I have a strained rel with my wife for a long time(yrs). Only recently I met this other woman. I am in another country and away from family/ "duty of a husband" for almot 1.5 yr. We communicate with phone only (same country/same city). But I feel pangs to her and to myself(guilt for my marriage/family). I some time want to get away from ALL these and be myself again (unhappy but no guilt). But now I like her a lot but don't want to hurt her. I also lied to her about marriage - I want/wanted to break someday somehow . That is another pangs. Now I don't know how and when (or at all). Should have been straight in the first day itself. But I thought she won't be serious. But now she is serious and likes me etc. She calls me everyday. She is also the type that I love.I don't see any opportunity to go back to my country/city soon(for the purpose of job). She is also from another country ( not my country and also country of our residence) . She is unmarried and away from her family.
2006-08-17 16:16:34 · 7 answers · asked by "I" 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You want an excuse and a ok to cheat,Forget it .You have already cheated.Forgot your marriage vows.
2006-08-17 16:21:44 · answer #1 · answered by nanny2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get back to your marriage and rediscover why you were married in the first place. In March, i let myself get involved with an old girlfriend from 20 years ago. It was stupid and now I'm losing everything good in my life. Instead of coming back when i could I ran, literally moving to another state. Stop the communication with the other person and communicate with your partner. PLEASE
2006-08-17 16:27:16 · answer #2 · answered by ja_wiggins 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure she is not married? perhaps she is living the same lie that you are. i think that you are burning the stick from both ends, and pretty soon you are going to get burned. you need to call it off with one or the other, and you need to do it NOW. not tomorrow. it is not fair for your wife or this other lady. right now you are having your cake and eating it too.
2006-08-17 16:31:58 · answer #3 · answered by rabika97 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl likes the person you are pretending to be. Tell her you are married and that you have been lying to her and see if she still likes you. Your wife deserves to be treated better than that too.
2006-08-17 16:27:11 · answer #4 · answered by Dezi M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are hurting these two women....you should be honest with both...and give them the opportunities of decide....
2006-08-17 16:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by None 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't even read your whole post. You are a jerk!
2006-08-17 16:25:06 · answer #6 · answered by Raspberry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go and bang her sometimes
2006-08-20 21:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋