I guess I was annoying her. We got into a fight and she said something like... "whats wrong with you i need you to bring out the best in me not the worst..." blah blah blah she was yelling and crying and YES I FELT BAD!! I love her and I want to make her happy. What can I do?
2006-08-08 19:04:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't take the 'bring out the best in me' part so literally. What she was saying is that you two argue too much. She's suggesting that she doesn't do this with other people and you are bringing out the 'worst in her'. Don't focus on 'bringing out the best in her'. Just try to smooth things out. Keep being you. Be nice to her. Try not to argue about the petty stuff. Try to be nice when it comes time to argue about the serious stuff.
2006-08-08 19:08:38 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Did you bring up a flaw or something you don't particularly like such as what she does or says? If so make sure you tell her everyday at least thre things that you love about her or are nice. She may be going through a rough time with something on her mind and may be projecting it on you when really she needs you to have patience, understanding, less drama, and maybe for you to be her best friend too. On the other hand maybe she needs a little space. Not from you but I have been this way w/ my man and I like to withdrawl and blame him for the same things about. Good luck and if you two love each other then keep the lines of communication open and make sure you both let each other know every single day bad or good that you love them and say three nice things at least a day. Try all of this and maybe you will find the source of the problem so that you can face it head on and avoid it. Good luck and hold on to it if its good. It doesn't happen all the time.
2006-08-09 02:18:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being annoying.
What she probably meant by bringing out the best is that she doesn't want to have to be yelling and arguing.
Talk to her...see what the problem really is.
She'll appreciate the fact that you're trying to fix things.
2006-08-09 02:10:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be her. Listen to her and be yourself. She obviously cares about you for you so don't try to force anything. Do the stuff she likes. Surprise her. Do something that she would never expect plan a whole night for her do something that will make her feel more special than any other girl in the world and if you love her and mean it than that is exactly how it will feel to her.
2006-08-09 02:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by buckweedo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, You are not responsible for how your girlfriend feels. You cannot bring out any emotion that is not in her to begin with. For example. You cannot make a person "feel guilty" if they have not done something to make them feel guilty in the first place.
2006-08-09 02:08:37 · answer #5 · answered by Carlos D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends what is she looking for in you ,apparently the actions you were doing was causing her grief.could you explain more of what you were doing so we can get a grasp on what her characteristics are of what she finds annoying and we might be able to help you
2006-08-09 02:10:37 · answer #6 · answered by skulllivin2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her Ex lax. that usually brings out the best in all of us.
2006-08-09 02:09:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give "val schmal" the 10 points. Very insightful for a chick!!
2006-08-09 02:09:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you cant change her, with that said find someone thsts not sycho
2006-08-09 02:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by chicata25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever she wants....or find someone who's not psycho. Your choice...
2006-08-09 02:08:00 · answer #10 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋