I don't know why I keep messing up with him. It only happens when I am drinking, which I am now realizing. Sometimes when I drink I am fine! But, if there is something on my mind I show out. It may be too late for us. I love him so much though so I hope not! And he is good to me! And, he is tired of the drama. He is military and he doesn't sweat the small ****. I don't cheat on him I just show my *** and be mean to him. Why? And how can I prevent divorce?
2006-08-17 14:37:19 · 9 answers · asked by boop_boop3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love your husband and obviously know what the problem is, then do something about it... Do you really need to drink? Ask yourself that question. Why? because it is a constant problem...
If you want to really work on your marriage, you need to speak with your husband and be sincere about what you say.. I feel like you need to stop drinking and I think your husband would agree and would maybe give you a chance....
2006-08-17 14:46:19 · answer #1 · answered by Torres 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to AAA you have a problem and if you love him like you say then you won't hurt him at all and why do you need a drink to give you confident to do what you want nad you can do the same savor so the drinking is an excuse for you after AAA then go to counceling cause you have a deep issue some where good luck and may be he won't divorce you if he see you getting help
2006-08-17 21:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be the exact same way with my husband..whenever I got drunk. I quit drinking last year.I feel really bad about how I treated him...but, I am so thankful that he put up with it and didn't divorce me.Sometimes I didn't even remember what I had done or said to him.We are very close and love each other more than anything.. but, it has made him a little distant with me. He used to constantly give me affection,want me,kiss me etc.. but, he says he still thinks about how I treated him. I wish I could have all of that back. Sorry to keep going on and on... my advice would be to think about stopping your drinking. GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-18 00:10:45 · answer #3 · answered by hthr34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP DRINKING!!!!!
Go to meetings if you have to, but stop. Use these two words over and over again in your mind to help you to quit "Fim Determination" They worked for me.
Tell your husband you think you have a drinking problem and would like his moral support in quitting.
2006-08-17 21:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by arvecar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you suspect that its your drinking,stop doing it.That is if you love him and your marriage more than your booze.I am sure there is something less attractive than a drunk female,though they escape me at the moment.
2006-08-17 21:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by girlqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need to talk about whatever is bottled up he's your bestfriend right?drinking don't help it only worsens the problem.find a different approach to get a different outcome in life
2006-08-17 23:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by mare2471 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop drinking. Get help and counseling with your problems.
2006-08-17 21:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe don`t drink so much, see if that helps. but if there is something on your mind you to tell he, woke thing out together.
2006-08-17 21:49:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your drinking is the problem...think about it..if you can't control your self or your drinking intake you will lose everything...
deep down you know the truth...
2006-08-17 21:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by KT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋