2006-07-25 09:32:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
wait till she has her period then have sex
2006-07-25 09:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa R 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You can't fake being a virgin... once it's gone, that's it.
She should be worried about a bigger problem than her virginity... the fact that she's lying to her fiance. If she can't have a truthful & open relationship with him now, then their marriage doesn't stand a chance. You should never lie to your spouse about anything. Even if it takes years, the truth will come out eventually. Her fiance will be more hurt & angry if he finds out the truth AFTER they are married. It will probably make him less trusting of her. Anything she needs to tell him, like not being a virgin, she should tell him NOW!
2006-07-25 16:42:31 · answer #2 · answered by .·:*RENE*:·. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can't fake being a virgin, best thing i could think of is for her to act the way she did when she lost her virginity the first time... or be honest and tell her husband to be that she is not a virgin
2006-07-25 16:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by uniqueniky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women bleed on their first intercourse. I was a virgin and didn't bleed at all. Not at the moment, but days later, I was spotting.
Plus why would she have to fake it? If they're getting married, she should have been honest with him from the start.
2006-07-25 17:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She can't fake it, here's the thing though if her spouse were to say anything bout her "cherry" poppin all she needs to say is not every girl has a "cherry". She should try not to act too expierenced also. Why is she holding this back from him anyway. If they're getting married shouldn't he know that she is not a virgin??
2006-07-25 16:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by hunniebun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to own up and tell her husband the truth. She can't fake being a virgin. You would hope she would want to tell the truth to the man she loves anyway, but if for no other reason his health may be at risk and he needs to know it.
2006-07-25 16:36:34 · answer #6 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why fake it? She can just have surgery, like a mother of six is planning to do. As Sir Walter Scott once said "oh what a tangled web we weave when first we practice to deceive." You can bet that starting out the marriage with a lie does not exactly bode well for her future as a trustworthy wife.
2006-07-25 16:41:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if she is unwilling to admit to her new love that she is not a virgin, methinks perhaps there is not nearly enough openess and honesty in that relationship to warrant getting married in the first place. Marriage is supposed to be the one place above all that you feel loved, accepted, and joined together in mutual trust. If that isn't the case, this relationship is on shaky ground before it even gets started.
2006-07-25 16:37:03 · answer #8 · answered by runninggirl23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okie dokie. She can just lie there and tighten up making sex difficult. Unother than that, I can't think of anything. Tampons and a lot of activities we do today compromise the hymen covering and making it impossible to really tell a female is a virgin.
2006-07-25 16:37:10 · answer #9 · answered by midnightdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her fiance' has had sex before,then he will know,that she is not a virgin. Tell your cousin,to let him know that she is not a virgin. If that is what he's looking for,but willing to accept his "experienced" new bride,then honesty is the best policy.
2006-07-25 16:40:25 · answer #10 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves him she will tell him the truth.. Starting a marriage with a lie is wrong and not healthy for the future. But if she really must she can go to her gynecologist and he can sow it back up for her so it will look as if she never broke it in the first place.
2006-07-25 16:57:15 · answer #11 · answered by kat_burk76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋