if u were a father/mom and ur marrendege wasnt going so well would u cheat on ur wife/husband??
2006-08-08 21:10:43 · 17 answers · asked by katiedid_4077 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO I would not. I would try and save my marriage, even if it meant going for counseling. If that did not work I would get divorced.
When you have an affair you are hurting more then you husband/wife. What people tend to forget is there are normally children involved in that mar rage and what about them when the affair comes to light and believe me it always comes out does anybody think what those child red go through???????
2006-08-08 21:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by liongirl_40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm only engaged to be married, as for for an answer to your question. No, I would never cheat at all. I've been together with my fiancee since we were in high school, before we even got engaged. Those five years mean a lot to me, if I were to cheat all of a sudden, then I would be throwing my life away, because then I would lose the trust that I have gained from a very special person. The way I see ityou're making a risky choice, and if I were you, I would find a way to resolve it, fast, before things get worse.
2006-08-09 04:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by mwr_speedy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if sex is an issue. There are other parts to cheating, but the amin part is sex, and if you are not getting some from the one ur married to, get it somewhere else. But before you do that make sure the partner deliberately does not want to give u some, so that you will have a reason. maybe that will teach them a lesson.
2006-08-09 04:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by DaNewGuy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have cheated in the past because my husband was cheating on me, but I found out that was not the way to solve that issue. He never found out about it, but I put a stop to it myself, because it wasn't right even the sex and attention was?
2006-08-09 04:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by lpnsheronda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a mother or father cheats on their partner,by belief is that you are also cheating on your kids How an earth could a person,after cheating look not only their partner in the face but their children as well.
2006-08-09 07:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you ponder cheating and not leaving? Staying together for the children is NOT a good idea. Look at your question this way, What would you say to your daughter/son if she/he asked you this same question 25 years down the road. I play that "game" with myself. It helps me. I wish you luck!
2006-08-09 04:16:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sequoia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. After finding that my wife was cheating with 2 different coworkers, that was enough for me. I demanded a divorce, she was going to fight me on that so I hooked up with my friends sister who was having sex with me before I met my wife.
2006-08-09 07:23:55 · answer #7 · answered by paulsexpress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Marriage is a sacred bond between to people and in my vows it said for better or worse forsaking all others. My personal belief is two wrongs don't make a right.
2006-08-09 04:27:46 · answer #8 · answered by daddies_lil_angel62702 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope id save up money, tell her how i feel and what i think is wrong and hope for the relationship to work out if not i would take my money and get a divorce.
2006-08-09 04:24:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would cheat if I can't get out of a marriage where my spouse is a cheater. I will let all hell break loose.
2006-08-09 04:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋