There is a young man that has seven beautiful children and a wife who is so angry and dishonest. He tries so hard to make her happy and un-fortunately there is never enough money to go around. He washes clothes, cleans house and washes tons of dishes as she sits and stares at the TV. How do I know, because I know the family well. My main concern is on top of what this poor man does , he is never good enough. His wife goes into temper tantrums and chases him across the street to his parents house and to add insult unto injury, she calls him a Mommies Boy or a Mommies *****. He is so wounded from that. Many times when she has not had cigarettes, she tells him to go to his parents house to get some. She sends him for all types of help and the mans parents help them out all of the time. The young man is ashamed for going to his parents for so much help and many times he has told her NO. The worse thing she does is downgrade him. He stays only for the children.
2006-08-08 13:00:49 · 14 answers · asked by Norskeyenta 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He NEEDS to get out and take the kids with him!!!! This is not a healthy environment for the children! This is one of those women who should never have been blessed w/motherhood. She doesn't deserve her kids OR her husband. Not the other way around. Tell this guy to file for divorce!!
2006-08-08 13:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She does this because she can. Has he ever thought of standing up to her.....you are only a victim against your will. If he allows this then ( I hate to say it) it is his choice. If he stands up to her and she physically harms him, then the same goes for women as it does for men...assault & battery....press charges and take your children and get out! It seems once the legal system gets involved, people find out quickly you mean business. She will then have to prove she is fit to raise these children, it already sounds like he has an ally (you) who witnesses this behavior constantly. If this woman cannot change her behavior or doesn't want to, he needs to take his children and make a better life for them. What good can they possibly be learning by this lifestyle?
2006-08-08 13:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Geez Louise 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although I believe you are truly concerned for this man, there are two sides to every story. You've depicted the man as a saint, and the woman as as purely wicked. I believe I'm only hearing one side. Try considering things from the woman's point of view, maybe she feels just as victimized. I don't think calling some one a mommy's boy is abuse, but it is certainly rude. Fortunately for you, this is between man and wife, they need to take care of this themselves and not rely on their Parents, friends, relatives to clear up this martial spat.
2006-08-09 16:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by pinacoladasundae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I would say in this situation, this is definitely mental and physcological abuse. This is very wrong. Sounds like the two of them need councelling or better yet, they need to make a trip to divorce court. I was in a situation very similar to this, myself, and actually just got a divorce. No one deserves this kind of treatment from their spouse. Marriage has to be about mutual respect for one another, and it sounds to me like, there is very little of that going on here.
2006-08-08 13:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it weren't for the children the solution would be obvious: leave. Unfortunately, this is not an option. But it is not him that concerns me. This abuse is affecting the children. He needs to start standing up for himself, if not for his own sake then for his children's.
2006-08-08 13:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not a sexual element if he calls you mommy outdoors the mattress room. i think of he has a mommy complicated and has gotten you to do each and all of the failings his mom used to. Set some barriers and supply up the insanity.
2016-11-04 04:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time he told her where to stick it and hit the road ,he's not helping his relationship with his children any,them seeing all this going on before long they'll chime in with their BI---- mom if he doesn't. She is why god made divorces and shotguns _ divorce is better.
2006-08-08 13:40:45 · answer #7 · answered by Butch46 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That guy needs to grow a back bone and tell that trick what the deal is.
2006-08-08 13:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just needs to be a man and kick the ***** to the curb.... he can still be a dad to the children without having to put up with her ***.... she sounds like a real ****...
2006-08-08 13:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by rock n roll all night.. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats mental abuse.
2006-08-08 13:08:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋