My wife tore of her Mangalsutra and insulted me at my inlaws place and told me goodbuy, because i spoke to my mother on the phone. Now she is saying sorry and wants to join me back what should i do ? I had been to my inlaws place to attend a marriage party.
2006-08-17 16:07:22 · 21 answers · asked by coolguy2695 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well your problems have to stem deeper then just talking to your mother. I would suggest trying to talk to her about it. The 2 of you took vows, and you should try to honor them. Try everything in your power to make it work before you throw in the towel. (even marriage counseling). If you don't try everything in your power, then you will have the questions of what if in your head. So you need to clear all of the questions out before you make a rash decision. Good Luck to the both of you.
2006-08-17 16:14:09 · answer #1 · answered by rabika97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My poor friend,
if you are keep on asking this thing to anyone, evey one will suggest you a different answer. You need a answer for your question or your life. Decide it first. If you have the confident that your wife will come back to you and she will adjust & both will live & lead the life happily then call her without any second thought. But if you have the patience that whatever happened i will forgot because i love my wife more than anything in the world means go & call her immediately. Otherwise keep your mouth shut & go do any work if you have or slept well. Bye...
2006-08-18 03:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jagadeeswaran R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wish to remain married, it would be best to forgive and move on. Everyone does things that they later regret, and you showing grace when she has done so may make her more apt to do so when you have been the one to make a mistake. I sincerely hope that you are considering her wants and needs before those of your mother...if not, she may have a very valid reason for having been so upset. Please take some time to examine yourself, and see if any of this is a reflection of your behavior...it may lend you some insight, and help you to avoid this type of situation in the future.
2006-08-17 23:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by dolly3371 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are possessive and emotional in expressing their feelings. forgiveness is beat solution. do not widen the gap. call her immediately and arrange for a hotel to meet her personally. problems between the husband and wife are because of third person(your mother) women always fear about (wife) her emotional security. give her verbal assurance that you love her sincerely.
2006-08-18 01:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a fit of anger we ALL do some things which we later regret... am sure you mustve done tons of those..
The very fact that she called u back and apologised means she LOVES you ...
And the very fact that you have put this question up is that YOU Love her too ...
So pick up your phone and call her NOW ...
2006-08-18 08:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by whyme008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide what is best for your life, but be smart. adaoes she do this alot? Does she play games like this often? If she is just on her first major offense, take her back. If this is a repeated thing, get rid of her.
2006-08-17 23:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by vhcsmamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Marriage is a bond that you commited to. Why wimp out? Stick it out because you love her and you want to make it work. Go to counseling if need be. If you need any reason why to do this: because she is your wife and you are married. That's all you need.
2006-08-17 23:11:55 · answer #7 · answered by tcpic2007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
compramise is always a best way to adopt. however, you place the issue before your in laws and have find a permanent solution. put condition that future mis behavings will not be tolerated.
2006-08-17 23:38:39 · answer #8 · answered by modsaram 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not call her out n discuss, make her understand firmly that this is not done. N she needs to understand d sanctity of the relationship.
2006-08-19 06:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by deep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, do not call her. Just move on with your life and she will be the one who's sorry.
2006-08-17 23:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋