i am 19 and have been with this guy 2 months now and he wants to have sex, now i am a virgin i live around taking care of my body and looks aside that i treasure what i have. he is getting kinda pushy ,i really like him and dont know what to do?please help!
2006-08-17 08:45:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if u r not ready, dont let him do what he wants. he will wait 4 u if he really loves u. maybe he's not d right guy 4 u. u deserve a better man.
2006-08-17 08:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him pushing you. I am a male and If he did have sex with you for fun.. and after he gets bored he will dump you.. Save for someone who really love you for being you. and Save it and that really Treasure what you have it will be the best thing you ever done.
If I wasn't married and I met you and I would married you for being you not what you look right now on the picture smiling.
But I am truly blessed that my wife was only person to have sex with she done before but she was my first. and glad that she and I married now for 9 years and have 2 kids and 3rd on the way due in march 2007....
don't have sex with him becasue you like him and might have him be quiet. you know what I mean.. Find, a man that really like me really do love girlfriend and wife same woman smiling. I love her becasue she being her. and I notice you are being you and you not try to make it like the picture make it look like something. but really you just having fun and though would be crack up to see all the guys answer hhahaah.
But really treasure your body and virgin... find someone who never had sex and believe me it will be wonderful or find guy like me understand.
You are smart and funny, outgoing and being you. I like it Hope to help you more questions. your true friend.
2006-08-17 16:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try wearing a blouse that doesn't expose so much and maybe he will have a little more self control. If your not ready then you shouldn't, and if he is being pushy then you need to be careful. Just make sure your not being a tease.
2006-08-17 15:56:35 · answer #3 · answered by Badkitty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just judging by your little photo, maybe he doesn't think you are a virgin. If you are willing to post a photo of your boobs, then you're certainly not coming across as a virgin. Virgin's usually take pride in having respect for themselves and honey, no offense but that photo says you have NO self respect.
2006-08-17 16:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by mommyof6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is simple, if you are not ready, don't do it. Sex is not the only thing in a relationship but RESPECT is, if sex is all he is after, then maybe it is not worth staying in that relationship. He should respect your wishes and when you both mutually decide, the time is right, it will happen.
2006-08-17 16:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by g m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you dating? Many people date for sex, some date for fun, and others date hoping for a long term relationship, i.e. marriage. When two people date, they need to determine early on what the other person is looking for.
2006-08-17 16:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not ready then he should respect that from you & not force you into having sex with him if you are not ready. All you have to do is tell him how you feel about what he is trying to make you do & then maybe he will respect you & if that doesn't work then I would say then that is the end with him because he doesn't respect you enought then to not make you do something that you are not ready to do.
2006-08-17 16:04:50 · answer #7 · answered by Sweetie Blue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is being pushy, then you may need to PUSH his a** out the door. We are all willing to wait for something that is worth the wait. Your guy (if its this one or the next one) will be ready when YOU are.
2006-08-17 15:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a virgin? i don't know maybe he's thinking what i am by looking @ ur picture. but what ever the case he still needs to respect ur wishes. he needs 2 understand that ur not ready. so keep doing what u r doing that is staying true 2 ur self
2006-08-17 16:26:35 · answer #9 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt very much that you are a virgin. [hint: your pic] Use birth control and use protection if you have sex. I wouldn't bother with someone that is just a friend, only if that person truly means something to you. Good luck
2006-08-17 15:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by toolate4me? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋