Marriage & Divorce - 8 August 2006

My gf has cheated me, now I am staying as alone in Chennai city, any body interested to continue with me, if interested mail me, I have to share my feeling with her.....

2006-08-08 21:23:13 · 7 answers · asked by siva k 1

if u were a father/mom and ur marrendege wasnt going so well would u cheat on ur wife/husband??

2006-08-08 21:10:43 · 17 answers · asked by katiedid_4077 2

my husband will be gone for a month for work adn i am new here and don't have many friends or know my way around very well. (We are living overseas). Already on my to do this month list are: make a baby blanket for my nephew and I got a big puzzle before he left to work on. Any other ideas? I am pretty crafty and enjoy making things, so any ideas would be cool.

2006-08-08 21:03:54 · 23 answers · asked by shellshell 4

My husband and I have only been married for 5 months. We also have a child together. But we've been together for almost 2 years. We have our ups and downs like other couples. But my main problem is that I don't fully trust him to go to Wales - England to study for 3 years. It seems a very long time and what if he fells lonely or a woman seduce him etc? He said he will only see my and our son once a year. But will keep in contact through emails and phone as much as we can. I really want to give him a chance for the sake of our son and family but I'm so afraid to get hurt, for what ever problem that may arise. His already made up his mind that he is going. People please, what shall I do? Has anybody experience this before? He does really love me. I broke up our marriage for this and he is asking me back to work it out before he goes. Please help. Thank you

2006-08-08 21:02:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my husband is psychologically ill. few times he tryed to kill himself but he could not. or maybe he was not going to kill only he tryed to scear me. after doing this he was asking to forgive him and was telling that he loves me. but after i borned a baby i fealt that hates me, he hates everything what i am doing or what i am not doing, i am warking but he is not, few times we spoke about divorce but he is saying that he will do everything for to get a baby. i am foreign in this country and scear to divorce not to loose baby. also it became impossible to live with him because we are fighting every day. he is screaming on me when i am doing anything or i am not doing anything or i am earning not enough money or something else. if i did not sceare to loose baby i would be in my country long time ago. i do not know how to protect myself. if anybody was in same position please tell me are this type of people really this much dangerous as they are trying to show?

2006-08-08 20:54:09 · 24 answers · asked by sun 1

2006-08-08 20:46:53 · 24 answers · asked by hagren 3

If you only made love to your wife maybe 4-5 times a year due to GOD knows what mostly her refusals, do you think it is ok to cheat on her.The marriage is Beyond a crisis point. Heres my dilemma I don't believe in divorce, and as a matter of fact I really don't believe in cheating BUT a man has certain needs if You get my drift!! SO what is a man to do to cheat or not to cheat that is the question? the truth is DIVORCE is not an option so please help me out on this one thank you

2006-08-08 20:45:52 · 15 answers · asked by HENNY 1

My wife and i have been married for the past 7 months after seeing each other for 1 and a half yrs... i am a guy who used to be very possesive in the beginning... but after the wedding... i started giving my wife her own space... she goes out with her colleagues ften... i don't... i have a packed weekday schedule wid wk, so usually laze around at home during weekends... i'm an ultimate gaming freak right frm childhood... so spend some hours on the comp playing them... she gets angry for this... she knows how much i love gaming... she never used to say anything bout this b4 our marriage... but now she has a big problem... she beats herself... hits me... is always angry that i don spend time with her... then she z started a new thing bout not havin money to spend for herself... i live in a joint family... an i support ma parents... she also contributes eagerly in front of em but sulks to me that she is unhappy?? i don know wat to do?

2006-08-08 20:41:08 · 23 answers · asked by prodigal_911 1

I feel sorry for you. Just wanted you to know that.

2006-08-08 20:36:54 · 7 answers · asked by Lothario 1

for instance guys are more eligible as they grow older .should it not be the same with chics?

2006-08-08 20:32:30 · 12 answers · asked by jaber 1

2006-08-08 20:28:42 · 12 answers · asked by white 1

My husband and I have had problems for a long time and I recently asked him for a divorce. Today he came home from seeing a therepist and told me she diagnosed him as bipolar. I did a lot of research and the symptoms fit him perfect. Now I am debating my divorce request, there is accually a reason he acts the way he does! And when you get married they say "in sickness and in health" . He is now on medication. Should I stick around and see (and hope) things will change or do I get out before he hits again?

2006-08-08 20:19:44 · 10 answers · asked by angelsls 1

what is pursuant means

2006-08-08 20:16:00 · 9 answers · asked by tarlochan s 1

My wife says she is done, there is no hope for us. She says she can never trust me again after having had contact (communications) with the "other woman". I realized, shortly after having had contact that it was not right and not what I wanted. I tried to cover it up and let the "other women" go gently, so as to not create a situation. Wife found out, other women lied to my wife via txt msgs about our relationship. Wife does not believe it was not physical, and that I was/am committed to me, her, us and our childeren (5 & 7). I believe in us, and our marriage. I realize im resopnsible. I dont want to give up hope, but its very hard when she seems so determined, and talks in absolutes, such as "I can never trust you again." I dont and I didnt want to loose my marriage. When should I give up hope and trying to work things out?

2006-08-08 20:15:15 · 13 answers · asked by bartles101 1

How get citizenship in Singapore?
I mine I want to live in Singapore permanently

2006-08-08 20:08:23 · 1 answers · asked by bala a 1

Are there a lot of legal documents needed? I feel a bit lost in all the fine print when it comes to legal stuff...

2006-08-08 20:02:26 · 4 answers · asked by kristiannajt 1

Oh well it happened the other day, my man started playing some game on the internet where you can play with others from around the world. I noticed that then he added some chicks name to his list. I was curious due to my depression i get jealous at the smallest things like a nice girl walking past., i kept hovering over his shoulder and he told me if he was gonna cheat on me would it be infront of me..So i sat down, then i noticed that hed asked her for a pic which i confronted him abt and he said that it wasnt for him but for another person.He told me i was wrong for not having trust in him.still didnt believe him so the next day when he was at work i checked the history of their mesages it was for him, he had also made a comment about do you want "to play with me". i broke down. is this cheating ive confronted him abt it and he said he didnt think id find outwe just got married and have an 8 month old ..what should i do, coz i feel like he doesnt want to be with me.!!

2006-08-08 19:41:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I decided to post this in Marriage and Divorce because I figure there are a lot of people who would have good advice about making the best decision in a relationship... For 2 years, I was friends with a guy in Dublin over the internet. A while back, he "introduced" me to his roommate, and we are crazy about each other. He's visiting this Fall for the first time, and I have never been so excited. However, I know my family would never approve of the relationship, simply because it began online. But I know my feelings are real; I have never felt so strongly about someone. I just don't know if I should pursue happiness with someone I adore, or cater to my family's wishes and settle for less. On the one hand, I'm with him, but my family is severely disappointed.... while on the other hand, I'm miserable without him but pleasing the people who raised me. What should I do?

2006-08-08 19:36:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

serious answers please

2006-08-08 19:31:11 · 26 answers · asked by answerqueen 3

I love my wife dearly however she says I do not show her the affection she needs. She tells me I am a great Father and Husband but I need to be a friend and more romantic. This all sprung up one day and I had no idea it was coming. She says she will not change her mind but I really want to work through this and save my marriage. Yet I do not want to come across as a little whiney punk. She means everything to me and if I had known this was coming I would not have let it get this far. Any ideas?

I did not mention that even though she said it was over she then said she would think about it. So how do I know when to start trying to show her I can be more affection. Hell, this morning she wouldn't even let me kiss her. I think I am screwed

2006-08-08 19:28:05 · 17 answers · asked by rushin 1

2006-08-08 19:26:16 · 7 answers · asked by Lothario 1

can anyone help me with this little problem? my stepdaughter is trying to get in between my wife and myself and my wife doesn't see it as that, alot of times she will do things on purpose just to interfere with our plans or sort of push her weight around to see if she can get things her way? she is only 15 years old and should have friends to spend time with and not be stuck up her moms rear every second of the day,do you agree anybody?

2006-08-08 19:25:50 · 10 answers · asked by knowitall4now 2

2006-08-08 19:05:42 · 18 answers · asked by prettygirl 1

I guess I was annoying her. We got into a fight and she said something like... "whats wrong with you i need you to bring out the best in me not the worst..." blah blah blah she was yelling and crying and YES I FELT BAD!! I love her and I want to make her happy. What can I do?

2006-08-08 19:04:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 24 years old, married for 2 years and have 2 children. I have been together with my husband for over 9 years and I just have no desire to have sex. He is still very attractive to me, I just hate my body and feel totally unsexy. For some reason, sex is kind of gross to me?!?! I am constantly pushing my husband away, even though I feel bad.
P.S.- I have only climaxed once in my life from sex.

2006-08-08 19:04:24 · 9 answers · asked by oxosasoxo 3

My aunt hates my uncle singing in the shower!

2006-08-08 19:04:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive always wondered. Im 22 and have been in love twice. And i makes me wonder if when the timing is right with a person and you get married, do you finally stop thinking about or having some sort of feelings for the ones you used to love but didnt marry?

2006-08-08 18:53:31 · 4 answers · asked by amtech33 2

I asked him why he would hide it from me. Is it because he is embarrased? He said that he didn't want me to watch it. What would be the real reason he would hide it from me? I don't care if he has porn. I would watch it with him. I have even told him this. But he still hides it.

2006-08-08 18:52:07 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

We recently lost our dad. Mom sold the old house and moved into a new smaller home sense the old one reminded her too much of dad. Im currently staying with mom helping her out and taking care of my granny who is blind , cant walk and has dementia.

We also have my brother and his wife and child living with us.They live in the basement. My sister in law claims that she is severely ill, she stoped going to her courses( which i dont mind its her thing). What doesnt sit well with me is that she claims that she is ill and then as soon as my brother leaves for work she runs upstairs in the kitchen, make a huge mess and then spends her entire day on the phone. I also notcied things belonging to mom dissapearing in the kitchen. Mom's casseroles, utensiles, my glasses and plates. I had to buy a whole set so i dont get to loose my stuff.

I made the dishes last night , magically both sinks are dirty full of pots and plates and utensiles.What the heck is her problem!?!?

2006-08-08 18:50:45 · 8 answers · asked by liipl 1

Men should know how stupid they look!!!!!!!!!!

2006-08-08 18:46:10 · 5 answers · asked by Buda B 3