Baptist ceremony, which I DO NOT WANT. She is making this so difficult, how can I get her to shut up? We both also agreed to raise our kids without religion and to let them decide when they are old enough, what they want to believe. She's upset about that too. My mom is cool with what ever we decide to do, why can't his mother be?

2006-08-17 15:04:48 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

leave me but she is waiting to find out what she did "wrong" in our marriage before she leaves me.Like I said, she sent him an e-mail saying she "loves him" and that he can use her naughty picture that she e-mailed him to get off on.I also found an e-mail that her male friend sent to her that had sexual comments about him wanting to screw my wife and that he bets that she tastes ssssooooo good.It makes me sick to my stomach.I confronted my wife about the sexual e-mail and she claims that was the only e-mail that had that kind of "material" and that it was only a fantasy at the time.Obviously she is lying and I know I can't trust her anymore.I now have evidence now that she is planning on leaving me for this guy through a copy of the e-mail.We have our first marriage counselor appoin. tomorrow at noon and I was wondering "do I confront her about this e-mail tonight like I really want to or should I just wait until we go to the counselor tomorrow and bring it up then? I need help please!

2006-08-17 14:59:43 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous

mine acts nonchalant

2006-08-17 14:50:42 · 36 answers · asked by firered 2

I ask a question about how to turn my wife on more and there was this answer to give her around the world so i hoping that someone out there could help me PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-08-17 14:50:16 · 4 answers · asked by swwsept 1

or she

2006-08-17 14:49:55 · 5 answers · asked by firered 2

do you ever fantasize about other men when you are having sex with your husband or when you masturbate?

2006-08-17 14:49:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband used my debit card number to set up an online poker account. he played to much i got pissed called found out he spent 2400 in 3 months i losed my account by calling the people and explaining was my ard. Anyways forgave him he kept playing poker didn't know how as he does not work i asked are you withdrawing money with my atm card at the atm and putting it in your account "no i am playing on my winning over and over" so i got mad and asked for his password and he gave it to me easily ? ! anyway i saw where he deposited 50 dollars into his bank which had to be from my account. then i saw debit for online poker i was mad but not about the poker about the fact that he lied to me He thought when i looked at the account the debits to the poker wouldn't show because when i asked him where the money was he snapped i had to pay automatic draft bills? this is a little thing but i can't trust him because he told me he was playing on his winnings lying right to me it's scary .

2006-08-17 14:44:58 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't know why I keep messing up with him. It only happens when I am drinking, which I am now realizing. Sometimes when I drink I am fine! But, if there is something on my mind I show out. It may be too late for us. I love him so much though so I hope not! And he is good to me! And, he is tired of the drama. He is military and he doesn't sweat the small ****. I don't cheat on him I just show my *** and be mean to him. Why? And how can I prevent divorce?

2006-08-17 14:37:19 · 9 answers · asked by boop_boop3 1

Ok, so here's the deal:
I've been married for 6 years. (got married when I was 43)
I trust my husband... our finances are good and we have no children. (his 3rd marriage, my 1st)

He's very passive aggressive. He hasn't been interested in any type of intimacy for about 4 years. He's not gay, he's not having an affair and he's not surfing for porn. Really.
He's just... not interested.

He can be emotionally abusive. Last night, we went to dinner and I ordered steamed mussels. When I found some that weren't completely open, I asked the waiter if it was ok to eat them.

My husband scowled and said, "You shouldn't order something you don't know how to eat." It's just a small example of everyday things that happen.

I've got a good job and a good salary.
There are many good things about this guy... but I don't feel very cherished or appreciated.

Am I too picky? Doesn't every couple have "stuff?"
I feel very lost and would appreciate your thoughts.

2006-08-17 14:37:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-17 14:33:31 · 12 answers · asked by queen 1

For the past month I have been awakening to my husband jerking his penis all through the night. When he thinks I've gone to sleep, he'll break away from me and scoot all the way to his side, pull down his pants and go to town. When I wake up or open my eyes, he stops. This happens all through the night every night. Sometimes I wake up and he's right next to me seemingly making gestures toward me as he's doing this. If he wanted to do something, all he would need to do is come over to me. When it first started happening I woke up and tried to respond because I thought he was initiating something, but he just turned over and pretended to be sleeping. This has even happened on nights that we've already had sex. I have called him on this the past three nights and even grabbed his hand when he was doing it once when he thought I was asleep. He angrily denies doing this. What is the problem here? I feel like this is not normal and that he's thinking about someone else when he's doing this.

2006-08-17 14:29:43 · 29 answers · asked by Tolina 1

is it true or do you think they can change.....

2006-08-17 14:26:54 · 19 answers · asked by salwoman 1

this woman marries and her husband gets sick and unfortunately passes away, There is a home involved and a son from previous marriage who lives with his mother and stepdad, They are harrasing this girl to sell the house for half the money, Can they force her to sell when she has no where to go and is out of work on disability? Thank you.

2006-08-17 14:20:47 · 3 answers · asked by Elaine C 1

happy/easy going/bad mood/a woman or man beatter if none these is the answer/what is he or she?

2006-08-17 14:11:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me neither.

2006-08-17 14:08:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-17 14:06:18 · 11 answers · asked by Liza Sinclair 1

im a married woman who has been separated for over a year. Im dating a man who is older than i am. Hes 55 and im 33 hes been there for me since my husband and i broked up i told him that i dont want him to get caught up with me cause im not ready for a realationship im just dating. I dont need for anything with him he makes sure that all my financial need are meet and we really have a good time together,my problem is he has told me that he loves me but i dont feel the same way hes been so good to me and i tried to develope feelings for him but nothings happening its been a year now. The sex is not good at all sometimes i want to tell him but dont know how to tell him he dont please me i dont want to hurt his feelings. Everyone close to me knows the heartache ive been through with my husband and they see how good this guy is treating me and tells me dont leave him i feel so preasured should i stay with him be treated like a lady and deny my happiness or build up the nerves to leave help

2006-08-17 14:00:28 · 18 answers · asked by lady_bactran 1

What is going on?

2006-08-17 13:53:03 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-17 13:49:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous