my husband never kisses me never gives me a hug we dint share bank accounts and he never gives me money what s

Answer 1

Ummm, then why in the hell did he marry you? Get out honey, before it's too late.

Answer 2

It all depends on the money issue I was married for 22 years and didn't have joint checking. We never had problems with money we decided to split the bills instead to each their own. Most couples that have problems circle around money issues. If one is a saver and the other is a spender this could be a big fiction point. For not being able to be physical close to you might be from bringing hurt or not knowing how because of upbringing or past failed relationships. Talk to him that you need more attention in a nice way. Maybe he doesn't know and would be more attentive to your needs its worth a shot. BTW it a good idea to keep your own credit and monies if things don't work out.

Answer 3

marriages wherein each member of the couple has a separate bank account and there is not a joint account for the vast majority of the money are marriages that are far more likely to fail that marriages where joint accounts are used.

as to hugging and kissing - did he used to hug and kiss you? how long ago? do you hug and kiss him? is he rejecting or just not physically demonstrative? does he work hard for you and the family around the house? does he spend time with you, interested in you?

Answer 4

Then why did you get maried to such a JERK? Whats the point of being with him? I am assuming that you guys dont have sex either so go and find yourself a real man that cares abaut you and love you and hopefuly will buy you some diamonds, or at leas presents every now and then. Good luck

Answer 5

and why did you marry him? you thought maybe he would give you money? or support you in times of need? or get booty calls?
sorry to be upfront.
but you need to realize that a marriage is between two poeple coming together as ONE.
so he needs to comfort you. he needs to love you. kiss you. hug you. and the same goes to you too.
do you try to kiss him? do you try to hug him? have you ever given him money?
a long long talk should go in affect right now between you two. a relationship does not go this way. you two need to love eachother and share everything.
maybe you two should go off on a short vacation to a resort and spa or to a cabin in the mountains. away from traffic. away from work. away from the home and bills. you two need time together. in the mean time try to show him that you love him and you want him to love you back and to SHOW it.

Answer 6

Be honest with him and tell him that as a woman you would like to feel loved and protected, otherwise there is no point of being together. Tell him to take time to nurture each other. take time to dance together, to fall in love again. try little details that call his attention and his heart, leave him tiny love notes and see what's the outcome,

best wishes.

Sometimes marriage is just lacking a spark of that first enchanting love.

Answer 7

OK, then why is it that you married this man? Sounds like there are some issues that need to be discussed if you want to get them resolved on his part.

Answer 8

hum... are you sure he's your husband ? ... you need to have a serious talk with him that's unacceptable..

bank account it does't matter..
money it doesn't matter

but TLC.. is part of the deal when you get married..

Answer 9

What's the point of being married?

Answer 10

when you get married you should share everything. Not just the financial stuff but everything." What is mine is yours and what is yours is mine" should be the mind set.