A girl in my family is married and says she has just started to get bi-curious but she doesnt want to act on it for fear of feeling like that would be cheating on her hubby, but she is scared to bring it up to him, what do you think you would do if your wife wanted to bring another female into the bed?
2006-08-08 08:30:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I, and most other men, would jump for joy. I mean seriously this is the number one male fantasy. Even if all he can do is watch, he'll still most likely love it. And it is not cheating if everyone is aware of what is going on. What she needs to do is to have a plan that allows her to see what his interest level is without going directly to the last step. For example,
1) They should do out dancing with some other couples, single girls, and she should dance closely with other girls and she what he does. If he freaks and gets pissed, then it will likely never work. If he gets all turned on by it, then she can take it a step further.
2) Rent some porn videos that has FMF as a theme. In fact, nearly every porn has FMF as a theme. See what his reaction is.
3) She can mention it while having sex and see what his reaction is.
The bottom line is to approach this slowly and carefully, with nothing hidden. Curious is the key word here, reality might be very different than curiosity.
2006-08-08 08:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being pretty confident of myself and my role, it probably wouldn't bother me much. Don't know if I'd want to be there when she did it but I'd be glad if she got off in any way that didn't hurt someone. Drugs and/or alcohol would be a deal breaker though.
2006-08-08 08:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds great and kinky, but that would not be good for the relationship. She may get upset if you start doing the other girl and not paying her attention.......see what I mean vern.
2006-08-08 08:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋