you are tired? or that is just an excuse. And for how long you can be without having sex, even though you have your wife almost beging you to have sex with her, (and she is not ugly or anything like that)do you just reject her because you are tired from working all day?
2006-08-08 16:36:48 · 31 answers · asked by fun 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I work too, and take care of the house and kids, and I excersise, and I have never ever rejected him, just for the record.
2006-08-08 16:47:12 · update #1
As a guy I don't think you are ever to tired for sex. I could have run a 40 mile race and then be asked if I want it and i would get my second wind . But not all guys are the same . It might be a medical problem a mental problem, and god forbid he could have another girl or even another guy in the wings but before you jump to any conclusions Talk to him ... calmly and don't fight about it that will only reinforce to him that anything to do with sex causes conflict
2006-08-08 16:43:47 · answer #1 · answered by magicboi37 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
XXXXXXXXXX saying he's tires is just an excuse. A man would have sex on his dying bed if he could. I think it's just a nice way of telling you he's not interested. Otherwise no amount of tiredness would be an excuse for not having sex. My husband is in the military. He goes to PT (physical training) at 4:30 in the morning, runs 8 hours and work a strenuous job til late night. He comes home and practically falls in the door. He may be too tired to eat but if I go upstairs and to bed and he's snoring, just the movement of the bed will get him going. You're husband isn't tired. He's lost that loving feeling. Now that you know, what's your next step? XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
2006-08-08 16:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a number of factors that you didn't include - but depending on those factors, yes it is possible. Working 8 hours behind a desk isn't quite the same as working 10 hours outside doing construction work. Depends if he has low blod sugar, or if he is getting enough sleep. Maybe he is upset with you. Maybe he feels bad about himself, and doesn't want to feel good until he feels better emotionally.
Or, just try telling him that you'll do all the work.
2006-08-08 16:56:06 · answer #3 · answered by J. C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with my X g/f for almost 3 years and no matter how tired i was even if i was sleepy and could not keep my eyes open i would always give it too her and finish it because that is when i feel most loved but thats just me everyone is different and being different is not a bad thing either.
2006-08-08 16:43:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
having sex all the time, all day or whenever you want when you feel it? Its not an obligation for a man to woman if a woman wants sex to his husband.. yes,sometimes its an excuse for a man that hes tired just to avoid her wife being offended..and it doesnt mean he dont like you or whatever..All men are not same when it comes to sex..some are maniac or hot in sex,some wants just to burst their arousement unmutually.. try to nderstand if hes not willing or making an excuse.. Sex is also giving time and schedules and preparation doing it.. do you want your partner make sex with you eventhough hes not in mood? ofcorse not! Sex is shold be in mutual feeling..so that you can enjoy both!!
2006-08-08 17:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband comes home from work ( he does the rotating thing) anyway he's always in the mood. Even if he worked a 11-7 and has to go back at 3! So, in my opinion guys are always in the mood no matter what. As for us females that's another subject!
2006-08-08 16:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Dani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm getting freakin old, so i have to be really tired not to want to have sex. Which may happen once every six months.
Otherwise, i'll do it just about any time, any place.
Now if I could trade my wife for one that wants sex more than once a month, I'd be a happy man. Any takers?
2006-08-08 16:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Say it like it is 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's something wrong here ! I would wager that someone is having an affair. If you are begging your husband for sex and you are not unattractive and he is full of excuses...... you have a problem. I'm a man and this sounds all to familiar. You need to start looking for who he's giving it to...if he does not have erectile dysfunction he has a sweet thing somewhere. Believe me I know !
2006-08-08 16:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by Michael_Pro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does happen, believe it or not. however, if it persists even when he has not been all that busy with work, you may have a problem. it does not mean that there is another woman. as men get older if they are not emotionally connected with their partner, it will affect the bedroom play. having said that, there is a point after about two or three weeks that we would sleep with a porcupine to relieve the sexual tension.
2006-08-08 16:46:31 · answer #9 · answered by up all night 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! men don't turn down sex unless they are getting it somewhere else. No excuses about being tired from work. I promise. I NEVER turn it down! Been married 16 years
2006-08-08 16:44:04 · answer #10 · answered by gtotalpackage 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋