Marriage & Divorce - 17 August 2006

My wife and I have been married for 3 years. We both are 26, she is a HS teacher and I sell insurance. It seems like 90% of the time we have sex it is me that starts it. Why doesn't she more often. We will have sex 4 times a week and then go 2 weeks without. Any suggestions? What can I do to make her want it more. She always says something like" we need to do that more often" when we are done. I am sure she enjoys it.

2006-08-17 08:46:49 · 16 answers · asked by sell insurance 2 1

i am 19 and have been with this guy 2 months now and he wants to have sex, now i am a virgin i live around taking care of my body and looks aside that i treasure what i have. he is getting kinda pushy ,i really like him and dont know what to do?please help!

2006-08-17 08:45:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

With 5 kids and a husband who works hard to support the family, we are too busy for eachother. I do my thing and he does his. Even when he is home on weekends, I leave to go shopping. He sits at one end of the couch, I sit at the other. same thing when we go to bed. How do you get that love and affection back, or is it time to call it quits?

2006-08-17 08:41:35 · 19 answers · asked by ~SSIRREN~ 6

What do they think he will say? "Oh yes Darling I have been cheating on you." Has anyone ever asked and actually gotten the truth?

2006-08-17 08:40:33 · 28 answers · asked by dream girl 2

I was wondering if anyone else has allowed thier husband to drink thier breastmilk during intimate times? Please don't bash me saying that milk is only for babies because my supply is plenty. Also, no sicko's becase I am looking for serious answers only. I am asking because I am wondering we are the only couple who does this? My husband does not want to play baby, he just does this when we are making love.

2006-08-17 08:40:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

my fiance has a kid to his ex, from a one-night stand, condom accident. never any feelings there. the kid bothers me, because he belongs to him and his ex. is that normal?

2nd part, why am i so jealous? im way prettier, im nicer, i have a job, i bathe every day (lol), im a way better catch, and i know he feels that way, but im so obsessed with thinking he will go back to her. how can i get over this?

im beginning to think i have to end the relationship, because i dont want to come between him and his kid, but i am having a hard time dealing with this. he assures me all the time, but i have very low esteem, and i just dont know.

i dont want to end it, we love each other very much, how can i deal with these issues?

2006-08-17 08:37:57 · 37 answers · asked by Erin P 2

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2006-08-17 08:19:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

before my wedding my husband use to call me talk to me for hours but now its been 2 years i have been married thanks to god but now it seems that am chassing him and he is just ignoring me we are kind of goin through a rough stage in marriage some family issues but if he is not talking to me or calling me does that mean he wants some time to think? or what only womens would really understant this i guess

2006-08-17 08:19:35 · 12 answers · asked by Aloneeyes 2

MY HUSBAND HAS PUSHED ME SEVERAL TIMES WHILE HE IS DRINKING. ALWAYS SAYS SORRY BUT NEVER FEELS LIKE HE MEANS IT. I SOMETIMES WONDER IF I AM THERE JUST SO HE ISNT ALONE. THIS IS HIS FIRST MARRIAGE. HE WASNT FIGHTING WITH ME WHEN HE PUSHED ME IT WAS WITH SOMEONE ELSE AND I WAS IN THE WAY. I JUST GET REALLY AFRAID OF HIS TEMPER

2006-08-17 08:17:29 · 22 answers · asked by JILL M 1

2006-08-17 08:15:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

well let me tell u...ive been in this relationship 4 about 3 months...our chemistry and attraction 4 eachother is amazing! i really do feel like hes the one! everything is so different wit him then its been with neother guy...i want to marry him...but im still in high school...and still living with mom and dad. hes 21 and can support me...its up to me though. he cares about me enough to let me finish school and make something of myself! he makes me feel really good. i can hardly go a day without seeing him...i really really do love him. should i follow my heart and commit to him already??? or should i wait til' i know 4 sure...and have my life together?

2006-08-17 08:12:45 · 19 answers · asked by lizlatina69 2

2006-08-17 08:12:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

In the past four months I found out my husband was having an affair - we divorced. During the four months he has changed his mind a number of times - he would tell me he wanted to come home and then return to her. I finally told him to take some time and figure out what he wanted from life. What did he do? Start up with her again. Now he plans to move in with her in December and has introduced her as a "friend" to our son. I asked him why he was in such a rush. We were married for ten years! Any ideas on why he is in such a rush when he is obviously very confused? I believe he is self-destructing and heading for another failed relationship. How do I protect my son from his father's craziness?

2006-08-17 08:10:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Even when we have sex, I do most of the work. Is even lazy sex tiring for women? Or is it that she doesn't want that energy jolt afterwards that will keep her from going to sleep right after?

2006-08-17 08:10:21 · 70 answers · asked by thebuffettour 2

I am married to a man that calls me a retard,bipolar *****,worthless and thats just a few.I have been married to this man 14 years.I have stayed with him through his drug addiction.I ot him help.But now he comes home every night drunk.He call my 15 year old daughter real bad names.I have bipolar and post tramitic stress disorder.For 14 tears I have been a good wife.I am unable to work due to my illness.I have been trying to get on my meds and work on getting better.I have 5 children who listen to their father call me a *****.He always threatins to beat my head in.He dont hit me.But I think I would rather him hit me than abuse my minde.I have gotten to the point where I hate him.But I am affraid to be alone.But I know I could control the bipolar much better with out being called stupid.He wont even help me get my meds.He says he cant afford it.But he can afford to smoke pot and get drunk everyday.Thank God my mother helps buy my meds.i am affraid he is going to push me over the edge.

2006-08-17 08:09:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I never found a problem with porn (as long as it's legal porn, of course). And I look at it too.. what's the big deal?

My husband and I have a great marriage, I just get saddened when my female friends put a strain on their marriage by objecting to things like porn, guys night out, smoking, etc. It's a strain that doesn't need to be exist.. just chill out and give your spouse some freedoms.

My husband and I have different sex drives and he watches porn if I'm not in the mood. I'd much rather he do that walk around every day with a raging hard on for every woman that comes near him.

The reason I say this is I've seen questions on here regarding restricting porn and I also have two female friends who have pretty much ruined their marriage because they've put too many restrictions on their husbands, including no porn, no smoking, no hanging out with the boys, etc. A marriage like that winds up being more like a nagging mother/son relationship than a husband wife relationship.

2006-08-17 07:58:58 · 52 answers · asked by spike_is_my_evil_vampire 4

I have been with this guy for 8 years. We have 2 kids. Im not happy anymore. We used to be happy at first. He treats me like crap after our daughter was born, 5 years ago. He calls me names, and doesnt help with anything. He has NEVER hit me though. He is always out with his friends. I have left him 2 times already but he comes crying saying that he will change, and I go back to him. He has finally quit calling me names, but I feel like it a little too late. I have no where to go, and no job. I just finished college and cant find a job. I dont know what to do anymore. I dont think I ever really loved him but I stayed with him because of the kids. What should I do since I have no job and no place to go? I dont want to be stuck here any longer. I was trying to wait until I get a job to leave but I cant take it anymore.

2006-08-17 07:58:18 · 12 answers · asked by CK 2

2006-08-17 07:56:57 · 14 answers · asked by junior23 2

what if a guy (husband) does not pick up ur calls and ur all the way away in another state? what does that mean? i havent slept so much stress out and my heart hurts in the middle like iam out of energy like someone sucked out my energy what is going on what can i do to staisfy my self that he will call just be patient>?

2006-08-17 07:55:21 · 7 answers · asked by Aloneeyes 2

Its been 8 months since we had sex. I've tried everyting, wooing her, flowers, going out on dates, compliments. I'm not bad looking and have had a few offers from other women but turned them down. I really love my wife. Any ideas?

2006-08-17 07:51:33 · 6 answers · asked by ChopMar 2

2006-08-17 07:44:14 · 20 answers · asked by I-C-U 5

you would think there would be no way he would be able to be faithful or be satisfied with the amount of sex that most wives want to have?

2006-08-17 07:43:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife had a baby 8 months ago and since then hes felt very un sexy, I try desperately to make her know I love her and I still find her very sexy but to no avail... everything i do is wrong.... I tell her she's beautiful, she just denies it.... i try just holding her and she wonders why.... ive cooked and served by candlelight for her..... nothing!.....i miss the woman i used to hold... the one who was aware of how feminine she is and how sexy she is and how she could just drive me wild with just a kiss..... what can i do? any suggestions

2006-08-17 07:42:52 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1

2006-08-17 07:39:43 · 30 answers · asked by makerunanrk 2

2006-08-17 07:39:28 · 14 answers · asked by dagomeister 1

2006-08-17 07:34:31 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-17 07:33:25 · 7 answers · asked by wln2go 1

If the couple is divorcing, will that situation change the irrevocable family income trust null and void?

I signed two life insurances to be included as part of the irrevocable family income trust of the estate plan in 1999 and now we are in the process of divorcing. We are now going to divide the assets, can I claim back the two life insurances as I own again since the relationship between husband and wife is broken?

2006-08-17 07:33:03 · 1 answers · asked by Joven 1