me and y husband just have break up , we have two kids together , but he told me that he did not want me no more that he was tried of the way i have being treating him , but he have done something to me , but i still love him and want him , so how long will it take for me to heal if he don't want me no more or to forget about him
2006-07-25 11:42:55 · 9 answers · asked by angel h 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No one can answer that but you.When you get tired of feeling hurt and not receiving the love you want and need you will get over it.As long as you allow this to keep you down and hurting it will burn a hole in your heart and eventually you will break down.If he said he don't want you LET HIM go.There something so much better waiting for you what ever it may be.Take time to get yourself together and do for you and the kids.He will wake up one day and wish he had he's family by that time it my be to late.
2006-07-25 12:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy answer here. Divorce is a lot like a death only in ways it is worse. When someone dies we mourn them then slowly move on when a divorce takes place your marriage is dying but everything else in life stays the same. You still have your children and you will still be faced with situations where you have to see him. You have to take the time to mourn and to re evaluate your life with just you and your children in it. When you are part of a couple it is rough to readjust to the world of being single again especially a single mom. Don't rush it, let all the emotions you are going to feel settle and there will be plenty from hurt to anger to loving him to hating him. Start spending time with friends and find a good counselor in your area to talk to. Keep a journal and write down what you are thinking and feeling and it will help you get all the things you want to say off your chest. Good Luck
2006-07-25 20:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Martha S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truely love him...it may take a lifetime to get over it, or you may never. Time does not heal. Time makes it easier to cope. What you need to do is focus on keeping busy until your pain from missing him becomes managable. Stay busy, go out, join clubs, go to church outings, etc... Find other people grieving a lost relationship & openly talk about it. Find coping strategies & supportive people to help you thru it.
2006-07-25 18:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone heals at their own rate. I would recommend that you go to consoling for yourself. Like I have said before you have to love yourself before someone else can love you. As painful as it may be, do some soul searching and find out what you really want out of your marriage.
2006-07-25 18:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuts usually take a few days or a week but relationships can take a lifetime.
2006-07-25 18:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by EMAILSKIP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It want be long. Try to start a life without him and he will come running back.
2006-07-25 18:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by winnp1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUN... ITS GONNA TAKE SOM TYM SO DONT RUSH URSELF... ESPECIALLY IF U GUYS HAD KIDS... BUT JUST RELAX... N LET HIM TAKE IT SLOW... MAYB IF U START ACTING NICE HE WILL COM BAC TO U... BUT HEY HES NOT THE LAST FISH IN THE SEA IS HE... IN OTHER WORDS... THERE R MANY OTHER NICE MEN OUT THERE!!
2006-07-25 18:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by Taru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-25 19:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by rldbr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not long hell be back
2006-07-25 18:46:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋