MARRIED THEN DIVORCED AND MARRIED AGAIN
2006-08-17 05:07:10 · 10 answers · asked by sweetpeachyp 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't think that you can not carry old hurt with you into a new relationship, it is what you do with it that matters.
You learn from it, you may not trust as easily as before, you keep your eyes open and you question more. these are not bad things, If you do not learn anything from past problems and hurts then there was no point.
What you have to try not to do is: Misplaced anger, follow him, not trust him at all. If you can not refrain from doing these things, you are not ready for another relationship yet.
2006-08-17 05:21:52 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have gotten married a second time if you are still hurting from the first. To late now I guess. Hurting from the end of a relationship take time to heal. If you love this person in the second marriage you should explain your hurting. Of course it will hurt them to but you need to share everything. Or you just might be asking about your third marriage next time.
2006-08-17 05:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can figure that one out you can become wealthy from the sales of your book describing it how to do it.
Everybody over a certain age brings baggage into relationships. The baggage can come from many different places;how you grew up, religious beliefs, previous relationships and combinations thereof.
The name of the game is to keep your own baggage to a minimum by working through things and to know how much of your partners baggage doesn't exceed you emotional weight limits.
2006-08-17 05:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the experts are u might have somebody new and can do differant stuff with however the cons are that that man or woman might remind u of the guy u only broke up with and u will initiate lacking him and the courting desire artwork. So take it sluggish for now dont rush into yet another courting if u nevertheless have emotions for ur ex. Take care
2016-12-14 07:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't... it's your baggage and you will carry it everywhere you go.. but hopefully you will meet someone that can help you diminish your pain... change that feeling, whom you can trust. My husband and I are no longer together.. and believe me.. right now, man are the worst people on this planet but I know that one day.. I'll say differently.. well, I'm hoping that the humanity is not full of just scum man.. and that there are still good man out there.. I know there are.. my father and my brothers.. so I have hope that there are others...
2006-08-17 05:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Old hurts are lessons that one should learn to overcome...so that such circumstances do not repeat themselves and cause anymore heart ache than they already have...by doing so you can look forward to a happier and more loving new relationship.
2006-08-17 05:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow yourself to be happy, don't dwell on past experiences. You married this person, I assume, because he loves you and cares for you. Let go of the past and move on.
2006-08-17 05:20:25 · answer #7 · answered by latingirl0527 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU LEARN NOT TO HOLD HATE IN OUR HEART IF YOU CARRY AROUND THE EMOTIONS INSIDE FROM A PRIOR RELATIONSHIP YOU WILL ALWAYS DISTROY EVERYTHING YOU ENDEAVOR, IT ISNT THE NEW PERSONS FAULT FOR ANOTHERS ACTIONS ALSO YOU NEED TO BE A LITTLE MORE PRECAUSIOUS BEFORE YOU ENTER A NEW RELATIONSHIP MY ADVICE IS NOT TO CARRY THE PAIN WITH YOU BECAUSE YOU COULD MISS THE RIGHT ONE DOING SO
2006-08-17 06:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by PAULINA S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By leaving the past where it belongs - in the past. With each new person is a new chance.
2006-08-17 05:18:26 · answer #9 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you figure that one out let me know too.
2006-08-17 05:12:26 · answer #10 · answered by Coco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋