Marriage & Divorce - 8 August 2006

My husband and I have full custody of his child from a previous marriage. The ex is an emotional fruitcake who wants to be her childs best friend instead of mother. When the child visits the mother there are no rules, no sleep, and she constantly bribes the child with clothes, fast food and candy. I have raised this child for the last year, and work very hard to make sure that she is well behaved, healthy and happy, but I am finding it harder and harder to compete with the "good mom" who lets her run wild. Today was a tough day, the child has recently come back from a visit with her mom and you know how that goes, its takes forever for her to readjust and behave again, so she has been in trouble quite a few times, finally at the end of the night, her mom called and she cried saying that she wants her. I know its not her fault but I get so mad. Her mom makes her a mess and leaves us to deal with it and we look like the big bad mean guys. What would you do? We have tried to talk to her..

2006-08-08 14:28:26 · 8 answers · asked by Sunshine 4

We have a six month old baby should we get married now that we live together.

2006-08-08 14:25:55 · 23 answers · asked by Ivelisse v 1

he is constantly tryng to catch me cheating. he even emailed himself using another name saying i was cheating on him. then use the line " if there is anything you need to tell me i'm all ears, this is the time to tell me". im tired of it, he says its because he has been cheated on before. we have together for 4 years and even share children. im so hurt that he is trying to catch me at something ive never done or thought of... im soo tired of it. when is enough enough?

2006-08-08 14:05:40 · 27 answers · asked by o m 1

i just walked in on my husband having sex with my mom. i have 4 little KIDS! what am i gonna do...he had SEX with her!!! (she had me when she was young, so shes in really good shape) i mean the way i saw it, they were moaning and stuff and he was banging her so hard...i dont know what im gonna do...i wanna kill them or myself....i loved him so much...how coul;d he do this?

plz dont make rude comments, i mserious i really dont know what to do im sobbing my eyes out/

2006-08-08 13:58:40 · 90 answers · asked by Rebecca S 1

Btw i am over 18/f.

2006-08-08 13:58:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out that these two were calling him almost everyday on his cell phone from different states. One from work, one was as they call it "his cousin". Anyway, the calls have stopped. I was upset, hurt and felt betrayed, we went to counseling - he said it was nothing more than a conversation. Anyway, we resolved our issues and are doing so much better. But one girl called him months later on his birthday. He told her not to call again because he did not appreciate how she treated me . I strongly believe they were attached emotionally to him because why is the one girl still trying to call. Overall, both girls were not pleased when I stopped the calls or they were not pleased with the fact that I found out they calling on a daily basis. As long as I was out of the picture they were happy but I did find out. Knowing that he spoke to these girls sometimes almost everyday, how do you think these girls have been taking it? Do you think they are feeling rejected and hurt?

2006-08-08 13:57:03 · 32 answers · asked by stockqueen 1

I feel like I could probably deal with him another few years but we are on totally different levels. He has cheated and likes hanging out and is really not a trust worthy dude, at this point he just makes me sick really but then I feel like I am being selfish.

2006-08-08 13:46:43 · 24 answers · asked by Nadia 2

2006-08-08 13:46:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have a very deep and true love for eachother and the story behind how we fell inlove is very passionate. But, he started driving over the road one year ago and I find myself worrying at times. He doesn't act different ever or give me any reason to not trust him and I never question what he's doing or anything like that. But, I guess I'm only human. What do any of you truly think? Please give your honest opinion. I would like to know how many of you men would really be unfaithful while away from your wife also. Thanks for all of your serious answers.

2006-08-08 13:44:00 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have bad credit, but my fiance does not... what will getting married do to her credit score?

2006-08-08 13:39:34 · 2 answers · asked by Jason G 1

Ok. About 3 years ago my parents separated. there was a restraining order against my dad. My mother left to Arizona with my two younger brothers and My father remained here in New Mexico. The oldest of the two younger bros is 13 years old and he wants to live with my father now. My bro and I sat down with my mom and talked to her about it and she blew up and said no. My mother never made an attempt to get a divorce. and the restraining order is no longer in affect. Does anyone know the age at which a child of 13 can choose what parent he can live with. And since they are NOT divorced what else could he do to legally live with my father?

2006-08-08 13:38:04 · 16 answers · asked by theorangehatter 2

2006-08-08 13:36:56 · 13 answers · asked by Karen T 3

Im 25 and I have a boyfriend I have been with for almost two years. I don't know how to tell if I want to marry him or not. I love him, but I do sometimes get jealous of my single friends because they have so much fun flirting with and meeting guys. How can you tell if you just dont want to marry someone or if your just not ready yet???

2006-08-08 13:36:06 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi Everyone...
I just wanted to say thanks so much for all your answers...Thank Goodness for yahoo Answers...Its just so nice to know there are pepole out there that care...Thanks so much guys for all tips and trust i'll make the right decision...Thanks again...Enjoy the rest of the summer...!!!

2006-08-08 13:32:00 · 24 answers · asked by chomie3 2

I'm married, 31yrs old and have a 3yr old. My marriage has been pretty rocky (we've been married 7 yrs and been together a total of 18 yrs). I've thought about divorce more than a few times in the past year. I want to have another child and my husband is a good dad. My kids would have the same father this way. I don't expect a baby to fix our marriage and I know it will put more stress on it. He's not against having another child right now. Any suggestions?

2006-08-08 13:27:27 · 18 answers · asked by hairsnipper 3

2006-08-08 13:26:51 · 18 answers · asked by haylsin 3

Now I'm married, but the guy I slept with before I got married ended up being my husbands cousin (his first cousin). My problem is that I think he still likes me. I never told my husband about it, because we were not together when it happened. So, I really don't think he needs to know. I don't know everyone he slept with nor do I want to know. I don't like this guy, but I don't know how to get him to understand this. I don't want to be the reason that he wouldn't talk to my husband anymore, because they are really close. So, any true answers are more than welcome.

2006-08-08 13:24:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-08 13:21:52 · 19 answers · asked by Release Anwar Al-Awlaki NOW 1

Letter to My Mom

I just wanted you to know,
I met someone who is very special indeed.

She’s all I could ever ask for,
and she seems to know, all about me.

There’s something about her, that sets her apart,
her love is unconditional, with a smile from her heart.

I love her more than words could ever show,
and she’s my angel, the one who makes me glow.

Mom, she reminds me of you,
in so many wonderful ways.

Her love and her kindness are always there for me,
and asks nothing of herself in any kind of way.

But mom, I remember the day, you looked at me and said,
someday your angel of love will come to you my son.

And it will be the day, the good Lord,
decides to take, your loving Mom.
By: Kenny P. aka- Cobra

2006-08-08 13:20:58 · 4 answers · asked by Cobra 5

I am not saying like she is crazy, but sometimes ppl just need that space in there mind left alone without anyone just sitting next to them trying to figure out what's wrong and stuff...ladies that questioning just gets annoying sometimes.

2006-08-08 13:19:47 · 17 answers · asked by Jack 2

2006-08-08 13:10:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

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2006-08-08 13:06:07 · 2 answers · asked by les_etoiles 1

There is a young man that has seven beautiful children and a wife who is so angry and dishonest. He tries so hard to make her happy and un-fortunately there is never enough money to go around. He washes clothes, cleans house and washes tons of dishes as she sits and stares at the TV. How do I know, because I know the family well. My main concern is on top of what this poor man does , he is never good enough. His wife goes into temper tantrums and chases him across the street to his parents house and to add insult unto injury, she calls him a Mommies Boy or a Mommies *****. He is so wounded from that. Many times when she has not had cigarettes, she tells him to go to his parents house to get some. She sends him for all types of help and the mans parents help them out all of the time. The young man is ashamed for going to his parents for so much help and many times he has told her NO. The worse thing she does is downgrade him. He stays only for the children.

2006-08-08 13:00:49 · 14 answers · asked by Norskeyenta 6

Do u think I should get my sister married to an Indian man or an American citizen?
An American citizen would be settled and know this society. On the other end, Indian man would hav to wait few years to get here and adjust to this society and learn so many new things.
I think my sister would not be happy with Indian man because she would have to work harder in that realtionship.

2006-08-08 13:00:46 · 6 answers · asked by curiousgeorge 1

I'm very interested in everyone's opinions.

2006-08-08 12:46:10 · 5 answers · asked by genuine1 3

Do you think men who had long-term relationships (I mean 2-3 years, not necessarily 10) but did not get married even though their GFs wanted to are afraid of commitment in general? Does the fact that they had long-tem rlnships but did not tie the knot mean they are less likely to commit in the future?

2006-08-08 12:45:54 · 7 answers · asked by semma 1

2006-08-08 12:43:07 · 31 answers · asked by Brit 1

y does the mistress always believe what the married man says.they will not leave there family for some girl in the streets get together they just tell u what u want to hear

2006-08-08 12:39:14 · 12 answers · asked by greyeyebeauty81 2

MY husband wants me to spank him not playfully but dominatingly. I am not sure how I feel about donig this. I have tried but I don't want to hurt him. He says I'm not and that love is painful. We have only fought mildly in our relationship and very scarcely. He says it's like an absolution of sin. He said that he loves me very much. Because we hardly ever fight and that he does not desire to fight with me, he feels that by me doing this to him he will "feel forgiven for letting me down in life" . I told him that he does not nor has not ever let me down. He explained that we are all let down by something or another, and that he wasn't nor was I the exact person we thought we would love, that being said, we are all let down. He feels that this absolution will remove a huge weight ,that he carries with him at all times,to be the best person he can be in life for me . Should I do this for him ? What do I do about not wanting to hurt him? Anyone with experience in this matter please respond

2006-08-08 12:35:12 · 7 answers · asked by jesse'sgirl 1

find great pleasure in massaging and kissing my new wife's feet and toes every chance I get. I have encouraged her to wear shoes with open toes often because I love to watch her feet when we are out together.
Is this unusual or are there other men who enjoy this as well?

2006-08-08 12:32:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous