2006-07-25 09:30:28 · 28 answers · asked by g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's probably not healthy. I think your mind and life need time to settle before starting something new.
2006-07-25 09:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of "talking" are you doing? Is your motive for "talking" to this person a way to begin a sexual relationship or is it platonic? If the answer is to start a sexual relationship... you need to back up.
You will truly need some healing time and beginniing a sexual relationship is so... "NOT" what you need at this point. You should consider talking to someone definitely...
Suggestion: Counselor, Therapist, or Pastor.
Don't get caught up with that right now... because if you do it will no doubt be a definite set up for more misery. TRUST!
2006-07-25 16:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait until your divorce is finalize. But hey talking isn't bad, however I really would wait before getting serious with someone new. You never carry extra baggage into a new relationship. Give yourself a chance to free your head of a bad marriage and unnecessary nonsense from your soon-to-be-ex.
2006-07-25 16:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by kerik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends. If your marriage has been over mentally and emotionally, you're probably ready to move on. If you're really still heartbroken or hurt, you should wait. Remember, it takes a patient kind of person to deal with a divorce, even on the sidelines. Not to mention, dpending on the type of person that your ex is, your ex might turn on this new person in an effort to hurt you.
2006-07-25 16:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be wrong to talk to someone? I'd say it would be wrong to be shacking up with someone while you are going thru a divorce, but no, they can't throw the book at you for talking to someone.
2006-07-25 16:34:06 · answer #5 · answered by wild1handy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your going through a divorce, make your self happy. It's completely ok to talk and possible date even if your going through a divorce. Don't worry talk away.
2006-07-25 19:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by SJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong to talk, but only talk. You are a easy prey now. I know how is . You can feel lonely and vulnerable now. Just have friends for now. Go on dates and don't take them home. Hurry up with that divouse. Good Luck
2006-07-25 16:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by madison t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are absolutely 200% sure you are not going back to your old spouse,by all means go for it. Best of luck to you. My wife and I were married for 23 yrs and got a divorce.Both of use remarried withn the following 2 years.If you have kids,don't make them an issue. Good luck.
2006-07-25 16:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. That's why they are doing the divorce to get to know new people.
2006-07-25 17:07:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess what matters is the intention of starting a new relationship. If this person is someone which would give you the support you need, then I say go for it.
2006-07-25 16:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by MellyMae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋