Okay I knew that would get your attention. My husband and I got married in May of 05. He ditched all his close friends. I told him that he could see them but he always said he'd rather be with me. He won't tell the guys that and now they think it's because of me that they don't see him. What can I do to keep my reputation solid without disrespecting my husband? Is there even a way of doing that?
2006-08-08 16:47:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
okay in response to the comment by onlymama218: I am very aware of the bible verse that you quoted(thank you for those who dont know) it is part of my marriage album. No he didn't tell me that, he would always spare my feelings. They make it perfectly clear. That's why it's a problem. I don't want his friends to think ill of me, nor do I want to disrespect him defending myself. See? And I know I have an interesting avatar... it's a joke...funny...ha...ha
2006-08-08 17:03:23 · update #1
let his friends think what they want to its your hubby decision to be with you and not them one thing you must know people will talk about you no matter what if your doing good or bad they will talk so live your life and be happy and f*** what they say and think
2006-08-08 16:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by teresa d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to? If he doesn't want to see them anymore, then let him use you for an excuse. How do you know that they think it's because of you? Is he telling you that? If so, how does he know that? Especially if he's not seeing them???? What does your reputation have to do with whether or not your husband hangs out with his old friends? "for this reason shall a man leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife and these two shall be one flesh" Maybe he left his friends, too. Let him. If his "friends" blame you, then they have the problem. You should be proud. He loves you more than all his friends and he wants to be with you more than with them. You must be something special to him for that to happen.
2006-08-08 16:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not try giving him a party at your house and invite only the friends that he has ditched since you all got married that way you keep your reputation and he gets to see his friends as well . he may even find out that he needs them in his life just not all the time
2006-08-08 16:53:32 · answer #3 · answered by christy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite his friends over for get-togethers at your house.
Come Sept., there will be football games on every Sat. and Sunday, so you can encourage your husband to have some friends over to watch a game, and if it's guys only, then use that time to visit your folks, friends, shop, have alone time! They'll all love you for it!
If they have spouses or girlfriends, make friends with the girls.
2006-08-08 16:54:26 · answer #4 · answered by BuckeyeMom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me before. What I did was told my husband to invite a few of his friends for dinner with us so that I'd get to meet them. That did the trick.
2006-08-08 16:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a lucky girl to have a partner in life like that...don't mind what his friends tell about you...soon they will stop...thank your husband about choosing you over his friends. Be nice to him, so that he will never regret his decision to be with you rather than to be in his friends....
2006-08-08 16:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by chona a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.talk to his friends like at a small dinner party that they are invited to that u plan out to find a good time
2.that is the weirdest pic i think i ever seen
2006-08-08 16:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by twilight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
invite them over to your house and you do the inviting
2006-08-08 16:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by happy-go-lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a surprise party for him invite all his friends
2006-08-08 16:52:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm.... be happy that he chooses you over his friends?
2006-08-08 16:52:27 · answer #10 · answered by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋