how can I get revenge on my cheating wife?

Question

I think this should be done eye for an eye, but I do not know anyone willing. Any other ideas?

Answer 1

cheat on her

Answer 2

Well, revenge is a tactic for those who choose not to accept that there two sides to every coin.

This is not to say that your wife is right for doing what she did, but I submit you obviously do not understand your wife as well as you thought you did. You thought her an honorable person, and now you've been proven incorrect.

Do not assume she has cheated on you to spite you, and thus deserves punishment of some sort. There are myriad reasons a person may cheat on their spouse, and most of them are incomprehensible to the victim.

Have you ever lied to someone? I'll wager you have, whether if it was a "little white lie" or a "whopper". A lie is a lie, and dishonesty is taking advantage of someone's trust for you. Cheating on someone or telling a friend that little white lie is the same thing. There aren't as many emotions involved, but they're both dishonorable acts.

Do not be so quick to exact revenge upon someone if you cannot absolutely absolve yourself from committing the same crime.

Instead I suggest you take a deep breath, and decide if you want to figure out what went wrong with the communication between you and your wife, and try to sort things out, or if you want to cut your loss and move on.

Only you can decide if you are capable for forgiveness and restoring the trust for her, but you have to remember that she is the other half of your union- therefore you must also consider what she wants to do as well.

Marriage is HARD work. It takes time and patience to keep a friendship in order, and it takes PLENTY OF COMMUNICATION.

This may be YOUR golden opportunity to decide if you really think you're mature enough to handle a crisis.

Thinking about exacting revenge isn't the most responsible thing to do. You'll end up bringing other people into your private life and making a big mess.

The only thing you have to gain through revenge is embarrassment for yourself and making your reputation sink to the level of an @$$. What would you say to the person you would use to punish your wife? "I want to sleep with you to get back at her" or "Hey, we've been together for a few weeks now, but I need to tell you I'm married and this was all about revenge"? Either way, you'll have to reveal your motives to at least two people (your wife and the person you cheat with), and that's two people who will see both YOU and YOUR wife as liars and cheats.

Sorry to hear about your misfortune. Take this opportunity to reflect on yourself and your relationship with everyone in your life.

Good luck.

Answer 3

If you intend eye for an eye then its an easy guss what you have to do. Cheat on her.
Can cheating be justified - I dont think so.
But you must still ask yourself why she behaved so.
And with that information, you ought to find out if you are willing to give her a chance because you love her.

If that chapter has to be closed, you got to make a clever move on getting your divorce quick.
To quote Gandhiji - an eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind. Why waste time trying to take revenge...in time you will love and respect yourself more if you do not take a decision that hurts anyone.
And above all, there does appear to be a law of cause and effect ...which will apply to your actions too.

Answer 4

Look dud,

I know its painful but, two wrongs dont make a right. Let karma control your destiny not revenge. Be smart enough to get out of the relationship and smart enough NEVER to go back. I was in this situation before and the result was just a vicious circle of deception. Some one down the line is going to treat you like a king but in the mean time just turn away. Cut all ties with her and allow your self time to heal. Think clearly. You will only wind up hurting your self more than her. You will make your dicision regardless of what advise anyone gives you here. But, if she sees that she really @#$%^ up a good thing that is enough to handle the situation.

Answer 5

OH, I'm so sorry for you! Don't do what she did; it will just make you feel worse. Leave her--she'll do it again if you don't. Be the better person, find yourself a trustworthy woman (you can't do that unless you are single again--trustworthy women won't cheat with you.) And when you get married again, invite your ex to the wedding, just to show what a great sport you are.
If anyone asks why you separated, tell the truth--say she just wasn't what you needed in a wife. Don't say she was screwing around--it makes you sound like a loser, and people will feel sorry for her, not you. It's ok to confide in your close friends, but be classy about.

Answer 6

To get revenge just simple let it ride even though she hurt you deep down inside you have to be a better person.two wrongs don't make it right and you will get more joy out of knowing that you can turn the other cheek and in the long run she will be left thinking man I had a good guy because I guarantee if she leaves you for someone else nobody is gonna treat her like you did!!!

Answer 7

I suggest you grow up. Revenge against a cheating partner is childish at best. I suggest you and her sit down and actually talk about your problems and if you can't come to a workable solution divorce. But first Grow the heck up...you sound like a spoiled two year old having a tantrum.

Answer 8

Eye for an eye will not bring you any pleasure. I know because I've done that and still feel crappy knowing I lowered myself to his level and that was over 10 years ago.

If you are still with her, guilt her by making nice with her and flirt with other women to make her fight for your attention and love. If you can't do that for whatever reason, then next best thing is to pack up her stuff, put in on the front lawn with a sign saying "Free to anyone" then get on with your life.

I know this sounds like a harsh thing to do...lol...but it's something I know I have thought of doing myself.

Answer 9

If you love her and want to give her a chance to start fresh, forgive her. If there is no chance for both of you to be together and heading for separation - the best revenge is to leave your life better, without her and share your life with a woman that treasures you.

Answer 10

Don't do anything. By getting revenge you will be "lowering" yourself to her level. I know you are a bigger person than that. Move on, simply move on, no more communication with her. Wash her completely out of your life. This is what you can do, and you'll be the bigger, better person.

Answer 11

are u guys still together? have u talked about this?
revenge won't do u any good.. u'll just get laid.. oh yeah i forgot ur a guy.. joke!

seriously, i have often been told that the best revenge is to live a good life!

u know what i mean..