Marriage & Divorce - 17 August 2006

2006-08-17 19:49:54 · 9 answers · asked by jammy 1

My husband's girlfriend signed up my daughters for Girlscouts tonight. You have to be mother, father, legal guardian or step parent to sign a girl up. I feel she over steped her boundries. Am I right?

2006-08-17 19:47:23 · 19 answers · asked by autumndove1972 1

My husband and I have been married for over a year now and he STILL has not told his ex-wife and kids about our marriage (kids are 13, 10, & 4 approx). In fact, his kids don't even know that he and his ex are divorced and it has been FOUR YEARS. They live overseas so he doesn't see them that much anyway and I guess it's easy to lie to them. I go crazy anytime that the thought of this crosses my mind and our home becomes a battlefield where I am always the insensitive, pushy one. I was not raised to lie to people, even if the lying is to "protect" someone. I hear excuse after lame excuse and I have to be silent when he talks on the phone to them and I have to deal with it [alone] when he takes "the family" to Chuck E. Cheese's when they visit. I never hid him from my family, my ex, my friends, or my four-year-old daughter. I bit the bullet although it was difficult to tell my ex-husband who still loves me, difficult to tell my parents that I was marrying again, and difficult to explain what a step-dad is. He has said that he will end the marriage before he would tell them. Should I leave? What can be done and what would you do?

2006-08-17 19:35:15 · 14 answers · asked by haneen25 1

2006-08-17 19:27:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

share one of your best kept secrets, mine is that I am married and met someone else , Im not proud , but I have no regrets,,, now yours............

2006-08-17 19:24:47 · 10 answers · asked by E.M. 4

2006-08-17 19:20:40 · 10 answers · asked by slowneckme 1

I am so mad I can't even sleep, he had supervised visitation after he gave our 6-yr old beer, he is saying he has paid his child support every month for 3 years(when the truth is he is behind $3000 and didn't even pay this month). Now he says he wants to see them more--they are 12 and over, so what can I do, he is taking me back to court, the a**hole! I get $120 a month, big whoop. The hillbillies around here believe everything they read, I'm thinking about moving, I hate this!

2006-08-17 19:13:25 · 10 answers · asked by bookluffer 3

2006-08-17 19:07:41 · 2 answers · asked by a j 2

2006-08-17 19:02:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

his spouse found out that we had an affair n now he said we have to separate for a while. we had promised not to separate no matter what but y is this happens. each of us are married with kids and wkg in the same environment. now i'm confussed and really missed him a lot. i really luv him too much. can't eat or sleep well. i felt like crying each time when thinking of him. for a week we have not see each other.

2006-08-17 18:54:30 · 19 answers · asked by hai s 1

If while a man is growing up he sees his father be abusive to his mother, is he more likely to abuse? How about if the father is unfaithful, is he then more likely to cheat? Just out of curiosity.

2006-08-17 18:44:33 · 11 answers · asked by Ashley 4

advice her please

2006-08-17 18:41:05 · 5 answers · asked by carrie 1

It's a question I often wonder. Please don't give me the answer that "Yes -- because the Bible says so" or "because it's a commandment" -- I'm looking for answers from people who have the ability to think about this on their own. One of my friends has an interesting theory -- he says that being monogamous when marriage was first conceptualized was easy because life expectancy wasn't that long. Since the average person only lived until 30-35 and you got married at 20 -- "till death do us apart" wasn't really asking a whole lot. However, now that we have life expectancy in the 90s -- it's unreasonable to ask people to stay with the same person for so long.

2006-08-17 18:34:33 · 11 answers · asked by highiq 1

I am trying to leave my husband, but don't have the money for a divorce. I am also, trying to get on a list for low income housing, unfortunately, I have to be either divorced or legally seperated with documentation. Otherwise they will include his income in adjusting my rent. He easily makes 5 times the amount I do as a full-time college student. So, I am wondering if anyone has any information about the legal seperations.

2006-08-17 18:34:26 · 3 answers · asked by reds074 2

Is it true that a man is on his best behavior before you get married? Do men change alot once they get hitched? Do bad habits become worse? And if they used to have bad habits is it likely they'll revert to them once youre married awhile? Im just wondering because Ive heard alot of people say how things always get much worse once theyre married.

2006-08-17 18:28:52 · 26 answers · asked by Ashley 4

QUE ONDA, COMO ESTAS? SOLO TE ESCRIBO PARA ACLARARTE ALGUNAS DE TUS DUDAS: QUE AUNQUE NO LO CREAS TE QUIERO MUCHO (ESO NUNCA LO DUDES) Y QUE LASTIMA QUE LO QUE FUE TAN IMPORTANTE PARA MI (DIRÁS QUE FUE ESO TAN IMPORTANTE: “FUE ESTAR A TU LADO”), SOLO AYA SIDO DIVERSIÓN PARA TI, PORQUE SINCERAMENTE YO TE DI LO MEJOR DE MI PERO TU NO LO VISTE DE ESA MANERA Y SOLO FUI UN JUGUETE EN TUS MANOS COMO TODOS ME DECÍAN; PERO ME DI CUENTA DEMASIADO TARDE, CUANDO YA NO PODÍA OLVIDAR LO QUE SENTÍA POR TI,; PERO A PESAR DE LA FORMA EN QUE SE DIERON LAS COSAS NO ME ARREPIENTO PORQUE LA PASE MUY BIEN A TU LADO (AUNQUE HAYA SIDO UN SOLO DÍA)



YA VI TUS FOTOS O MÁS BIEN DE TÚ ESPOSA: TE VES MUY BIEN CON ELLA Y SE VE QUE SE LLEVAN SÚPER BIEN Y HACEN UNA BONITA PAREJA ADEMÁS DE SER UNA FAMILIA FELIZ.

“ELLA TE QUIERE MUCHO PERO NO CREO QUE TANTO COMO YO”

DE TODOS MODOS SUERTE CON TU INTENTO DE TENER OTRO BEBE, OJALA Y LO LOGRES PRONTO.



P.D. SI VIENES EN DICIEMBRE HASTA ENTONCES NOS VEMOS



CUÍDATE Y PÓRTATE BIEN, OK



MANOLA 1000%



GISELA

2006-08-17 18:22:13 · 16 answers · asked by hiGh mAiN10aNce 1

2006-08-17 18:17:29 · 14 answers · asked by ez-goin 4

Why is it so easy for women to just turn off there love like a light switch? I found out today she was having an affair and she keeps telling me to just "get over it" and "it was just sex" What do I do? I am steaming with jealousy and I dont know what to do. Should I leave?? If I leave I plan to take our son, she will keep our daughter and we will do the divorced parent thing. Should I give marriage counseling a try?? Is it worth 100 bucks an hour??? Is she even worth giving a chance after the fourth affair? I love my family and desperatly want to keep our family together. Can anyone relate??

2006-08-17 18:05:53 · 28 answers · asked by congoelevator 1

My fiance has asked me to sign a prenup and I have expressed my dissatisfaction with it, not because I am a gold digger, but because I just feel that if you love someone and want to marry them you've gotta trust them enough that they would do the right thing by you even if something went wrong like divorce - I would not be unfair and take what was not mine to start with.

Anyway, I have agreed to sign it basically just to shut him up, however now, he keeps on wanting to talk to me about his finances and his money and the best ways for him to avoid paying extra tax etc. I feel very annoyed because he doesn't trust me enough to not have a prenup but still wants to chit chat about his money concerns. What should I say to him?

2006-08-17 18:04:43 · 10 answers · asked by gwibsy 1

QUE ONDA, COMO ESTAS? SOLO TE ESCRIBO PARA ACLARARTE ALGUNAS DE TUS DUDAS: QUE AUNQUE NO LO CREAS TE QUIERO MUCHO (ESO NUNCA LO DUDES) Y QUE LASTIMA QUE LO QUE FUE TAN IMPORTANTE PARA MI (DIRÁS QUE FUE ESO TAN IMPORTANTE: “FUE ESTAR A TU LADO”), SOLO AYA SIDO DIVERSIÓN PARA TI, PORQUE SINCERAMENTE YO TE DI LO MEJOR DE MI PERO TU NO LO VISTE DE ESA MANERA Y SOLO FUI UN JUGUETE EN TUS MANOS COMO TODOS ME DECÍAN; PERO ME DI CUENTA DEMASIADO TARDE, CUANDO YA NO PODÍA OLVIDAR LO QUE SENTÍA POR TI,; PERO A PESAR DE LA FORMA EN QUE SE DIERON LAS COSAS NO ME ARREPIENTO PORQUE LA PASE MUY BIEN A TU LADO (AUNQUE HAYA SIDO UN SOLO DÍA)



YA VI TUS FOTOS O MÁS BIEN DE TÚ ESPOSA: TE VES MUY BIEN CON ELLA Y SE VE QUE SE LLEVAN SÚPER BIEN Y HACEN UNA BONITA PAREJA ADEMÁS DE SER UNA FAMILIA FELIZ.

“ELLA TE QUIERE MUCHO PERO NO CREO QUE TANTO COMO YO”

DE TODOS MODOS SUERTE CON TU INTENTO DE TENER OTRO BEBE, OJALA Y LO LOGRES PRONTO.



P.D. SI VIENES EN DICIEMBRE HASTA ENTONCES NOS VEMOS



CUÍDATE Y PÓRTATE BIEN, OK



MANOLA 1000%



GISELA

2006-08-17 18:03:40 · 5 answers · asked by hiGh mAiN10aNce 1

i am happily remmaried but i had so much fun when i was single after my divorce i don't know why but i had so many guys wanting to date me and i just had fun not wanting to be with any of them. i only had sex with my husband before my divorce but after i got to experience alot is it normal to fantize about that part of my life i never would go that direction because we have kids together but i loved all that attention my husband just can't make me feel that good.is that crazy thinking or normal

2006-08-17 18:00:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

divorce him, I know he won't change he swears at me and breaks my things he does not spend time on me, and he goes out by himself all the time, he abuses me verbally, mentally and pushes me around and sometimes kicks me. he is also addicted to gambling. I have noticed that he has gotten worse since he has gotten addicted to gambling. I live in canada and don't have any kind of money can I go to legal aid and request divorce what are my rights I am not happy in my marriage and he does not want to get any type of help at all.Please if anyone has any information please let me know.

2006-08-17 17:59:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I mean is its ok to fall deeply in love with someone without realising after you get married?

2006-08-17 17:56:13 · 9 answers · asked by A 6

2006-08-17 17:52:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife is always calling me names and swearing at me. I know this is wrong, I have threatened to leave but it don't seem any better only for a few days then back to the same ol'. Any suggestions?

2006-08-17 17:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by bad boy 2

why are the skies so gray...?

2006-08-17 17:51:38 · 10 answers · asked by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6

And, yes, I think there is such a thing as a love between parents and their children, and a higher power in religion, but it is so funny when you see two people hanging all over each other saying I love you, when they hate each other two days later. Love is something that it requires no physical ties to obtain and exist, even in the event of a relationship, the posibility of no sex, so in reality we all have "conditional love" as long as you make me happy, I'll love you! (for the most part a love based on lust?) What's your thoughts on this statement? (other than telling me I am an idiot for thinking of this)

2006-08-17 17:41:02 · 11 answers · asked by Glynn 1

He is divorced with 2 kids and shared custody, Ive never been married nor to I have kids. He gets mad if I say anything negative about her, saying thats the mother of his kids. I'm always so uncomfortable when they go to thier kids functions at school. It is hard for me.

2006-08-17 17:34:47 · 24 answers · asked by Smile 2

I can't deal with this shitt, i need my coke money!

2006-08-17 17:25:42 · 59 answers · asked by O.J. 1

2006-08-17 17:22:08 · 12 answers · asked by Chad 7