what will you simply look for,aside love, before getting into marriage?
2006-07-25 08:55:36 · 9 answers · asked by MissyFlexsy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
People marry for different reasons. Not everyone marries for love.
If you love this person and are considering marrying this person (I think this is what you're asking), observe how this person treats other people, treats YOU, how this person interacts with family (yours and theirs), and how this person manages life.
Write down a relationship vision. List all the things you're willing to accept/not accept. List the required qualities you need in a person to be happy in that relationship. Don't deviate from your vision & you'll find the one you need.
2006-07-25 09:09:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are other things than love. What about compatibility, ability to communicate, romance, level of responsibility and I could go on and on. At times we love individuals beyond measure but we just cannot work together as couples.
2006-07-25 16:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by joebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, the comfort
the inexpressible comfort of feeling safe with a person,
having neither to weigh thoughts,
nor measure words - but pouring them
all right out - just as they are -
chaff and grain together -
certain that a faithful hand will
take and sift them
keep what is worth keeping
and with a breath of kindness
blow the rest away
2006-07-25 16:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by slippped 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It helps makes marriage a lot more interesting/more enjoyable, if both people have a lot in common, also if they share the same hopes & dreams.
2006-07-25 15:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compatibility, the same values, the same religious beliefs, physical appearance, the fun factor, lots of stuff really
2006-07-25 16:01:04 · answer #5 · answered by on my way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship. I am best friends with my husband. It's extremely important to me that I am married to my best friend.
comfort
support
strength
security
laughter
affection
protection
respect
there is so much that goes into a marriage.
2006-07-25 16:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by mr and mrs gee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man that gets along with his family. Usually, how a man treats his mother, he will treat YOU.
A man that is "stable".........doesn't have to be rich, just has to be a hard worker......
2006-07-25 15:58:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That you can openly communicate with that person, and trust them.
2006-07-25 15:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by heatherdrake2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
compatibility, credit ,hereditary diseases and of course money...not sure if that answers YOUR question but thats wat i'd look for..lol
2006-07-25 16:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by t_williams114 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋