Ive always wondered. Im 22 and have been in love twice. And i makes me wonder if when the timing is right with a person and you get married, do you finally stop thinking about or having some sort of feelings for the ones you used to love but didnt marry?
2006-08-08 18:53:31 · 4 answers · asked by amtech33 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm 37 and I have never stopped loving the one great love of my life. She is in my past, but still in my heart. I love my wife very much, but the memories and feelings for my old gf linger. I would never go back to her, but if she ever needed anything (I occasionally speak to her) I would try my best to help her. I still consider her one of my best friends.
2006-08-08 19:00:35 · answer #1 · answered by taelech 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea..and I feel guilty about it. I love my husband and would never leave him for the other person, but It makes me wonder what if..High school sweetheart were thinking of getting married had all these plans with him and it didn't happened..one year latter after we broke up. I got married in April he got married in May..
2006-08-09 02:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Angie29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has always been on my mind too! I'm married and can't stop thinking about my last two x's.No matter how hard i try.Some times it's guilt that takes me back,other times i think i see them.then i start to think what i'd really do if i did see them and they saw me!!( i'd probably hide) i wonder if it would be easier just to meat up with them and talk.see how they're doing .then just let it go.-though that would not go down easy with my husband. -what do you think?
2006-08-09 02:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by gem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone always remembers their frst love or second loves. it is kinda weird that you have someone you love and your thinking about someone else. you have who you have you love them YOU ARE with the, enjoy it. let the past go. i dont think you've let go of the other loves.
2006-08-09 02:01:03 · answer #4 · answered by Paola! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋