Do you believe in divorce yes or no and why?

Question

I don't but sometimes you have to it all depends on what is going on

Answer 1

yep, certain situations it is the best solution... get out, move on..

Answer 2

Divorce is as important as marriage. People get married for many different reasons. As time goes on individual people change in different ways and at different times. The reason for a marriage may be good or bad. Quite often two people who come together find that there is no longer common interests that bind them together
When this happend there is very little to keep interested in the marriage. Often the dynamics of the marriage are reduced to the point that two people must part. therefore Divorce is the answer Many differing religions consider divorce in a negative light however it should not be that way. if a person is not ready to marry then he\she shouldn't
Look on divorce as a chance to attempt to try to get self satisfaction either by living single or in a relationship. It is marriage in its present form which I believe should be avoided.

Answer 3

I believe divorce can happen but not that it should. Spouses should not be selfish but mutually selfless; loving each other as themselves and allowing love to cover a multitude of sins. Counselling should be sought before this drastic measure, which should only be the very last resort eg. in cases where someone might end up dead. In other cases, finding 'someone new' should not ever be a factor to contribute to this because marriage is sacred and should be treated with respect. Too many people take the vows repeated in marriage lightly, and do not revere the institution, their words aren't binding; they are 'truce breakers',indifferent or immature. True love never leads to divorce.

Answer 4

I could never say to everyone that no one should ever divorce. each situation is different. I would prefer not to have a divorce but if it were necessary (to protect myself and/or kids) I hope I would have the courage to do it even if some people were judgemental. In particular, while divorce is really hard on kids, if they are being hurt by a parent, it is the other parent's job to stand up for them and stop it, even if that means divorce.

Answer 5

First of all if a couple wants to get married, they have to realize how a sacred institution the family is, that value is getting lost now our days, on the other hand, divorce is acceptable, when any type abuse is involved between two people, so yes it is OK, when the reasons are obviously giving any reason to do so.

Answer 6

when I got married to my first husband, I did not believe in divorce. He ended up running off with my best friend. Got divorced. I still do not think that it is right, you marry that person for better or worse, and you should stick to that, but sometimes it is not possible. Now days, it is way to easy to get divorced and way to many people are doing it.

Answer 7

yes. divorce is always an option. For those who look at it from a religious stand point I say this...If your spouse nearly kills you with a weapon, should you stay married ?? If your spouse continuously has affairs even when they say they'll stop, should you stay married ?? If your spouse puts the family in financial straits by using drugs on and off, should you stay married ?? with some people, no amount of counseling ever changes them. If there are children involved they will suffer the most. They learn from us starting at an early age. GOD forgives us for any sin. He is a loving and understanding GOD. divorce is always an option.

Answer 8

The only valid reason for a divorce is if one's spouse is unfaithful. This appears in the scriptures and I happen to believe it. It's insane how high the divorce rate is today (nearly 50%) and people are mostly devoid of committment and understanding. They have contempt for the vows they took and little matters to them except their own selfishness.

Answer 9

I dont belive in it, but there are alot of reasons to divorce, I think that if there is no way to work out the problems or it is dangerouse to in the relationship you should. And if children are involved I believe that 1 happy and health parent is always better than 2 unhappy and unhealthy parents coud ever be.

Answer 10

I believe in divorce only when one of the 3 A's happen:
Adultery (affair), Addiction, or Abuse. If any one of these three circumstances are present then a divorce is an option.

Answer 11

Well it does depend on what is going on in the marriage if the spouse is abusive then yes leave ASAP if the man cheats yes that is a good reason to leave. If you just are not in love anymore you can go to marriage councelling and try to rekindle that love you once had.