I mean is its ok to fall deeply in love with someone without realising after you get married?
2006-08-17 17:56:13 · 9 answers · asked by A 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Falling in love is quite natural............... But whether its OK or not depends upon your own thinking... If you feel its ok, you can go ahead and pursue your new love interest.......... But what that does to your marital life is a different thing altogether.........
If you mean that you are happily married and still think that you are falling in love with someone else, it is probably just infatuation, and if you resist for a while, it will just go away........... But sometimes, it may happen that you genuinely fall in love with someone after marriage, and in that case , it totally depends upon how you perceive the situation, and how you pursue it............ But again its normal, it may be immoral but its normal........
2006-08-17 18:23:42 · answer #1 · answered by nice_libra_guy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a word, no. First, it is impossible to "fall deeply in love" without realizing it. At some point in the falling, there were clues of where you were headed. You may not have noticed it at the time, but I think by using your 20/20 hindsight, you can see the signs. We, as humans, have greater control over our emotions than we give ourselves credit for. You can love this other person as a friend, and that would be acceptable. As far as romantic love, you made a vow to reserve that type of love for your wife until death parts you (or maybe until divorce parts you...).
2006-08-17 18:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Amazed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i was married for 10 yrs to a man that was very abusive. I had but in my head that i would not date again , I did not want to be in a relationship . One day a man walk up to me and said what are you ( Race) he said you are so beautiful. The same day he called me and we spoke for hours. The next day he visited me at my home ( which he gave 20 orgasms in 20 min) but any way i open the door and he gave me a hug, right there i know he was the one i felt him in my spirit and i am truly madly deeply in Love with Kevin B. He treats my like a lady should be treated .He tells me he loves me too. Don't go looking for love let it find you good luck.
2006-08-17 18:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter if it's o.k., it's not really a choice you make! If it happens, great, what's to complain about? Thank your lucky stars and always take love whenever it comes your way, regardless of the obstacles that may be in the way. You only get so many chances, and if you waste one and let it go do you really deserve to get another one?
2006-08-17 18:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is great to fall madly in love with the person you married not somebody else after your married.
2006-08-17 18:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by TooSweet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess you can hardly help falling in love ! Whether it is ok or no depends on ur situation in life at that point...
2006-08-17 18:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by Nisha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you mean someone other than your husband???
well cant stop love....
now you just have to figure a way out of the mess that is all
2006-08-17 18:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by rekha c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah of course i mean its not like you can help ti and its not a bad thing
2006-08-17 18:00:43 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are fishing for permission.......
2006-08-17 18:22:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋