Marriage & Divorce - 25 July 2006

I JUST WANT HER TO TRY NEW THINGS. SHE DOESNT THINK SHE'S UGLY OR ANYTHING JUST SHY I GUESS!! SHE'S NOT FAT, SHE'S NOT SMELLY.....I JUST CANT FIGURE IT OUT..

2006-07-25 09:43:16 · 27 answers · asked by lostdog2120 1

I mansi singh,my birthdate is1st march 1981and i was born in india place is meerut ,my birthtime is 04:39 pm

2006-07-25 09:41:42 · 16 answers · asked by mansi s 1

on the hose to start the siphon to empty the basement. It flooded over the weekend. My wife is such a hard worker, I'm glad for that. Sometimes I feel guilty that she has to work. Do you feel that way about your wife or significant other?

2006-07-25 09:37:46 · 21 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

Yr wife is pregnant. the doctor telling u: we have big problems with that pregnancy. u need to choose - wife or kid coz we can save just one? who u will choose?

2006-07-25 09:34:40 · 27 answers · asked by Apple 1

If a guy is pakistani and the girl is arab, what do u think, will they marriage succeed? They communication through english though and both can speak english very well.

2006-07-25 09:34:25 · 12 answers · asked by Sona 1

2006-07-25 09:32:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-07-25 09:30:28 · 28 answers · asked by g 2

2006-07-25 09:27:44 · 15 answers · asked by suckowsgirl 1

My husband and I have been married for less than a year. When we were dating and were engaged (a year total), we loved to work out together. My husband was extremely fit and handsome, and I was attracted to him physically. I love him more than anything in this world, but I am not as attracted to him anymore since he has gained 60 pounds in the 9 months we've been married. I keep myself in great physical condition in order to keep him attracted to me, but he has completely let himself go. Instead of dressing up, he wears ratty clothes, he doesn't take care to make sure his hygiene is good before he tries to make love to me like he used to, etc. Now, as newlyweds, we are only being intimate once a month or so!

I feel terrible, and this is definitely putting a strain on our marriage. I have tried to cook healthful food, and workout with him but he ends up eating junk food at work and packing on more weight.

How should I approach this?

2006-07-25 09:25:47 · 34 answers · asked by upwinger1 2

when i first met my husband he use to take photos of me while i was sleeping. now he sneaks peaks under the covers and watches me while i sleep. the next morning he would pretend that nothing has happened. he thinks that i am not aware of what he is doing. i am kind of creeped out by this and want to know if this is a normal thing for a husband to do.

2006-07-25 09:23:11 · 13 answers · asked by sassydixie2001 1

Is it a matter of celibacy only or does it have anything to do with financial matters, i mean, it's easier to support a single priest instead of the whole family as well?

2006-07-25 09:22:00 · 8 answers · asked by Marcelo A 1

make yourself feel better about your life?

2006-07-25 09:20:59 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love my fat older wife.my wife is the best! she loves me.

2006-07-25 09:20:30 · 16 answers · asked by flat head & one eye 2

ok so ive been having problams with husband.. I feel i dont even kno him in fact i kno i dont ..wut would you get from him saying this ? I DONT WANT YOU TOO GET A JOB CUZ THEN YOU WoNT NEED ME ANYMORE??ok he has cheated lied and treated me like im not good enough at anything i do for him he treats me like im a lil kid yells and acts a fool .. i am not secure in our marriage for various reasons but i do care for this man as we do share a child of 7 together ..ive stood by him thru it all and forgave him but didnt forget of course and im trying my hardest to keep our family together as i did take vows with this man ..i just dunno what he wants from me ? i stay home everyday he dont want me working or even having friends so i respect that he has dinner done wen he's home from work ect.. i dont cheat ..i am very committed to him obviously..why would he want me to feel this way? is it cuz he feels badly inside to

2006-07-25 09:19:34 · 6 answers · asked by heartbrokenthensum 1

2006-07-25 09:16:53 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

had seen before....outside our tent was a black bear, but it was scared and ran off as soon as we opened the flap. I'm glad I married a nature lover, she just loves the outdoors. Do you like to go camping with your wife, or significant other?

2006-07-25 09:16:29 · 9 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-07-25 09:08:56 · 33 answers · asked by M. A 1

Ive been married for 12 yrs. His mother and sister are always in the middle of our marrage. They dotn like me I know that. In public however they make it seem like they do so ppl can think they are the best inlaws. Behind closed doors they treat me like **** make comments about how my husband can do better. I have talked to him over and over. He says im over reacting and jelous of them adn their love for them. One time my mother in law even told me how nice it would be if his sister and him werent related cuz they looked so good together. Im sick and tired of them and getting pretty tired of him thinking im jelous of them and defending them. Seems im last priorty to him. We have 2 kids whom my in laws only want to see them when they want. Im contemplating divorce dont know what else to do. What do yall think?

2006-07-25 09:00:00 · 23 answers · asked by budlghtbabe76 2

would care if I bought the Harley. She's always wanted a motorcycle too. So I bought it today. Do you think she was lying about wanting a motorcycle? Do women really like bikes?

2006-07-25 08:58:13 · 16 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

what will you simply look for,aside love, before getting into marriage?

2006-07-25 08:55:36 · 9 answers · asked by MissyFlexsy 2

2006-07-25 08:52:57 · 38 answers · asked by Lost Angel 6

2006-07-25 08:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by heidi a 1

2006-07-25 08:51:13 · 3 answers · asked by firewolf175 2

a bit of glue to the patch and the tire was fixed. Soon I'd be racing in the hot sun again. I've taken up bmx cross biking. My wife says it'll stop me from being so goofy and abnormal. I think she's wrong, what do you think?

2006-07-25 08:46:38 · 10 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

The misses and I got in a spat last night. I got into bed and wanted to go to sleep. She barged into the bedroom threw on the light and began working on the computer at a high volume - "If I can't sleep your not going to sleep". Another time we got into a pillow fight literally. I was in bed again and she came over and grabbed my pillow but I grabbed it back then we had a tug of war. We were in a fight with each other but I was roaring with laughter watching her tug the pillow from me. Incidentally, she won!

2006-07-25 08:45:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband thinks am a big headache for him..mainly because i spend more money as i was bought up in a rich family. I am trying my level best to be succesful in becoming stingy but i end up spending some money as i succumb to some of my desiers sometimes. I also ask him to help me out with household work as am not used to cook/clean/study do everything by myself. We had housemaids in my family bfore marriage. He does help me but but is always upset and expects me to do all work! Am a masters student and stay at home morning and have classes in evenings also i have tremendous workload from college. he works outside and says he gets tired to commute and get home and help me. What do i do? Am i really a headache...i have changed a lot...i spend a lot less money now and i work at home a lot...but still i wonder ...you know it hurts when someone who you love so much says such things that hurt your soul...hope you understand my pain...someone please advice

2006-07-25 08:45:01 · 7 answers · asked by Someday 3

My wife and I are religious, so we waited until after marriage to have sex. We were madly in love for 4 years, and then got married. It turned out that though her face is beautiful, her body is quite the opposite! I knew she was a little heavy, but she had said that she was going to lose weight. Now she turned out a lot fatter than I imagined, and no longer wants to lose weight. She has big saggy breasts that look like my mothers. It's really hard for me to be sexually attracted to her. Is there anything I can do about this?

I know it shouldn't be this important, but I had big hopes, and it seems like they are all shattered. To never be able to see and touch a beautiful woman as long as I live, that's a very difficult thing to accept as a man!

2006-07-25 08:41:17 · 39 answers · asked by Yes 3

If you are both miserable, why is it OK to subject your children to it every day? Do you honestly believe that children are more OK with you being together and miserable than with you separated but happy?

2006-07-25 08:40:52 · 11 answers · asked by Blunt Honesty 7

I was married to a man for six years. We had two children together in that time. We got a divorce, and I met someone else and got remarried. I've never been so happy in my life, but my kids were miserable. So I divorced my husband and went back to my kids father. My kids are totally happy now and glad that we are a family again. I know that I'm doing the right thing for my children, but I'm so unhappy. Thier father is a good guy, and he really does love me. I can't stop thinking about my ex. Will I ever get over him? Is it fair to my kids dad to remarry him when I'm in love with someone else? Do I just wait until my kids are grown (my youngest is three) and then try and find happiness again? No smart remarks please, I'm really miserable here.

2006-07-25 08:35:47 · 32 answers · asked by Steph D 2

2006-07-25 08:33:55 · 69 answers · asked by Anonymous