2006-08-08 09:12:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
after looking at all your questions i think that either you are a very frustrated wife with a pretty bad husband and or marriage or your getting your rocks off and actually enjoying this line of questioning. my guess is the latter. keep up the good work.
2006-08-08 10:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by kurleylovescheese 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is VERY normal for a female to take longer to have an orgasm than male. Especially if the sexual technique is no good at all.
2006-08-08 10:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by CartoonFreak1985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In colonial times why do you think they called them the "Minute Men"? (a joke) In reality women take a little time to warm up; sort of like letting the car idle for a few moments and get everything circulating and warmed up. Then you shift it into drive and it responds to the throttle. Many men are slow on the uptake here until you explain the facts of life to them. A little foreplay and warmup sets the stage and leads to a longer and more intense encounter that both parties enjoy. The old business of in, out and snore is selfish. My wife usually has three or four orgasms before the grand finale; a smoothly running engine is fun to pour the gas to.
2006-08-08 09:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very normal. It takes women much longer to orgasm than what it takes a man to have one.
2006-08-08 09:16:49 · answer #4 · answered by ProudSexySouthernGirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I'm lucky in this area because I orgasm very fast, but I believe that the norm is that women take longer than men.
2006-08-08 09:27:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, in fact there is a large portion of women that may never have an orgasm by intercourse. Manual stimulation is required a lot of the time. Have him go down on you and get you off before you even have intercourse. Or get close and then go for it. Or have him use his fingers during sex. Try it yourself during sex, maybe he will like to watch you get yourself off. No harm in that.
2006-08-08 09:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Highroller 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Unlike the typical male, it takes more than 30 second to get to that point for women. It may be due to simple body functionability and it may be in part due to the fact that sex is more emotional for us than for men. Men tend to be pure action when it comes to this so it is NOT odd for it to take longer for us women who actually are trying to get more out of it than physical satisfaction. Don't worry, you ARE normal!
2006-08-08 09:20:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is very normal, that is why your partner should take extra time in pleasing you to get you to your arousal point. Toys are also good in making you feel more pleased. Experiment. If he is not doing his job right, let him know what really turns you on and what you want him to do. Show him the spot.
2006-08-08 09:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by roseygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, but the trade off is that you're capable of multiple orgasms in one session. Talk to your husband about it, foreplay from him, and relaxing from you can speed things up nicely.
2006-08-08 09:40:21 · answer #9 · answered by daisyk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can take a man about 15 min but it can take 45 min for a woman... at least that's hat cosmo said...
2006-08-08 09:59:14 · answer #10 · answered by A_Soldiers_Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋