2006-08-08 20:46:53 · 24 answers · asked by hagren 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't know what I would do without my husband. I think about it pretty often since he's in the Army. He's been to Iraq once already and I worried about him so much then. I wouldn't want to have to deal with the painful memories of him so I think I would rather go first......and I know he always says he would rather go first. Maybe we'll get lucky and go at the exact same time so neither one of us have to deal with it. lol
2006-08-08 20:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to outlive him. I already know that I'm capable of more than one great love in a lifetime so I would have hope. When I met him, he hadn't been on a date in 10 years and still feels like no other woman would have him. I would hate to leave him alone believing that.
2006-08-08 20:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awesome question!!
I would want her to outlive me...the reason being is I know that my passing would make sure she is taken care of properly...(not that me living wouldn't allow her to live happy) Personally I wouldn't know what to do without my other half..so hopefully I never have to experience that.
Furthermore...hopefully if there ever is an ultimadum like that...I could act apon it before she tried to be the courageous one...if in a split second I was given the choice to die but my girl live...i would without a doubt die for her...
but I would much rather have a more nicholas sparks the notebook kinda end to it.
2006-08-08 20:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by lanceh13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to outlive my spouse, because he wouldn't know how to do anything or make it on his own without his baby cakes.
2006-08-08 20:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by lpnsheronda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He outlive me. Spare me the heartache.
2006-08-08 21:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on if i was stronger then my spouse because sometimes people just die when they are older after loosing their spouse but if I knew he couldnt handle it I would want him to pass away first
2006-08-08 20:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would choose to have my spouse out live me because I could not live without him. It would be too lonely and too painful.
2006-08-08 20:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by sakura4eternity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably want my spouse to live longer than me because I don't think that I could bare losing my wife.
2006-08-08 20:50:34 · answer #8 · answered by Hugo P. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he outliving me.
as i dun wanna cry bitterly and be sad n get all emo if im left alone in tis world.
2006-08-08 20:50:19 · answer #9 · answered by indulge in mine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Chivalry says, "I agree Cassie. No one wants to go through the heartache of losing a loved one."
Mr. Chivalry has spoken.
2006-08-09 06:53:18 · answer #10 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋