wondering what it would be like to be with someone else just to see how it feels
2006-08-17 15:45:46 · 11 answers · asked by lishlama_76 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't risk it! If you love him and want to continue what you have with your husband it's not worth trying. If you are getting bored with the sexual relationship with your husband.
Do something new.
Be proud that you have only had one partner in your life, ask others who have had more, alot of people don't want to talk about their sexual relationships, because somethings are better left unsaid, if you know what I mean.
With so many diseases out there nowadays...you would be risking you and your husbands health. Your marriage.
You may want to see how it feels, but even one night can ruin you for a lifetime...mentally.
Talk with your husband, let him know if you are getting bored with the same ole' same ole' and
Do something new!!! Change your looks, try things you have never tried before, go on a little vacation, go on a picnic and talk! If you need help in opening up, play a game that will get you both to be open and intimate.
In the bedroom:
Lots of foreplay, use toys and experiment, guys love using toys on a woman, thats the fun of sex is experimenting, and be open to new ideas, you may think it's something you won't like, but in the end it may surprise you.
Try all variations and see what stimulates you most.
You need to be creative to avoid sexual boredom. Try a new location, rent a hotel room, experiment with new positions, buy new lingerie, rent a sexy video, try a hot bath, candles and a massage. Cast your inhibitions to the wind. And then get busy!
2006-08-17 15:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont suggest u do it. u should also think about ur husband and what it will do to him if he found out that u were doin it behind his back. if he was ok with it, it would be a different situation. u also need to understand that he has been with just u for the past 15 years (if thats the case) cheating should never be an option
2006-08-17 22:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by theelementgod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough question with the issue of fidelity. I will tell you that i had a similar experience with a woman I dated several years back. She has been married for 26 years and had only sex with one man, ever. I was shocked at some of the things she told me and things she had missed out on. I truly educated her and after several months or so she was a great sex partner, she couldn't thank me enough :). Good luck on your decision, If you would like to discuss this with me please contact me.
2006-08-17 22:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by daveinsurprise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you having trouble in the marriage? Why after 15 years are you thinking about others?
2006-08-17 22:53:11 · answer #4 · answered by KO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shud have been "wondering" before u married this guy!! If u've been married 15 yrs, u must b quite settled in this marriage by now, so why start looking for trouble .... has life become too boring? n surely, ur not looking for complications
2006-08-17 23:00:01 · answer #5 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I highly recommend you do not stray from your marriage. A one-nite stand is not what you might think it is. Then of course, you will need to learn how to deal with the guilt. It's really not worth all the hassles involved.
2006-08-17 23:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if your husband had the same question?
Be happy and content with what you have.
Good luck!
2006-08-17 22:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love your husband it wont feel good at all.
2006-08-17 22:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by faye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shd. try another one in your life also. It will be a good experience and fun.
2006-08-21 04:43:21 · answer #9 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better never try it.
just an idea from idearibbon.com
2006-08-17 22:52:23 · answer #10 · answered by samdadnow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋