a girl who is having physical relationship with his boy friend is going to marry another man.she was enjoying the sex with her boy friend almost weekly once for 2 years.she is not bothering her vergin layer(hymen) since she is in sports.in any other way her husbend can findout her previos sex experiense? if so what she should do to avoid?pl. give practical solution.
2006-08-17 04:47:29 · 16 answers · asked by lux k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's no way physically a person can tell if you've had sex. As you said, the hymen can break in other ways.
Of course, if you've had lots of sex then you'll have to a pretty good actress to make it seem like you're a virgin for your future husband, since you won't really be inexperienced. You'll already know what things you like and don't like, but how would you know unless you've had sex? but an experienced man can find out by other parameters.better dont feel
2006-08-17 05:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by doctor asho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no way physically a person can tell if you've had sex. As you said, the hymen can break in other ways.
Of course, if you've had lots of sex then you'll have to a pretty good actress to make it seem like you're a virgin for your future husband, since you won't really be inexperienced. You'll already know what things you like and don't like, but how would you know unless you've had sex?
2006-08-17 11:55:58 · answer #2 · answered by Steven S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person may not find out immediately. But it is more serious if he finds the truth later. Your friend should show guts to tell his would be husband about her past and reasons if she has any for break up.That way she can ensure peaceful future and she must keep away from all extra marital activities after marriage.If she thinks that it is not serious she should keep away from marriage.
2006-08-17 12:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by rjbendre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any relation based on hidden truth will adversly affect in near future. Make the girl understand that she is entering a new world of loyalty and happiness. let her discus her past with her would be, assure him that she will be loyal to him. If he is broadminded enough he will except her.
2006-08-21 10:32:22 · answer #4 · answered by ajaykumar318 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's had sex, it will be obvious she's not a virgin. Sports have little to do with the hymen. Practical solution? Tell him.......be honest....in this day and age it's highly unlikely to marry a virgin anyways.
2006-08-17 12:32:43 · answer #5 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why lie ?I have read your other questions.And I think your a kid looking for a cheap thrill.Im sure if you are telling the truth he will know your not a virgin.And if you have had sex with the boyfriend why not the man your gonna marry ?Come on get real!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-17 20:50:15 · answer #6 · answered by faye 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best thing ... but if it leads to trouble ...
then try this... on ur first night the moment feel very shy ...
Do not do anything he says .. the moment he tried to penetrate start screaming in pain .and push him off and start crying...
Then he ll say oh i am sorry ok we dont it ... u say no i dont wnat to break ur heart ....
Remember if u get into the act straight away and start riding him ...baby u are DONE ... so act innocent and get away
cheers
2006-08-19 06:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by whyme008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way her husband can know is if someone tells him. But it's a bad idea to start a marriage with such a lie.
2006-08-17 11:56:24 · answer #8 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are experienced person you can have your judgement from body language and some physical changes in body.
I think research in this area will bring unwanted tensions, discuss with your girl friend and get it clear.
2006-08-17 18:05:48 · answer #9 · answered by Kaushik M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to determine how many sexual partners a women has had just from sexual intercourse. Why can't you just ask her how many she has had. If you can't trust what she says should you marry her anyway?
2006-08-17 11:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jewells 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋