Okay, so i'm not quite ready to get married yet, but i still think about this. What happens if you are totally in love with someone and know that they are the person you want to spend the rest of your life with, but they end up being a bad father. I'm very open minded so I know that if my children were to be gay, or different in anyway, i would accept them no matter what and love them unconditionally...but how do i know my husband would feel the same?
and not even just when it comes to that, but how do i know that if we were to separate that he wouldn't be a dead beat dad? my own father left several years back and i haven't heard from him since, he doesn't help my mom out at all, and he never wants to see me or anything.
how do i know my husband would be involved with my children and love them even if things between us fell through?
2006-07-25
02:46:26
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