Marriage & Divorce - 25 July 2006

2006-07-25 13:34:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-25 13:29:02 · 10 answers · asked by monique 1

My husband and I have been seperated for eleven years. We have been talking for about 6 months now over the phone only. We have not seen each other at all in these eleven years. We both realize that we still love each other, but of course in 11 years alot has happened. ( I have 3 children which of course are not his)( he has spent a lot of time in prison). We are both scared to death but think that maybe we should try to see if this could work. What do ya'll think?

2006-07-25 13:27:15 · 2 answers · asked by mel_a_can 3

Been with married man for 5 yrs, have 2 kids with him, who he has nothing to do with. But yet I can't kick him out of my life, everyday hurts me more because of how much I love him. Why would he keep coming back, if he felt nothing? And it's not just about sex, even though it may seem that way. There's talking, cuddling, laughing, openness, and appartently a desire to not say anything when it comes to how he feels.

2006-07-25 13:16:44 · 13 answers · asked by missing_something 2

please help

2006-07-25 13:05:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

For a number of years, I've been reading about women having these incredible orgasms after their lovers stimulate their "G" spot. I've been dying to try this on my wife but have absolutely no clue *where* the spot is? Can anyone shed some light on this for me? Also, any clues on what to do to achieve maximum effect once I find it?

2006-07-25 13:02:24 · 14 answers · asked by techie74354 2

I stayed with my sons's father for 7 seven years I found out he was cheating on me because he came on smelling like "sex'..instead of putting him out...He paid all my bills and slept on the couch and I came and went as I please.

2006-07-25 13:00:38 · 24 answers · asked by All hail 2 the "Queen" 2

2006-07-25 12:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

if your woman had stretch marks, loose skin, and a sagging chest would you still be attracted to her and still enjoy having sex with her?or would you find it repulsive and not even look at her?

2006-07-25 12:43:34 · 15 answers · asked by angelsweetie 1

My husbands ex wife (mother of his 2 children) was involved in a domestic violence case last week and "said" her b/f beat her up. she was in the hospital for 3 days and begged the police not to take her b/f to jail (he was on parole so hes back in prison) and come to find out SHE actually was the one doing all the hitting and we later found out she tried to committ suicide on anti depressants (thats what put her in the hospital to begin with). she NOW is back together with her (4th) ex husband who supposedly molested a child. My question is, should my husband get an order for temp. custody of his 2 kids with her? I feel shes obviously mentally unstable and not to mention she has 5 other children to deal with besides my husbands 2. any advice? Anybody know if he would even have a chance for full temp. custody??

2006-07-25 12:41:23 · 23 answers · asked by heavensent41770 4

I called him this morning and he said that he did not look at his texts yet,because he has been so busy. I told him, look I was confused when I sent it please don't take it seriously. He said so you don't want me to look at it? and I said yes! Do you think he will?

2006-07-25 12:39:06 · 10 answers · asked by consigliere 6

I got deployed to Iraq in Sept of 05. I got a divorce in Oct 05. I got engaged to a soldier from my unit in Jan 06. I have recently started talking to my Ex Wife via email. Is this wrong of me? I am starting to really miss her bc I never really got to explain anything to her and we have always been close and been able to talk about anything. she knows that I am engaged and is not holding it against me, she still wants to be friends. Am I wrong for doing this???

2006-07-25 12:37:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband(and this kinda goes with the other question I asked) will NOT have sex with me more than once a week and when he does he will not do oral. I have no problem at all performing oral on him but I cannot seem to get him to do it on me. In a year I can count on one hand how many times he has done that for me. When we have sex it may last 5-10 minutes(without foreplay). At first it was his meds but then we got that changed and it improved for about a week. He uses the excuse of being too old. Is something wrong here??? I have tried to encourage it(sex) more but no success.I love him dearly and am not like any of his other wives who cheated. Any suggestions??

2006-07-25 12:30:18 · 10 answers · asked by bilady_n_ga2000 1

My husband and I will be married for a year on August 1. What should we do to celebrate our first year together. What can we do to share that special night together. What did you do on your first anniversary. Thanks!!

2006-07-25 12:29:04 · 6 answers · asked by Kelly M. 2

If my divorce agreement does not say any restrictions on me and my daughter moving, does that mean we can? I want to move 5 hours south but still in GA. I am just worried that my ex might get upset and decide he wants to get her for half the year. I want to move but it is not worth losing my daughter for 1/2 of the year! Plus I would fear for her b/c he is an unfit parent (smokes pot, drinks alot, leaves our 5 yr old outside to play with no adult supervision...only other kids. He owes me $1,700 in child support and is still only paying some of it when he wants to)...I have turned it over to child support enforcement but here it is almost 6 months later and they have yet to do anything about it, and they have all of his info, ss#, job info, address, ect. Plus in 2004 he commited an act of family violence and he was arrested and charged, is on probation and had to pay fines. Do I have anything to worry about? Oh and in our divorce agreement there is a vistation schedule for us to fall back upon just in case we cant agree. It rotates the holidays by even odd years and gives her dad every other weekend with her, if I move 5 hours away how will that work?
Thank you for any advice
Melissa

2006-07-25 12:27:10 · 2 answers · asked by cancer4228 1

Not physically. Tell me how you'd like them to behave toward you.

2006-07-25 12:18:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not physically. Tell me how you'd like them to behave.

2006-07-25 12:18:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife used to physically abuse me but now it's only
verbal. Over the years it has lessened (I think) or maybe i have
growbn accustomed to it. Anyway, I see a trail of emotional bashing
towards my children. I have been reluctant to divorce becasue I was
afraid she would get custody and then they would be unprotected,
wheras now I can console them afterwards. But I think I have enough
documentation now that I may get custody if I "go to war".
Now my wife seems to have been abusive less frequently, although I
know it's a matter of time befor ethe next explosion. She has refused
to go to the doctor and get medicine. I think she is bipolar/manic
depressive. We've been to several counselors but she always quits
going whenever they finally realize SHE needs to be responsible.
The other thing that has held me back from divorce is my strong
religious convictions. Yet I don't want to allow my kids to be
subject to her wrath. So tell me: should I stay or should I go?

2006-07-25 12:17:13 · 14 answers · asked by get_unlost 4

My husband and I have been together for 5 years. We want to get pregnant soon when I am 24.

I have been working full time since I graduated high school to pay for living and college expenses.

So I have been going to college part time at night.

Even without anyone’s help, I still managed to buy a house , pay off two brand new cars and land an accounting job with A LOT of potential. My job was $30,000 starting with full benefits, holidays, 401k, etc. I have been there for about 2 years and I LOVE my job so much!

Problem: After 4-5 years of going to school, I am graduating this fall with an ASSOCIATES degree in liberal arts.

I don’t want to go to night school and work with a child. I cannot quit my job and go to school full time, so if I did get my bachelor’s I would have to go to school for another 5 years part time.

Our house is almost paid off and we will have $0 debt, its not like I want or need to have some $100,000 job.

What would you do?

2006-07-25 12:14:52 · 18 answers · asked by WannaBeMom 2

i had been asking questions lately regarding my recent breakup with my gf ( she initiated) (the relationship lasted 26 mths). I LOVE HER DEEPLY extremely DEEPLY. however the hurting words she used ' i don't know if i still love you' really pierced me like crazy. i know her mind is now confused and all she wants is to get out of this confused state and be free from all this. But the fact that she made that remark , instills fear in me that she will never be back with me again. Right now we aint talking ( cool off period) but i feel the urge every night to hear her voice ( busy during the day) i still dream of her everynight and advice from people is that i should ignore her and go find new girls then she will feel the pain. also they told me to shower very much less concern to her than like how i used to before. they said this will get her to come back. how far is this true? anyone with success stories? or advice? pls tag. thank you

2006-07-25 12:11:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-25 12:08:53 · 31 answers · asked by julie b 1

use marriage seeking to get love or self-worth or appreciation or money out of it for themselves? Isn't that a little self-centered and selfish? If you give, you also receive...at least in my marraige. So many people break-up (even with kids) because one doesn't think there getting what they should out of a marriage. In my experience, that's usually because there were alot of expectations, and very little giving or helping. Personally, I think these folk have it backwards, and probably were too immature to get married in the first place. It's a shame really. What are your thoughts?

By the way...were celebrating our 20th anniversary in a week...yes...happily married :-)

2006-07-25 12:03:38 · 17 answers · asked by BowtiePasta 6

2006-07-25 11:59:18 · 25 answers · asked by Jm 3

And if so....what was the reason for his lack of interest and what did you do about it???

2006-07-25 11:55:37 · 32 answers · asked by jewels 1

2006-07-25 11:53:22 · 5 answers · asked by Curious 1

I have had so many failed relationships and 1 failed marriage that I now advise my children to live w/ their prospective "life partner" at least a year before marriage. Is this the right perspective to have ... especially where our own kids are involved?

2006-07-25 11:52:23 · 27 answers · asked by michelle 2

bcz i think it was my fault the only reason my mom got married to my dad was 4 me

2006-07-25 11:44:08 · 23 answers · asked by I luv Lindsey kaemmerer 2

me and y husband just have break up , we have two kids together , but he told me that he did not want me no more that he was tried of the way i have being treating him , but he have done something to me , but i still love him and want him , so how long will it take for me to heal if he don't want me no more or to forget about him

2006-07-25 11:42:55 · 9 answers · asked by angel h 4

it was usually her who spilled the cocoa?

2006-07-25 11:39:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-25 11:32:31 · 22 answers · asked by rita t 1