its been going on for a year now and she wont agree to anything, im paying for a kid that isnt mine, one of them supposly is, so she is fighting for me to keep paying on the one that isnt,she says i adopted her by signing birth cert., i was in prison when she was born, got out when she was1 1/2 yrs.old, but we were still married when she was born,got dna proved she wasnt mine, but they are inspecting birth cert., we have ahouse with both our names on it but she left a year ago- she hated the house-now wants half of what its worth,but its a land contract, both name on car, want my name off since she has it, she ran up thousands in medical,i cant afford this how can i hurry it along without being left with nothing?? help legal answers!!!
2006-08-17 05:03:19 · 4 answers · asked by sexy momma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to file for legal aid.. and nobody can force you to pay for a child that is not yours.. just stop paying.. !!! ..
2006-08-17 05:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lyne B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the ex is vindictive the courts and lawyers don't care. My ex pulled the "I feel threaten" to get the police involved so she got me out of my house by filing a restraining order which was a lie. I knew it, the police officer that wrote the report and her lawyer also knew it. Then she got temp physical custody of my only child. The courts fail to assign the GAL for over nine months! I have 9 separate emails to the first lawyer asking the status of the GAL found out by only interviewing the 2nd lawyer that the GAL never heard of my case. Then finally got the GAL report over a year later stating several times I should have more time with my kid. Saw the judge now close to two years and the judge won't even-read the report until trial which is schedule by the end of this year. Now I have to get the GAL to court to read and discuss his findings which is in the report that cost both my ex and myself 6K. Its funny that the courts assign the GAL but won't read the report until trial who is stroking who in this system? People wonder why there are so many kids on milk boxes thei're the problem not the solution.
2006-08-17 12:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by chancesare45 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck, if you signed the birth vertificate you could be stuck for quite a while if not permanently. Assets and debts will be divied up. Divorce is a civil matter and legal aid is usually only for criminal matters.
2006-08-17 12:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by Carp 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to me I just got divorced, where do you live?
2006-08-17 12:36:53 · answer #4 · answered by hoboken134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋