My husband and I work nites he is 11-7am and i am 7-7am he is straight monday to friday where as i work a wierd 2 on 2 off 3 on 2off bla bla kinda continental shift.
Right now we have not spent a nite together in 2 and a half weeks and I am starting to get a little sexually frustrated. I know I can't do anything about our schedules we have to work but I need some TLC as well. I am sure he does to his kisses are getting deeper and deeper and more intense every time.
Any suggestions on how to let him know I want him without sounding like a b i t c h
2006-08-08 15:22:51 · 17 answers · asked by jennbabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We are very open and communicate well but our lives have been upside down for two months
my dad had a heart failure spent a week in icu my daughter spent a weekend in the hospital with a really bad virus
i had surgery and spent 13 days in the hospital my uncle passed away and we had a fire in our house
Its not like we don't talk and we know the value of our love and our family its just been chaos
I have heard "love needs a holiday" by reba mcintire like non stop and thats kinda the direction i need to take i think
2006-08-08 15:46:05 · update #1
Just jump him next time your home and he walks in the door. Trust me, it won't take alot of time!
2006-08-08 15:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by queenblafalot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling you husband how much you need him does not make you sound like a b***h. It does make you sound like a wife who is really in tune with her husband and wants him to know it.
Your family has had a rough time of it. Everyone has had a lot of stress to deal with. Intimate relations with your hubby will help you both relieve some of the stress. It will also deepen the closeness you feel.
You have got to take the time to schedule a marital meeting in a private location so you can relieve that stress and enjoy each other.
2006-08-08 23:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could tell him that if you both are ever off on the same night, you would like to spend some intimate time together. If you tell him any other way, you wouldn't necessarily sounded like a b i t c h. I mean, you're married to the man, right? So what could hurt from telling him you want him? Anyway, disregarding the couple of sentences, maybe you should take my advice. Good luck!
2006-08-08 22:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, is so many ways, call into work, say you'll be late, then have a quicky..........One of you takes a day off to have a romantic moment........Whatever it takes.
I know that money has to pay the rent, etc........but don't put all that ahead of romance. Nothing takes the place of a secret moment, a chance happening, a romantic rendevous on a whim.
Money can't replace any of that, so eat oodles of noodles for a month, take some time for each other before each other makes some time for other people.
2006-08-08 22:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by hisladytish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sincerely no offense intended with this answer but:where is the openess and honestly between you and your husband
you and him should be able to talk about anything in life
and why is it if the kisses are getting so deep and passionate do either one of you stop
a little extra info:guys do not want to be the pursuer all the time, pursue him once and while and the sparks will fly hon
wish you all the best in the future
2006-08-08 22:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by just my answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what it's like to not get all you want. What you need to do is make that kind of time together a priority. Tell him how much you need him and how you feel like work's taking away from that special part of your relationship. Then agree to make sure it happens, and often!
2006-08-08 22:52:07 · answer #6 · answered by The girl in pink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since your nights are days because of work you need to make your days nights in order to adjust your relationship and make things better all the way around.
2006-08-08 22:29:03 · answer #7 · answered by martha33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you both come home at 7, just go for it. You could always both call in sick one night and have a lot of fun. Good luck.
2006-08-08 22:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm befuddled. Never in all my life would I equate "i want you sexually" with "being a *****". Tell him how bad you want him, and he'll think the world of you....
2006-08-08 22:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of you guys have to give up the shift or your relationship will suffer.
2006-08-08 22:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by Thot77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋