Leaving my wife this week.......letting her have the house since we have a child, it really sucks.......Cant buy a new house for about a month b/c of paperwork...Anybody need a professional athletic white male/28 roomate for awhile?...................... I have a good job and will pay rent within 60 miles of St. Louis......Its just too uncomfortable around the house to stay there......
2006-08-17 05:28:39 · 18 answers · asked by Linuxiac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go to http://stlouis.craigslist.org
2006-08-17 05:37:59 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another 'wannabe homo' loser who has serious anger management issues and isn't sure about 'coming out of the closet...'
Email me with your f**king and other bad Chinese nin-compoop incomprehensibles one more time, and Yahoo will be on your belligerant and stupid a ss faster than you can get her a hat and a carrot!
Asked this question exactly the same way, twice, so you won't take the advise of men who have 'been there', that the beatings of your wife needs to stop, YOU need to quit the child PR0N on the computer, all night, and a job would be areally great start, though the ANGER MANAGEMENT issue won't go away by itself!
You need to focus on the POSITIVE:
1. Stop the ALL CAPS crap
2. GET some therapy, check yourself into Bellevue as they'll take you for a while, ( in your case, a LOOOONG while!)!
3. Stop the beating on helpless people, and the brow-beating here!
4. Stop harassing folks who put some mild humor into their answers in an attempt to commisserate with you, having "been there, done that", except for all the child pr0n and the molestations you been accused of...
5. This time, wipe the drive at least 7 times, to hide the evidence and the web cam photos!
LOL! The YMCA is open in St. Louis! You'll fit right in to their programs, for restless and lost young men, who have 'issues'!
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Now then, if the above crap made your blood pressure go up, then you really do have an anger management issue, and need to learn to ignore what others tell you, when they are negative.
You simply do not have to read or listen to their anger, nor, do you have to react to it. A wise person considers and focuses upon the exact issue that needs to be resolved, and ignores all the flotsom in the water. Otherwise the ship sinks, you drown!
Until you do, you will repeat these experiences.
What was going on is called "agression therapy". It is used in police training, to make you immune to the taunts and crap that crowds toss at you, to try to enrage you into committing stupid actions. You must learn to ignore those, and focus on the guy with the weapon, who will take advantage of the distractions, to harm you!
Next Question!
2006-08-18 09:15:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer, fight for custody or visitation, if you move out you abandon claim to profits from the house if it's value has increased. It will take you more than a month to buy a new one as she'll have to sign papers of no interest when you buy a new one and you'll have to sign a quit claim on the current. Split all accounts. Search the net or get to the library to read up on what rights you have and how to handle certain issues. No matter what (or who) you've done you need to be careful that current actions do not mess up future stuff...
Been there...
2006-08-17 12:37:33 · answer #3 · answered by nonyahbusiness 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes you can find a motel that rents by the week that has a kitchenette. It is cheaper to rent by the week. May look in the paper for a room to rent.
2006-08-17 12:34:39 · answer #4 · answered by angeldolls4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out the papers...there is a whole section of those with rooms to rent from their home...a good temp solution to your problem. Good luck
2006-08-17 12:37:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i lived close enough, I'd let you stay with me. Just got out of a relationship myself, could use the support. Godd Luck!
2006-08-17 12:33:51 · answer #6 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
check a local frat house at a nearby campus those kids could use some partying money.I'm sure they will put you up in a futon or something.look at the plus side.
2006-08-17 12:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by desayunogratis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in Las Vegas, but I too wish you the best of luck.
2006-08-17 22:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by mistress_piper 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was able to save my marriage thanks to my family and friends. I also read a lot about marital issues and tips on how to save your relationship. The ebook on this site helped me a lot http://savemarriage.toptips.org
Check it out it's worth it.
2014-09-27 18:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless there is a substance abuse problem or she is unwilling to seek help, do not leave.
You have a child with her and must attempt to make it work. Try. Do not cop out.
2006-08-17 12:37:06 · answer #10 · answered by stealm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go see Craigslist and find a temp place.
2006-08-17 12:40:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋