He cums to fast. Is there anything we can do to stop this? We have tried pulling out when he feels he is going to ***, but that gets old quick. Also I have one of those things they call cock ring on they way. Has anyone used one before and what r your thoughts on a Cock Pump?
2006-08-08 17:26:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My husband and I sometimes use a cock ring that has a small vibrator on it to stimulate the female, so even if he's done before he can still give you pleasure using the vibrator. They are called bullets. Or try more foreplay, "tease" each other and then stop and cuddle explore each other more intently, not just through sex. kiss each other on different parts of the body. The best part of making love for me is when my husband starts kissing my ankles and slowly works his way up and then kisses me for awhile and then goes down on me an dthen we make love. So maybe you guys are rushing and you are not giving yourself enough time to get worked up
2006-08-08 17:40:01 · answer #1 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Get a book on "tantric love" Over the long term he will teach himself how to control it and it's really wonderful for your relationship! You know that is what the musician equates for having such a meaningful relationship with his wife.
http://meetyourgreens.com/tantriclovesexualecstasy.html
read the section about "Reclaiming your balls"
There is a whole slew of stuff out there on this and I'm sure you'll have as much fun....if not more!
2006-08-08 18:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by allnatuarllyrefreshing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a bath together (P.S: not a warm shower) and let him have some wine, beer or alcohol drinks after the bathing & both of you can proceed to have some great fun! Give each other alot of foreplays & make him last longer for his urges & lusts...don't jump in lovemaking directly! I hope this method works for you guys. Enjoy!
2006-08-08 17:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if ur man is quick to the draw then you can use a few techniques......before he gets to the point have him pull out & focus on you in foreplay. also, you both can perform oral on each other, when he's about to bust he can tell you, you grab the tip just above his rim with your thumb and forefingers & gently squeeze his tip closed. it takes some practice but it will slowly prolong the process of him busting because you are closing the "porthole" and it will go back down....be careful or you will get shot in the eye if you are too close....LOL....rings are to help him stay hard longer and the pump is used to get him up...if what you want to do is prevent him from a nutt then try this technique.
2006-08-08 17:38:21 · answer #4 · answered by La Prieta 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
c.ock ring wont really help..p.enis pump is used to bring out the size,,but it only makes it crooked...have him start up real slow...maybe give hima bj like 1 hr before u are gonna have sex..u know..to release the first load...exercises he can do are like squeeze muscles he uses to stop from peeing..like 100 time 3-6 times a day. maybe some desensitizing ointment mite work too...or just DUMP HIS LAME ASSSS AND FIND A YUNG STUD to FILL THAT AREA hahaa
2006-08-08 17:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi ,
the best cure for this is 1 not play openly showing each other naked body to exite.2 get your mind divert from the present moment when he or she is going to be burst.3 keep fast like a muslim have.4 controll on your eyes from seeing exiting picture.5get enrgetic food like dried fruits and grams. best of luck for next time.
2006-08-08 17:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by nawab allam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you plan on staying with him then you should have him do alot of oral sex on you first & when your about to *** then start having sex. also don't have him pull out just stop moving and kiss for awhile. also have slow sex for awhile then hard towards the end. if he humps you fast like a rabbit he WILL *** quick..lol ..good luck ps. those rings don't work ,idk about the pumps but i doubt it...
2006-08-08 17:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by sexy momma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they have creams that numb the penis. lowers the sensation a little so he doesnt *** so fast. (it will have benzocane, I think is that name of the ingrediant.) If that doesnt work, then get him off before you actually start the nasty. The second one always takes longer then the first.
2006-08-08 17:32:28 · answer #8 · answered by BluEyez01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
desenitizing lubes, creams, or condoms. changeing positions. and a restriciton ring may or may not help. i would talk to a urologist to make sure its not a physical problem and if they have any tips. then its just kinda practice practice. and i dont think the pump will do anything for you.
2006-08-08 17:32:27 · answer #9 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
six is not only physical process or action. it is always connected to our mind, when somebody having sex he won't thing any thing other than sexual feeling, so that when he feels he is going to xxxxx he suppose to divert his mind to other things( Might be business of some critical situation) then it won't come. the same process he can follow till you and he wants.
2006-08-08 17:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋