For a number of years, I've been reading about women having these incredible orgasms after their lovers stimulate their "G" spot. I've been dying to try this on my wife but have absolutely no clue *where* the spot is? Can anyone shed some light on this for me? Also, any clues on what to do to achieve maximum effect once I find it?
2006-07-25 13:02:24 · 14 answers · asked by techie74354 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the hard part with answering this question is not everyone is in the same spot. A good way to check for hers is to use your middle finger and while inside, with your palm up, do a sort of "come here" motion...give or take on the exact spot and you should run across something that you notice gives your wife a different reaction.
Good Luck!
2006-07-25 13:09:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
G-spot (Gräfenberg spot) is a small area in the genital area of women behind the pubic bone and surrounding the urethra. It is named after a German gynecologist Ernst Gräfenberg. It is the same as, or part of, the urethral sponge, the site of Skene's glands. While once believed to be nothing more than a dense collection of nerve endings more recent scientific evidence has shown that the G-spot is the "female prostate." It is located on the ventral side of the vagina, about half way between the pubic bone and cervix. When this spot is stroked, there is a sensation or urge to urinate, but if the stroking is continued during sexual arousal it can be sexually pleasurable for women (Shibley Hyde, J. and DeLamater, J.D., Understanding Human Sexuality, Eighth Edition (2003)). It is reported to consist of a system of glands (Skene's glands) and ducts that surround the urethra (Heath, 1984). Some authors write that you must press "deeply" into the tissue with two fingers to reach it with any effectiveness. The significance of the G-spot is that some women report that it is a highly sensitive area that under the right conditions can be very pleasurable if stimulated. For some women, it can be a primary source of stimulation leading to orgasm during intercourse while having sex in positions that use the penis to stimulate the frontal wall of the vagina. Other women report no particular stimulation, and some say that it feels as if they need to urinate.
DO YOU WANT ME TO GO ON AND ON AND ON...........
2006-07-25 20:25:35 · answer #2 · answered by Marie Nicole 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
rub the outside of her for a while then while she is lying on her back put a finger in and give the ol *** here with one finger....be sure to do this softly, you should feel something that feels like a soft peach pit...put just a little pressure on this spot while performaing oral on her and hey, just ask!! Get her opinion on how if feels, the best sex is best when you talk about what is going on. And hey, she may have never had an orgasm while doing this, she may think that she is going to pee, but just tell her to ride it out....it will be amazing!!!!
2006-07-25 20:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by miketull8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you have some good advice here...just a little extra, there is a bit of a rough area, like bumbs inside, as yuo do that come here motion, when you hit the right spot, trust me you will know, because she will be a very happy lady.
I want to say, that I think it is great that you want to do this for your wife, what a lucky lady she is that you are so considerate!
2006-07-25 20:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by auntb629 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude
Really simple!!! I personaly use my index finger or my middle finger..Sometimes both..
If she is lying down on her back..
1. insert your finger
2. you are going to pass some mushie stuff(upper wall not a g spot yet)
3.pass the mushie stuff .,aim for the upper walls.
4 you will feel something like the tip of your nose.G SPOT BABY
circular,side to side,up and down motion with some licking.
SHE WILL GO CRAZY .AND PULL ALL YOUR HAIR OFF
2006-07-25 20:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without being overly graphic, if she's laying on her back, you're going to want to "push up", towards the ceiling (use your fingers). Once you've found it, she'll let you know what to do from there. THE EFFORT WILL BE WORTH IT.
2006-07-25 20:07:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
put your finger inside her V------ up to the second knuckle then go up like pointing at her pubic hair (the roof of her V-------) you'll find a round soft area size of a 1/2 dollar it feels like the roof of your mouth . its very sensitive - rub back and forth with two fingers while lightly su-cking her cl-it ( she will go through the roof)
2006-07-25 20:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by zqx357 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Basically when you slip your fingers inside her, you want to 'hook' your finger(s) like you are motioning 'come here'. Make that motion gently while your fingers are in her. You should hit the spot.
2006-07-25 20:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by carouselsb3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Make sure she is very turned on first, because it doesn't get very sensitive until she is already turned on. In other words, don't just go straight for the G-spot. Do other foreplay first.
2006-07-25 20:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's inside her on the top...it kinda feels like blinds...thats the best way to describe it..
2006-07-25 20:13:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋