Marriage & Divorce - 8 August 2006

Do you like it? I hate it when my hubby refers to me as his "ole' lady" or "mumma"....I usually go into shock when he says "my wife". At least he doesn't call me his "b-tch" or anything like along those lines. Just between him & I, he'll call me "babe" or "honey".

2006-08-08 09:28:55 · 22 answers · asked by TML ♥'er 3

My husband cheated on me before we were married but I didnt know about it until after we were married. He had another fiance up until about 3 months before we got married! How can I put that behind me and trust him again? He says he loves me and will not do it again and I am the only one he wants.

2006-08-08 09:20:00 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've tried making friends with them but something always goes wrong and gets in the way. There is constant lying, decieving, and back-stabing. I can't trust anyone in his family and it's tearing me apart because I don't know what to do. I can't just walk away because we have a child together and I want my little girl to know her family. So I'm stuck, someone please help! I get married in two weeks and I'm driving myself insane.

2006-08-08 09:13:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-08 09:12:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

He called me, and after a nice conversation, asked me if I knew the website we use to pay our gas bill. I didn't know it, so I said so. Then he goes, I didn't expect you to know it right off the top of your head, and asked me if there was a bill in our basket. I said no, I don't think so, but I will check anyway. And then he just told me to forget it, and I could tell it wasn't like, "don't worry about it, honey," it was out of frustration. I tried to tell him I was looking, but he just wanted to get off the phone, so we did. So then I got on the computer to look up the website, and called him to tell him when I found it. He just started in on telling me how he was annoyed at me because I was making it seem like I didn't know what he was talking about, and that he felt like he had to explain to me how to find the website. Then, he started telling me how I act like that pretty often, and that it really is annoying......more below....

2006-08-08 09:11:22 · 18 answers · asked by ShineOnYouCrazyDiamond 4

Can someone please tell me why they have it the best, or the worse in their marriage? Cover money, sex, house, kids, job, sex, family members and inlaws, neigbors, sex, anything that you either have it the best or the worst. I want to know where I am in life, and which way is up or down.

2006-08-08 09:10:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

can I do to keep her out of our relationship? She has gone beyond extremes to cause havoc in our marriage. Unfortunately she is using their child as a tool for manipulaing him. After a recent incident where we were forced to call the sheriff's : she was trespassed from the property and can now only stop at the curb to drop off or pick uo their child rather than coming through the house unannounced all hours o f the day and night. Now she's on a rampage making numerous allegations to DCF and harrassing us. She stalks us and shows up everywhere we are. My husband is a mechanic and had continued to make repairs on her car for the safety of the child but came to realize that she intentionally created problems just to stay connected to him and has since atopped working on her car. She is beyond psycho! any suggestions?

2006-08-08 09:09:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my ex husband are now back together after a year and a half of being apart. We dated people and had other relationships. Things were great in the beginning and just recently we started fighting alot about alot of stuff.We cant seem to meet common ground. I know i have some issues that i need to work on within me. I seem to run away from my problems and it seem that no matter what I do or where I go It is great for a while an then things just get bad. I just dont know what to do.

2006-08-08 09:07:36 · 13 answers · asked by babydoll 1

She's 6 months older than I am.

2006-08-08 09:06:06 · 35 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-08-08 08:59:23 · 22 answers · asked by melon_rose 2

I do have friends but I don't feel comfortable when friends know so much about my personal life. They of course know some stuff, but what I mean is I don't like it much when they know all the details.

I don't have siblings. I tried talking to my mom and she means well but she is both a different generation and she is not that objective when it comes to people who hurt her "little girl".

Should I talk to a psychiatrist? Do they give advice? It would be so nice to get the advice of an experienced, objective person.

2006-08-08 08:47:05 · 15 answers · asked by cecko 1

I love my wife and want us to be together.How can I fix this problem. We have a son together.Plus I don't want a divorce.

2006-08-08 08:43:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

The wife finds out 10 years later that he knew but didn't tell her a thing?

2006-08-08 08:42:54 · 14 answers · asked by beadedforyou 1

I am not a small girl, not like huge or anything but I guess judjing by my pants size I would be considered plus size. And because of the emphasis on being tiny if your a woman I have developed insecurities about it especially in the bedroom with my husband. there are so many things I fantisize about and really letting loose but I find myself always holding back for fear of looking stupid or something. Like I cant get into it if Im on top because Im afrain hes looking at my stomach, and cant to 69 position because thats really an uncomfortable position, on my back Im afraid my b**bs fall to the side too far etc... are all of us women insecure, and for the men.. are you thinking about the flaws on your girls body when your having sex?

2006-08-08 08:39:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been sleeping with a married man. I recently found out that I am pregnant and he refuses to tell his wife. I believe that she should know but I don't know how to reach her. Any suggestions.

2006-08-08 08:36:37 · 15 answers · asked by BELIEVE IT 1

married 25yrs and have a nice vow renewal planned out of town with family and friends. was talking about plans with hubby & when i mentioned us paying for gas for those attending he looked at me like i was crazy. actually he looked at me like he hated me,it was awful. since this happen i don't even know if i want to renew my vows. he hasn't lifted one finger to help or spent one minute on any of the planning. i was reading some love poems to him that we could use in the renewal when the topic came up about us paying for gas.then he made a couple of comments like "it was my idea to do this" and "i knew he didn't really want to do this from the beginning". then later he comes to me and says he's sorry that he knows this means a lot to me and he does want to do it. well this makes 3 times now that he's said that. 25yrs ago we ended up with one wedding picture and thats it. we're to get pictures at the renwal.i would feel dumb to cancel but now "i" don't feel like doing this. any advice?

2006-08-08 08:31:23 · 24 answers · asked by LL 2

1 could be your husband or not.

2006-08-08 08:31:08 · 11 answers · asked by M 1

A girl in my family is married and says she has just started to get bi-curious but she doesnt want to act on it for fear of feeling like that would be cheating on her hubby, but she is scared to bring it up to him, what do you think you would do if your wife wanted to bring another female into the bed?

2006-08-08 08:30:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

she has only came around 3 times this year, lived on the lake with this guy she is with now, on meth and pot real bad. Has lost custody of her other two kids to DCS. She says she is clean now, but hasnt had time to get a drug test yet, and has a house with this same guy. Another point that bothers me is she still has contact with her last bf, a convected rapest (drug raped a 16yo girl) even though he was arrested for not reg as a offender, living with her and the 2 girls (19mo and 3mo) and durgs. I personially think that she needs to never see the boys, but, it is their mom.. Any suggestions. also, i did offer for her to come here to see them but got btchd at and hung up on

2006-08-08 08:27:04 · 23 answers · asked by John Doe 1

Let's say that a women's husband dies- and she goes out willing to marry another... is it right? and if she does- is he her second true love?

2006-08-08 08:24:08 · 13 answers · asked by yehaw_girl 1

im not sure if i want to get married yet im only 23 i still got alot of life ahead of me how can i tell her no without breaking her heart??

2006-08-08 08:22:10 · 12 answers · asked by da_bomb144 2

Well my husband use to e a emt in mexicali, and he just won't let it go. he wants to go back to do it again but I don't want to raise my kids there. Too many problems there. Any ideas?

2006-08-08 08:18:44 · 7 answers · asked by chicamexicana 2

We both talk about it and trust that are feelings are true but we are still a little apprehensive.

2006-08-08 08:08:19 · 24 answers · asked by Reco 1

2006-08-08 08:07:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband always goes out with friends and stays out until literally 4 or 5 in the morning. I do not like that. And he gets all offensive when I ask him what he is doing. And he gets pissed when I call his cell phone to ask when he will be home and where he is at. I am afraid he will cheat on me. He says I need to trust him and he will not cheat on me. Also, do you think it is right for a married man to go to a bar? I mean when you get drunk you cannot think straight so how can I be sure he wouldnt cheat on me then? He says I need to leave him alone when he goes out and I need to stop calling him. Am I being unreasonable?

2006-08-08 08:03:21 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years now. we have been having some problems with whether he wants to ever get married or not, which i want too do. He just told he decided he doesnt want to get married. I really care about this guy, but is it stupid of me to stay with him?

2006-08-08 08:02:41 · 24 answers · asked by steph1234 3

2006-08-08 07:55:45 · 21 answers · asked by occasional optimist 1

To keep my wife of only to think of me? Also to keep my kids in line while iam over so they wont be so bad with my wife? This is crazy. Iam going over to be a fire fighter (one year) on a base in Iraq. But will be home for 10 days every 4 mouths.

2006-08-08 07:55:00 · 14 answers · asked by firecoolerman 2

Can’t you remain married to one man and keep your legs closed?

Is it THAT hard?

Why get married if you are going to whore around town?

If you can’t be faithful then maybe you should divorce so you can screw everyone within a 10 mile radius of your skanky self.

Anyone else sick of these cheap women?

2006-08-08 07:49:29 · 29 answers · asked by BitchyComplainer 1

I really want her to make me omelettes with tomatoes in them, but she only uses ham and cheese. Not sure how to go about it. Do you want your significant other to be more exciting?

2006-08-08 07:40:37 · 14 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3