Marriage & Divorce - 8 August 2006

If ur partner can't except you as you are that's not love...i'm thinking of calling it a wrap. I mean after 7 years and b/c I put on weight after my child and it keeps going up and down. that's not moral support. he says that when we fight he pokes fun at me for motivational purposes. I think not!

2006-08-08 16:13:27 · 17 answers · asked by myeia2003 1

My ex husband keeps telling me how he regrets marrying this woman, and that he hates her kids. He feels like "he's just playing house" with her, it feels odd to him to be away from his own kids, yet he has hers all the time. He says he still loves me and misses our kids so much he goes around with an upset stomach. He wants to come back to his own family again.

I'm sitting here struggling to raise 2 kids as a single mom, babysitter problems, and the kids always say how they want him back. I'm drowning here. Problem is he was abusive to me and cheated on me. Should I take the chance in trying to get together again? It's been 5 years.

2006-08-08 16:05:44 · 27 answers · asked by ? 3

2006-08-08 16:02:57 · 18 answers · asked by CustomBentley 2

I have been seperated for 6 months now and well I just don't know how to handle this situation.. I am sooo freaking upset with him right now... I told him I am working on myself right now and until I am happy with myself I can't make anyone else happy. I am not in love with him anymore!!! But there isn't any thing wrong with dating other people and finding out what I want and who I am... hopefully that doesn't get taken the wrong way, but this is one of the reasons we seperated.. we grew apart and didn't know each other anymore.. but anyway I am getting to the point where I don't want to be around him too much anymore cuz I feel like he is always bringing me down.. He knows I am filing for the divorce soon, but today!!! he drew the line.. he text messaged me asking me if i wanted to have sex with him yes or no.... i was SHOCKED!!! i couldn't believe it!!! I was soooooooo mad... what should I do.. I gave him my word that I would wait till January to file, but he doesn't listen TO ME!

2006-08-08 15:44:37 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Time is changing,concept and trend of everything is changing.Take marriage - gay marriage,marry- divorce n then marry,polygamy.what kinda marriage will be best for the future ? do u think we should live with one person lifelong?

2006-08-08 15:43:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like with an engineered pregnancy? Or even a faked pregnancy?How common is that? Do you think its OK, or does it make a bad marriage inevitable?

2006-08-08 15:39:26 · 24 answers · asked by jxt299 7

I've told her so many time about this. She also promised me not to do it but she is still doing it. According to her there's nothing going on between them but she tends to talk more to that guy rather then talking to me. What is the best way to advise her?

2006-08-08 15:37:33 · 20 answers · asked by callibrator 1

He gets very angry towards me and the kids. He puts a guilt trip on me. He can get violent when he wants to. He nevers listens to me. He calls me names etc.

2006-08-08 15:36:54 · 22 answers · asked by savemeritnow 1

My husband finally left his mistress after a year and a half of going back and forth between us. When he came home, I told him to call his mistress and let her know that things were over between them. He tried to call, but she wasn't home and he didn't leave a message.

She has called numerous times saying that she misses him, and she sent an email that said "tell me what to do with your clothes, thanks." He didn't respond, and has not tried to call her. I wonder why though. He says he doesn't want to talk to her, but he never told her it is over. What's the deal?

2006-08-08 15:32:42 · 36 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

I HAVE A QUESTION THEY ARE GARNISHING OUT OF MY HUSBAND'S PAYCHECK CHILDSUPPORT AND WE ARE STRUGGLING TO MAKE THIS PAYMENTS WE DONT HAVE ENOUGHT FOR OURSELVES AND I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF THERE IS A WAY TO LOWER DOWN THE PAYMENTS FOR SOMETHING HE CAN AFFORD I HAVE THREE CHILDREN AND THEY ARE NOT HIS BUT STILL IS NOT FAIR SUPPORTING TWO FAMILIES AND NOT TAKING THIS INTO CONSIDERATION

2006-08-08 15:32:05 · 11 answers · asked by estibalizcastillo 1

I HAVE A QUESTION THEY ARE GARNISHING OUT OF MY HUSBAND'S PAYCHECK CHILDSUPPORT AND WE ARE STRUGGLING TO MAKE THIS PAYMENTS WE DONT HAVE ENOUGHT FOR OURSELVES AND I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF THERE IS A WAY TO LOWER DOWN THE PAYMENTS FOR SOMETHING HE CAN AFFORD I HAVE THREE CHILDREN AND THEY ARE NOT HIS BUT STILL IS NOT FAIR SUPPORTING TWO FAMILIES AND NOT TAKING THIS INTO CONSIDERATION

2006-08-08 15:31:39 · 6 answers · asked by estibalizcastillo 1

2006-08-08 15:30:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm so depressed right now b/c of this , i feel he's makeing fun of me behind my back. i try to forget that i'm different but when he says something like this it makes me feel so worthless .. what can i do??

2006-08-08 15:29:18 · 18 answers · asked by me 1

We are seeing each other for around 3 years and I try to break up every month for the past 12 months, but she simply doesn't allow me, she said she will hurt her self and i will destroy her life.

I am tired of this, i met her husband and he is a very nice man, i feel ashame of myself i just don't know how to break up, she is 5 years older than me but she is very amature, i put my self in a hall and i am not able to get out of it.

she now wants to get divorce and live with me, it is impossible, my situation doesn't allow me to think of marriage and she is not the type of woman i want to mary to.

please send me your ownest advise

2006-08-08 15:29:18 · 48 answers · asked by confusion 1

I am recently divorced. How many people who are on here are divorced? Do you tend to surround yourself with other divorced people? Do you tend to have a negative attitude towards marriage now. I just wonder if there are as many divorced people as there seems to be. Thanks for your answer. Appreciate your honesty and taking the time to answer.

2006-08-08 15:27:32 · 8 answers · asked by Shadow 6

I heard someone say that they have married their commonlaw wife the christian way and wasn't sure if walking down the aisle was necessary.

I always believed that it was living in sin to live unwed. And commonlaw means to live with someone for a certain amount of time. Depending on where you are it differs where i am its one year plus a day

2006-08-08 15:26:15 · 6 answers · asked by jennbabe 2

when you are just so true, you tend to be in a complicating situation, when you lie they believe you.

2006-08-08 15:24:57 · 31 answers · asked by music 2

My husband and I work nites he is 11-7am and i am 7-7am he is straight monday to friday where as i work a wierd 2 on 2 off 3 on 2off bla bla kinda continental shift.

Right now we have not spent a nite together in 2 and a half weeks and I am starting to get a little sexually frustrated. I know I can't do anything about our schedules we have to work but I need some TLC as well. I am sure he does to his kisses are getting deeper and deeper and more intense every time.

Any suggestions on how to let him know I want him without sounding like a b i t c h

2006-08-08 15:22:51 · 17 answers · asked by jennbabe 2

is she a good attorney? i don't know anything about her?
family law

2006-08-08 15:21:59 · 3 answers · asked by tracy t 1

How long do you have to be divorced in Indiana before you can get married again?

2006-08-08 15:16:21 · 5 answers · asked by Susan R 1

2006-08-08 15:04:40 · 24 answers · asked by WingMan 3

2006-08-08 14:59:50 · 27 answers · asked by cindy h 1

I have been married a number of years i ran into an old friend whom i never lost feeling for we sleep together i felt as though it was sweet revenge on my husband for his previous dirty deeds and i would not have ever done that if he did not make me feel insecure all the time now i feel im tied between the two not wanting one of them

2006-08-08 14:51:05 · 10 answers · asked by sexysummer34 1

Anyone else have a spouse that has no appreciation for good kissing.

What's the point of having a mate who isn't into kissing.

Does anyone else think kissing is about the sweetest/bestest thing in the world, and yet their partner couldn't care less about good good kissing?

Have you ever wished for a kissing paramour, just so you can have some good kissing? Could you just die from the lack of good kissing?

2006-08-08 14:48:43 · 11 answers · asked by JRSK007 3

I got my marriage license today and we are planning to get married by the justice of the peace, and would like to do it downtown. Has anyone gotten married at City Hall? What appt do I need to make and what are the fees?

2006-08-08 14:47:24 · 6 answers · asked by amberbrowneyedgirl 2

Did you have to fight for it in court? What happened? My husband has had full custody of his daughter for over a year because her mom signed over custody and now that he is happily married and expecting another child, she wants her daughter back. Has anyone experienced this type of situation? Or had to go to court to keep the custody you already have? I don't think it will be easy for her to do. But I am interested in other fathers experiences. Thanks!!!

2006-08-08 14:46:15 · 11 answers · asked by Sunshine 4

2006-08-08 14:41:03 · 17 answers · asked by shorty 1

My wife lives in a differnt country,waiting to come here,I have found out she has been having a affair with a lesbian,she says she didnt want to cheat with man,and it jurts when she dont have sex,I need advise,I am really hurt.

2006-08-08 14:40:11 · 6 answers · asked by bill m 1

2006-08-08 14:39:59 · 22 answers · asked by cinderella overdrive 2

We have been together off and on for 3 years and we have been steady this time for overa year and we just got engaged a few monthes back. when would be a good time to take that plunge.

2006-08-08 14:32:00 · 45 answers · asked by sara 3