Marriage & Divorce - 8 August 2006

I am married and we have been having problems where i had caught him talking to women online and even went as far as him calling them and him having an emotional affair with one of them who live in another state cross country i do not think he ever met her he just called her daily and her him and email on a regular basis well that was not the first time i had caught him i had caught him like 3 other times chatting to women online or emailing them etc this time was the worse because of how far it went! anyway its very hard for me to getover it this time as i do not trust him at all anymore and find myself questioning his every move tonight when he got home from work we got into an argument because i asked him why he was late etc well i guess he says its getting old me always trying to ask him some kind of question and he started getting mad and threw things on the floor yell either i get over it or leave either way he will be happy any suggestions on what i should do??

2006-08-08 18:35:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-08 18:30:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok me and my husband have been married 2 years but we met my senior year of high school and the 6th of september is our official meeting date 4 long and wonderful years and i want to make it special any suggestions?

2006-08-08 18:27:16 · 8 answers · asked by thatgurl 6

I don't but sometimes you have to it all depends on what is going on

2006-08-08 18:24:06 · 35 answers · asked by Emily24 1

2006-08-08 18:23:47 · 13 answers · asked by j9everyday 1

2006-08-08 18:21:50 · 7 answers · asked by rubyred 1

2006-08-08 18:21:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm an only child( 38yrs old), my mom passed away 10 yrs ago, my dad remarried last yr & he had money left over from insurance when my mom died. The new wife had very little to nothing, no home, no money really, only 3 adult kids. Since he's known her, he's traded his truck & travel trailer for a motorhome, bought a Mustang conv. which she was supposed to have paid 1/2 of but didn't. and bought a jeep which she traded her old car in on. He recenlty traded the Jeep for a new Mustang conv. so now she has vested interest in both vehicles. However everything else was my dad's or my dad's & my mom's. After my mom died 10 yrs ago, my dad did do a will, of course me & my kids get everything mostly. If he was to die, what would the new wife be able to get? Does she get 1/2 of everything just because they are married? Would the Will still be in effect? She's trying to make him sell everything, even the house, she wants to move.which if they do, even if my dad pays for it all, does she get it?

2006-08-08 18:05:23 · 7 answers · asked by tinybell 2

we have been married for 3 years, and she told me that she has been having an affair with a 41 year old doctor for nearly the whole 3 years (my wife is a nurse). i have always been good to her, spend all my $$$ on her and always give her all my attention. why would she leave me for a guy that is as old as her dad? i want an opinion as to why.....

2006-08-08 18:01:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-08 17:59:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you've read any of my past questions, you will see that I've been dealing with a female co-worker of my husbands who has repeatedly came-on to my husband (email and in person, oh yea I read the emails and you can too), sent inappropriate pictures of herself, asked him out on dates and even went so far as to ask to spend the night with him, all KNOWING HE IS MARRIED WITH KIDS!!! I've tried nicely to ask her to stop and so has my husband but she just won't. So I think women like this need to be tought a LESSON!! I've created a myspace/homewrecker page for her with all of her less than decent emails to my husband. I beg for your support in outting this horrible woman and request to be added as her friend in support against her and her kind. Send this to all the other women you know that have been done wrong by skanks like this. Here is her page http://www.myspace.com/99931824

2006-08-08 17:44:36 · 15 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2

2006-08-08 17:43:35 · 2 answers · asked by bcdc02 1

he has been working a lot and we need time with each other and i have been little mean...we stay in new york..any exciting places for couples which are affordable..

2006-08-08 17:37:43 · 12 answers · asked by crazyabs 1

My husband is a new long haul truck driver. He's been gone now for about 10 days and no end in sight yet. It could be tomorrow he gets told to come home or in 2 weeks time. It's killing me. I wasn't too bad until today and for some reason now it's like a knife cutting me.... ya know that sick feeling. I'm just lost without him. I don't even know what kind of answer I'm looking for here. Maybe I just wanted to get it all out..... I don't know.

2006-08-08 17:35:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

He cums to fast. Is there anything we can do to stop this? We have tried pulling out when he feels he is going to ***, but that gets old quick. Also I have one of those things they call cock ring on they way. Has anyone used one before and what r your thoughts on a Cock Pump?

2006-08-08 17:26:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-08 17:24:56 · 7 answers · asked by firered 2

I am 35 years old no kids....but I am scared to fall in love again...I get nervous everytime someone wants to talk to me ....and it's because I am still hurt i guess.....My question is What should I do ?

2006-08-08 17:24:34 · 26 answers · asked by Yami 3

2006-08-08 17:21:20 · 5 answers · asked by traven1125 1

My parents are getting a divorce and I don't want my mother to have custody of me. I am 15 going to 16 in a couple of days, and I don't know how I want to tell her. This is really awkward. I just don't know how to talk to her without it blowing up in my face. I need some help.

Thanks!

2006-08-08 17:20:30 · 9 answers · asked by Full_of_Questions_and_Answers 1

I love my wife dearly however she says I do not show her the affection she needs. She tells me I am a great Father and Husband but I need to be a friend and more romantic. This all sprung up one day and I had no idea it was coming. She says she will not change her mind but I really want to work through this and save my marriage. Yet I do not want to come across as a little whiney punk. She means everything to me and if I had known this was coming I would not have let it get this far. Any ideas?

2006-08-08 17:12:52 · 21 answers · asked by rushin 1

2006-08-08 17:02:44 · 8 answers · asked by cocobean 1

And which ex would you want back if it was possible?

2006-08-08 16:57:45 · 31 answers · asked by jaimestar64cross 6

Okay I knew that would get your attention. My husband and I got married in May of 05. He ditched all his close friends. I told him that he could see them but he always said he'd rather be with me. He won't tell the guys that and now they think it's because of me that they don't see him. What can I do to keep my reputation solid without disrespecting my husband? Is there even a way of doing that?

2006-08-08 16:47:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

you are tired? or that is just an excuse. And for how long you can be without having sex, even though you have your wife almost beging you to have sex with her, (and she is not ugly or anything like that)do you just reject her because you are tired from working all day?

2006-08-08 16:36:48 · 31 answers · asked by fun 6

2006-08-08 16:30:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I took my serial cheater bf back after leaving him for 6 months. He did cheat on me for 4 of the 8 years we have been together, but we do have 2 kids and a dog. He is a good provider and I love him. He just had trouble staying faithful.

I recently found out about a girl, but I put a stop to it about 2 weeks ago.

Ppl say "oh you wont trust him (I dont), you'll argue, he'll cheat again, etc etc" but none of this has happened yet. We dont argue, it's like it all never happened.

I give him his freedom, (but he does stay up under me a little more than I'd like.)

Were you guys were wrong, the second time with a cheater can work, RIGHT? Or do you think this "honeymoon" will last?

ADVISE

2006-08-08 16:25:10 · 19 answers · asked by Nuni 1

the resson is he come home late and say he is working late and when she get off of work he come home like 5min before i do not no what to say do i tell her are do i leave it alone

2006-08-08 16:24:53 · 14 answers · asked by Brit-Brit 2

I went through a sad and painfull divorce about a year ago. The marriage ended due to my husband having an affair with a co-worker.
We tried to work things out by dating again and going to therapy. Nothing worked...he was still "seeing' her and talking to her.
So things between us have drug out along time now.
My question is...now that he and his mistress are officially together and openly dating, how do I deal with the hurt and the possibility of them eventually marrying. I have a child with this man and it is killing me that this women is spending time with my child and sharing time with my child now. How do I be strong enough to deal with such aching pain? This is someone I feel has taken away everything I lived for. My home, my husband, and my child.
Sarrow... Kelly1

2006-08-08 16:20:29 · 27 answers · asked by kelly l 2

2006-08-08 16:20:01 · 20 answers · asked by hi 1

He is a chiroprctor who I saw 1-2 x a week for mos. I was going through alot emotionally, as my 2 yr. old is autistic & my H was in denial and wasn't there for me. This man was. We were very attracted to each other. Although it was unspoken, the constant intense eye contact, offering his hand to get me off the table-hand holding, unnecessary touches,etc spoke volumes. We went to lunch. My H called nonstop. He got nervous and pulled away mentally. He thought my H knew. It was obvious he knew what I wanted and chose to come with me. We almost kissed, but didn't. He said I was making his stomach flip-flop. I saw him 2 days later nothing said. Days later he called & nicely told me he couldn't treat me anymore that he'd told his wife and she wasn't comfortable with us seeing each other. I said nothing happened and he said "ya but it wouldn't take much". I haven't seen him since--6 mos. I'm lost without him-his support,etc. I'm 38 and have never felt so deeply about anyone before.

2006-08-08 16:14:13 · 14 answers · asked by confused 1