My wife is always calling me names and swearing at me. I know this is wrong, I have threatened to leave but it don't seem any better only for a few days then back to the same ol'. Any suggestions?
2006-08-17 17:52:05 · 7 answers · asked by bad boy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Rule # 1 in marriage--- don't make idle threats. Say what you mean and mean what you say. If you say you are going to leave, then mean it and actually do it. It might make her wise up, but that is only the start. She needs counselling to change her bad behaviour and you probably both need counselling to work out your marriage problems. If she won't get help and be willing to try and save your relationship, then say Goodbye (and mean it). If you dont want to leave, then decide what you really do want and tell her and stick to it. Think before you speak.
2006-08-17 18:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to definitly consider alternitive help. I sugges maybe marriage counseling. You really don't deserve to be disrespected by anyone, including your wife, she has NO right to do that to you.
Talk to you wife, and tell her things have got to change. If they don't, maybe you guys should take a brake for a while, to think over things.
If she doesn't treat you the way she should, maybe its time to just get out of that relationship altogether. However this is a last resort. You don't want to just give up on your marriage. But I guess you gotta do what you gotta do. Good Luck with that mean wife of yours!!
2006-08-17 18:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you two are only dealing with WHAT she's doing, and not WHY she's doing it? If you resolve the why the what will go away on it's own, it's the only permanent solution. Chances are you are both sensible people and if you figure out the root cause of this behaviour you'll be able to work together on that instead of playing the puch and pull game you are stuck in right now. She'll be happier and you'll be happier.
2006-08-17 18:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have her seek counselling and anger management, seek marriage counselling, or leave her if she is unwilling to do 1 or 2. She is emotionally abusive and this is an unhealthy relationship for you to be in.
2006-08-17 17:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Amazed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get marriage counseling and find out what she is angry at. You don't break up a marriage over that but you shouldn't have to put up with emotional abuse either. Get help.........
2006-08-17 18:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE 4 REAL SHE WILLL BEG 4 YA BACK
2006-08-17 18:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by ♫♪♥PUSSaY FART♫♪♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ILL TELL YOU "IM" ME AND TAKE IT FROM THER
2006-08-17 18:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋