wife won't change her attitude or old ways and I'm tired and frustrated.
2006-08-17 05:20:33 · 11 answers · asked by malenymph69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
THEY GO HAND IN HAND
WHEN U ARE COMMITED TO SSOMEONE U TRY TO MAKE THEM HAPPY BY SACRIFICING
2006-08-17 05:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by maku d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The committment of marriage doesn't outweigh happiness. You can't have a good marriage if one of you is unhappy. On the other hand, the committment of marriage does outweigh you wanting to change your spouse. You can't try and change your wife. If you loved her enough to marry her, then you accept the way she is, including her flaws. The biggest mistake people make in any relationship is trying to change the other person and that person ends being resentful. Maybe you are trying to find problems where there are none so that you have an excuse to leave her.
2006-08-17 13:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by latingirl0527 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the committment! If you are unhappy dispose of the marriage. Dont even stay together for the cat. Been there and done that. There will be a huge sense of relief when you are done. Not only that you will smile again! No matter what - people do not change!
2006-08-17 12:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by EZV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are so unhappy then I think that out weighs the commitment. If you see nothing is gonna change and have tried everything you know to come to a mutual agreement and still are miserable then maybe you commited to the wrong person. I am not a person who believes in throwing away a relationship just because it is hard work .....but .....Life is too short to live it unhappy.
Good luck
2006-08-17 12:28:24 · answer #4 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant expect her to change in the first place specially if you married her the way she is now. I was unhappy in my marriage for 5 years then i got fed up with it. So my answer would be no not worth waisting your time maybe you should tell her all your feelings and yr thinkin about leavin cause you cant handle it and hopefully that will help then if not get out now.
2006-08-17 12:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Committment does NOT outweigh unhappiness.
2006-08-17 12:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in God's name did you marry her expecting her to change? Unless some life -altering even took place in your lives, you knew what you were getting into. It's the number 1 reason for divorce. Accept her as is or move on.
2006-08-17 12:28:54 · answer #7 · answered by vmmhg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriage is a step that should only be taken when you are with the person that doesent need to change for you cause you except them how they are, you cant change people so the one you marry should be the one for you not the one that you want this or that different.
2006-08-17 13:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by rsheets24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
52% of all once married Americans feel that personal well being outweighs marriage commitment.
2006-08-17 12:35:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want her to change now? You should not want anyone to change for you or expect them to change...Just something to think about.
2006-08-17 12:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by sundragonjess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time
2006-08-21 00:08:08 · answer #11 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋