2006-08-17 05:08:31 · 14 answers · asked by Liz K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Can you live without love... Can you be happy with being comfortable with him. Do you want to change things? These are all the questions you need to figure out. Good luck!
2006-08-17 05:14:31 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hope is the last thing to go. If there's a slight chance things can be worked out, try too. Maybe you should give a little background what lead you to this thought. Is he gone all the time, work or play, does he pay attention to you, do you communicate with each other, is the intimacy not there, or what ? Try and talk with him, find out what happened to the man you fell in love with and married. Why has he changed or what made you change ? Did you not know enough of his life before you got married ? etc, etc etc. Hard to pin point, I'm sorry. :(
2006-08-17 05:42:26 · answer #2 · answered by This, That & such 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that. You must feel a sense of loss even if you are not very close to your husband right now.
You didn't mention why you feel this way, so it's hard to suggest anything concrete.
Do you want it to be over? Is the end of your marriage what you really want?
If not, then start working on the marriage. Date him. Court him. Seduce him. Create a new relationship and marry him again. Find a marriage counselor and get to work.
If so, then you already know what to do next.
Check out the articles below to see if they help you decide what to do.
2006-08-17 05:18:22 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you love him and marry him in the first place. Maybe there is something wrong with you. And why should you not love your husband anymore. Does he hurt you. Does he go out with other girls. He does not support you. That sins has he committed for you to fall out of love.
Do you have children, this helps in mending cracks within the relationship. It is not that easy just to say you don't love him anymore. Would you be brave enough to look him in the eyes and tell him so.
Think and re think again.
2006-08-17 05:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The first thing that you have to do is think about it. Normally, when a person falls out of love with someone it is usually because they are not doing what they use to do to make you happy. Be up front and tell him the way you feel because, you don't want to be married to someone that you don't love.
2006-08-17 05:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by keonna s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom said the same thing once, she was having problems with father and she was just tired of that, she told me she thought she didn't love him, but for some reason she always has, my parents have know each other since the day they were born they were neighbors and knew each other really well, when they were young, teens, my dad would stalk my mom, he would spy on her, from his house,lol, they told me, and yeah my mom didn't like him, but his sisters always tried to hook them up, also, my dad would always scare away my moms boyfriends so she says thats why she stayed with him, She grew to love him very much, you should think bout your question, work out any problems you've got with him, w/b if you wanna talk bout it, Im 17 years old!
2006-08-17 05:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can say you would be happier without him then leave. it's very hard. i was with a gut for five yrs wasn't married but lived together and had kids. it was soooo hard to get him to leave the picture. he couldn't get the idea that i didn't love him anymore. i ended up having to tell him how much i hated and he ended up putting himself in the mental hospital over it. hope it will go better for you. i made the choice to get rid of him with a 2yr and a newborn couldn't even go back to work yet she was so young and i struggled so hard never go child support and he nevers sees the kids. but i can honestly say it was the best decision of my life. i am now happily married and just had another baby and after 5 yrs i am finally recieving child support but he still chooses not to see his children. and they love their new stepdad. its the only dad they now.
2006-08-17 05:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by mommy_dearest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW such a open question. Figure out why you might not love him. Then try talking about it with him. Maybe its not that you don't love him anymore but other things are standing in the way.
HHHMmmmm?
2006-08-17 05:15:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think you love your husband..I guess you really don't I see the candle has burnt out and your relationship has ran its course.
2006-08-17 05:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't think ?....
maybe you should sit down and talk to him.. and see why is it you have that feeling... if anything can be done to reverse this.. or is this final.. if it's final.. I guess the answer if move on...
2006-08-17 05:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋